Who's going to make the violins?

+ suriname!! 🇸🇷

we're far too culturally obsessed with men who are mean and rough around the edges but turn out to be big softies underneath it all when, in reality, most men who are like this are simply dicks

Idiots to lovers implies that they stop being idiots when they finally get together, but that is just not true, they will always be idiots

Idiots (pining) to idiots (dating)

idiot to usdiot

you'll feel like a total dipshit train wreck and no matter what some girl is gonna see you and think "role model". you can't kill yourself you have to go be clocky in the gas station so a 14 year old can have the trajectory of her life altered forever

Being clocky when i was working as a barista was one of my big joys. Being clocky when i was teaching high schoolers how to play the marimba was my reason for being for half a decade. It sucks how scared I am to leave the house I live in now. But I still need to try and be clocky at the grocery store. I wish i had a job to be clocky at. Being visibly me is one of the most radical acts I'm capable of, and I hope that one day we live in a world where it isn't radical at all.

that's exactly what I was feeling when I wrote this. we all find ways to defy our fear, love is an excellent motivator.

[ID: Tags reading "#felt like shit at my endo appointment today because of other stuff going on #but trans girl in the waiting room was super happy to see me as a much further along in transition girl just existing openly #kinda changed my day #and she called me pretty so that helped lmao" /End ID]

doing things at the right age is literally a made up concept. you can start/pursue anything at any age. btw.

you have to forgive the printer because it's one of the most machine-ass machines we interact with on a day to day basis. that thing says kerchunk. hardly anything says kerchunk these days. you can't get mad at her when she kerchunks up a little.

"thought crimes aren't real, it's your actions that matter" and "your mindset informs how you treat others, so you should try not to have a shitty one" are another pair of things that are both true btw

google used to know what i was talking about