female presenting

i cant talk shit on dr who as if i didnt get my ass handed to me by that vincent van gogh thing 9 years ago

I’ve had this queued since January

this has been queued since 10 pm on December 24th

you don’t hate winter, you hate living an atomized existence where you get up and go to your shitty job rather than sit inside under a fire with your kin telling stories, eating, and playing

Capitalism: go to work 10000 years of evolution: stay home and spin wool and yarns

Nah I actually just fucking hate winter

fuck yeah

Power move.

one of the most aesthetically beautiful displays of protest i’ve seen

reblog if you’ve never used the braincell

the what

yeah

mr hozier PLEASE cover toxic by britney spears mr hozier PLEASE

man like. being lgbt kind of ruins time with relatives in a very specific way that cishets will never truly experience. like family time can be rough tm but theres a special brand of discomfort that lgbt people face and it’s kinda wild

It’s the specific feeling of “these people’s love is entirely conditional, and I know exactly what the conditions are, and one day I’m gonna have to bite the bullet and come out and none of these people will love me anymore”. It’s not a feeling cishet ppl experience for obvious reasons.

Even with family that Accepts You tm, theres always this level of “I can only talk about being gay so much before it gets Uncomfortable. I cant actually talk about dating bc someone will look like they ate a raw lemon whole eventually until I’m told I’m oversharing and then conversation will turn to Perfect Cousin with her Perfect Husband and When Are We Going To See Babies? Are they trying? How often? And just….its annoying that it still has to be Rough tm when u do come out and for the most part ur still loved an accepted, but u cant actually talk about it too much, even in the sense of Finding Someone or Boo Evil Politics bc ppl will STILL get visibly uncomfortable

I went on this retreat focusing on understanding love and recognizing it in your life etc etc and I (the only queer person in the room) told my group that I don’t believe unconditional love exists and they thought I was out of my mind!! All of their retorts were along the lines of “it does exist because your family loves you unconditionally!” and I had to explain this Uncomfortability to them and they just could not wrap their heads around the idea. It was so mind blowing for me to see this in action.