i ended up liking how gendered french is solely because i can say that i want people to use he/him pronouns for me the same way they use it for angels, blood and blunts
i asked a trans friend to give me her fem version of this and she said that people should use she/her with her the same way they use it for the sea, flesh and stuffed toys
I donāt speak French but I speak Spanish and Iām nonbinary so the whole gendered language thing isā¦ difficult. I couldnāt get this post out of my head and so I wrote a poem. It's a first draft but i just had to get it out there
Itās called āMasculino como el amor, femenino como la espadaā
Si tienes que usar el masculino conmigo, usa el masculino cĆ³mo lo usas para el azĆŗcar para el lobo el amor y el mar. Pero si tienes que usar el femenino, Ćŗsalo cĆ³mo lo usas para la tierra para la anaconda la guerra y la mar. LlĆ”mame masculino cĆ³mo el dĆa cĆ³mo el melocotĆ³n el pecho y la cometa. O, llĆ”mame femenino cĆ³mo la noche cĆ³mo la piedra la leche y la mano. Masculino cĆ³mo el viento, femenino cĆ³mo la tormenta. El hueso, la sangre. El mito, la magia. El sol, la luna. Si tienes que usar el masculino conmigo, o si tienes que usar el femenino, llĆ”mame femenino con la boca y la lengua o llĆ”mame masculino con los dientes y los pulmones. O si puedes llĆ”mame por mi nombre. LlĆ”mame yo.
Translation: Masculine like love, feminine like the sword
If you have to use the masculine for me, use the masculine like you use it for sugar for the wolf love and the sea. But if you have to use the feminine, use it like you use it for earth for the anaconda war and the sea. Call me masculine like the day like the peach the chest and the comet. Or, call me feminine like the night like the stone the milk and the hand. Masculine like the wind, feminine like the storm. The bone, the blood. The myth, the magic. The sun, the moon. If you have to use the masculine for me, or if you have to use the feminine, call me feminine with your mouth and your tongue or call me masculine with your teeth and your lungs. Or if you can call me by my name. Call me myself.
no one speak to me this poem cut me open
alsdkfjalsdkj thaaaaanks! I made a few typos but i'm fairly proud of it hehe
