🦷 he who snaps and bites 🦷

— if any of these have already been coined, consider it an alt-flag.

tags : @desirdae-archive

desirshwrchair {desire - shower - chair} : for someone who desires to have and use a shower chair for their disability, but is unable to for any reason.

desirecane {desire - cane} : for someone who desires to have and use a cane for their disability, but is unable for any reason.

desirwhlchair {desire - wheel - chair} : for someone who desires to have and use a wheelchair for their disability, but is unable to for any reason.

desirbrace {desire - brace} : for someone who desires to have and use a joint brace for their disability, but is unable to for any reason.

desirrollator {desire - rollator} : for someone who desires to have and use a rollator for their disability, but is unable to for any reason.

✙ cosmainull : a gender that feels at home with the stars & being from space or from a star in some way, also being influenced by looking at the stars. it can feel ‘ empty ’ & void-like, yet comfortable.

⠀⠀⠀⠀┄⠀physcrooked / — crooked 。

⠀⠀⠀⠀❜ ⁔ a term for when one's physical self does not align when one's internal appearance, therfore feeling as if they have or are certain traits. this flag is meant to be used as a base for any other terms! this is NOT a radqueer flag, moreso for anyone who feels in this way in any sort. please tag me in any coining of subterms! i'd love to see your creations! flag template below the cut ♡

⠀⠀⠀⠀‎◌ ׁ ⢔ ⊂ thank you @rwuffles for the flag idea! - @disrealities @cloverpilled @puriette @puptoys

desirfamily - a desirdae term for those who desire/yearn/want to have different family members. this term is pro-nonharmful transitioning and anti-radqueer.

desirscarred - a desirdae term for those who desire/yearn/want to have a scar, or multiple scars. this term is pro-nonharmful transitioning and anti-radqueer.

CLAUSTRAMOR

Claustramor is a label for those who have trouble expressing or feeling romance and/or sexual intimacy, but may desire it. This may be due to: asexuality and aromanticism, trauma, and/or anything significant that may affect the way you express/feel attractions.

Claustramor is a label with multiple definitions! The use of this label may vary from each person using it.

Here is a few examples of how one may use the definition: ex1: Claustramor in the sense that you crave romance and/or sexual intimacy, but cannot actually feel it. ex2: Claustramor in the sense you crave romantic and/or sexual relationships but cannot enter or stay in one for one or more reasons. ex3: Claustramor in the sense you feel as if your attractions have a barrier that prevents you from being in a relationship fully.

The name "Claustramor" comes from the combination of the latin words "Claustra" and "Amor"

The flags stripes do not necessarily have any stripe meanings. I have designed it in a way to where it may be interpreted in different ways, but there is some meaning to some of the flag. The main meaning in the heart with a lock on it, signifying that there may be something preventing, possibly holding back the attractions. The thinner black bars may represent the lack of attractions, or may signify a barrier between the attractions. This flag and term is highly personal to me. I have struggled with my attractions for years, and have never found a term that quite fit me right to describe the way my attractions are. You are free to use this label if it fits you, but please use it with care. <3

Realized there wasn’t a word for this so I’m making one.

Destresexual: someone who has experienced trauma and is only sexually attracted to others when not triggered. Usually with sexual assault related trauma but doesn’t have to be.

Comes from the old French word “destrecier” meaning distress.

I can tell it stinks in there (🦶🦶🦶)

I'm a full believer that Larry can be such a pain in the ass from time to time he makes Sal lose his shit lol (he still loves him tho)

Gay: experiencing homo attraction; umbrella term for those attracted to the same gender or similar genders (alike their own); homo-/simul-/simili-.

a desirdae term for those that desire/yearn/want to be Irish in some way.

Reasons might include :

Having an Irish family, but growing up outside Ireland

Being a headmate who's Irish

Atypical dysphoria

this term is strictly anti-rq and supports ethical transition

desirAMAB - a desirdae term for those who desire/yearn/want to be AMAB. this term is pro-nonharmful transitioning and anti-radqueer.

DESIRSMOKER

A term under the desirdae umbrella for when someone desires/wants/yearns to smoke. This could be due to struggling to stay sober, intrusive thoughts, having headmates who are smokers in headspace/in source, atypical dysphoria, etc.

Desirdae is strictly anti-transids/radqueer and only supports safe and ethical transitioning.

A desirage term for those that desire/yearn/want to be an adult.

Some reasons for this might be:

- growing up too fast

- being chronosian

- trauma

- etc

A desirdae term for those that desire/yearn/want to act on their intrusive thoughts.

Desirdae is strictly anti harmful transitioning!

Requested by: anonymous

A desirdae term for those that desire/yearn/want to have fangs.

Some examples of using this might be:

- alterhumanity

- atypical dysphoria

- etc

Requested by @hibiscuspearswithopaljuice