right into you

i think one of the biggest problems i have with getting stuff done is i assume it’s easy for other people. like “she gets up at six every morning because she’s a morning person” or “yeah, he can run five miles every day but he likes running” or “she knows five languages, her brains just wired differently than mine” when in reality it’s all about discipline for everyone. like yeah, some people have natural aptitudes for some things but anyone that’s accomplishing anything is putting in the work. achievements don’t come easy, and i think if i start acknowledging that it’s like that for everyone i can stop making excuses

Cheap plane tickets, that’s all I ask for

*no one asked* me: so what happened was,

the fact women are viewed as being more sexy at 15 than 40 is the creepiest thing in the world

2017: the year of women replacing men in major roles, female super heroes breaking records, and the black panther trailer

not to start any drama but once you realize that you do not need men to be happy/complete/sexually satisfied & that their roles in the lives of women have been greatly exaggerated, you open your life up to a quiet and peaceful independence. i appreciate that you can want men and love them, but you don’t need them for a single solitary thing, not even to become a mother, and once i understood that i added 548 years to my life expectancy

honestly i dont even play an active role in my life shit just happens and im like oh is this what we’re doing now ok