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Vibetive

An alter/headmate/part/etc whos "source" is a "vibe"- either the concept of a "vibe", or their appearance/"source" (for those that still consider themselves introjects) was chosen based on vibes.

For example- we have a lot of fragments who, when developing identities, will choose a specific character/image/source that they simply vibe with.

Yes, I have my issues with the radnormal label, but even with those issues I disagree with the tactic of trying to replace it with something "better".

As much as you all might hate it, it's best to just leave them be. Making these labels, constantly posting about hating radqueers, even if it's true, just reinforces their world view. What we're doing is pushing vulnerable people deeper into harmful ideology. They talk about how "anti rqs are evil and will hate you" and we're proving that to them right now.

If you want people to be better, start by no longer feeding into what's keeping them in this harmful state.

1. even if you could create your own “headmates,” (calling them headmates for the sake of conversation since you can’t consciously create alters,) why would you? you do know when you’re creating a system, (which you can’t do but again for the sake of argument,) you’re technically signing a Terms and Conditions you didn’t read the fine print to that says “this headmate can intrude on you when you don’t want them to, do shit you’d rather them not do, speak in headspace when you’re trying to focus, and take control of your body when you want to be in control” right? because in CDDs, which being willo is a ripoff of, your headmates aren’t just friends or roleplay. they’re actual, sentient, independently functioning parts of you that you have to live with. in a real CDD there’s not always privacy in your own head and it can get very distracting when the front is packed. it’s not the party in your head you think it is

2. no, you cannot just build a headmate. if our host could just pick and choose what he wanted us to be like half of us wouldn’t exist and there would be a lot more consistency in aesthetics and behavior. that’s why DID and OSDD are disorders, because they cause distress, because you can’t control every aspect of it.

3. stop collecting fictional characters and roleplaying my guys. even fictive heavy CDD systems don’t get excited to finish off splitting the last of a show’s characters smh. roleplaying fictional characters and calling it “switching” and “fronting” only makes us fictive heavy systems look ridiculous. being fictive heavy is actually kinda common and look what endos have done, appropriated that too

4. I’m not doubting you have trauma my guy I’m just saying you’re not endogenic

Anti-Endo CDD flag!!

Based on the poll, this was the most popular option for the anti-endo CDD flag!

And here is the symbol itself as well:

Anti-Endo CDD symbol!!

I already explained both the symbol and the color choices on the previous poll post!

next I will be trying to make a mascot for this flag and stuff, too!

feel free to tag us in any creation using this flag and/or symbol :D

⚠️ This term is exclusive to traumagenic systems. Do NOT upload to Pluralpedia. Archival welcome and encouraged ⚠️

An ego-dystonic persecutor is a persecutory alter who harms another alter or the entire system by representing, behaving, or being against their beliefs, morals, ethics, wants, etc. (Example: A system is anti-generative AI, but their ego-dystonic persecutor actively uses it in order to cause distress to them.)

Ego-dystonic: "of or relating to aspects of one's behavior or attitudes viewed as inconsistent with one's fundamental beliefs and personality".

Does this term/flag already exist? Consider mine a recoin/reflag!

Flag design notes under the cut!

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Unbound Subsystem

A type of subsystem where its members are capable if "exiting" their subsystem and "entering" the "main" system, as well as "returning".

Unbound Sidesystem

A type of sidesystem where its members are capable if "exiting" their sidesystem and "entering" the "main" system, as well as "returning".

Unbound Boundsystem

A type of boundsystem where its members are capable if "exiting" their boundsystem and "entering" the "main" system, as well as "returning".

If you look into it, the right definition would be "I'm took overwhelmed so I need someone to replace me" disorder

Also it can be:

A "This thing stresses me the hell out so I no longer will remember it even if I need to" disorder.

A "I don't know who I am most of the time" disorder

A "My trauma is a rotting wound that never heals" disorder

A "I never learned healthy ways to cope so I wake up with scars I don't remember having" disorder.

A "forget everything" disorder

A "Hightened risk of suicide/alcoholism/drug abuse" disorder

A "other parts of my self hate my guts and sabotage me (and themselves too in process)" disorder

A "I'm not sure whether those memories are real or a dream" disorder

A "I thought I was saying the truth but people say I'm lying" disorder

A "did I actually do it or just thought about it?" disorder

A "Being near some people or reading something even briefly mentioning/implying my trauma makes me spiral" disorder

A "I'm so depressed I can't get out of bed and haven't showered in weeks" disorder

the point of trauma-holders is to insure memory fragmentation, not to "deal with trauma".

"Memory fragmentation occurs to protect the brain from the trauma it endures and is the brain’s way of trying to heal." (Kylie Hamacher, 2026.) (feel free to dm me for my source on this if you can't find it!! XD)

some parts might be more tolerant of healing with access to it, but trauma-holders literally develop from the severe trauma that traumagenic systems go through. they develop as a means to shut-off those memories to ensure functional life for the system. watering down trauma-holders to just "oh we remember things" is inherently ableist to systems who have suffered so much.