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I was intending for my next trip to the tattoo shop to be for my villain sleeve, but I ended up taking a detour instead! My beau and I went to a spiritual fair and it had a tattoo artist there! I wish we had gotten there sooner but I saved the photo.
A couple of weeks passed and work got crazy busy, it was time! I went back to Chaotic Ink in Downey, CA and also brought my Gigi with me to have her get some work done. The design here speaks to me, it could almost be tribal but not disrespectful. A bird but symbolic, and drawn in the old language way. Like elder futhark.
I usually get more photos of the process but so far not this time.
Plan is to work on the other arm, but have that the edge of the inking area. By the time I am posting this, it is day 3 of 7 for healing.
Happy Mothers Day!
I know it’s been a minute! This is a belated post about my most recent tattoo! So I tried to do an item on my bucket list-get a Friday the 13th tattoo! I missed the first one this year but the next one was going to be mine! I went to the newer place in Bellflower/Downey but by the time me and my folks got there, and had waited for a couple of hours already-we were told the wait would be many more hours.
I decided to save the photo, as I fell in love with the design. Fast track a few weeks later, work got really busy and I needed some ink therapy! So I tried another shop in Downey and really liked it-I may even be able to bring my grandmother there to finish one of her tattoos!
Placement wise, I wanted to be able to see it. I smile when I look at it. Other people do too! It will be the edge of my to be villain sleeve.
Healing went well, as it usually does!
Shout out to Chaotic Ink for this and future work!
Next I want to add a coupe of classic villains and make this a proper half sleeve! Other ideas I am tossing around are: ludo, matching pickle tattoos, and sexy Patrick! The villains I am thinking of adding are-oogie boogie, chernabog, handsome jack, billy from saw, and a joker pin up!
12/2025-Holidays and Change!
The year is coming to an end, but not without a bombarding of the fall and winter holidays!
The holidays were so different this year! It is not like I didn't work full time before but being self employed and a house wife is different from being a full time HOA Manager and divorcee. Paid days off of work, like Labor Day, are wonderful times to move out of your families house and into your own trailer!
Other holidays you don't get off, like Halloween. We ended up moving again on Thanksgiving, but it made way more sense for our long term future. Also, I have gone to thanksgiving with my family every year (into my 30's) so in my head, missing one year did not seem like the end of the world.
We were really really really considering going on vacation for the holidays, and while it was the right thing to do between health and weather to stay local-I still mildly regret not doing so. But I was able to have some of my family time, some of his family time. I did get to experience something new and exciting-not only being spoiled by my partner but new traditions!
So, everyone in the family puts in some money and one family member puts 6x(the amount of people) gifts (gift cards, health or snack baskets). On christmas day, every draws six tickets and keeps one (one goes into the bowl). Someone starts by pulling a ticket and when your number is called-you pick or steal a gift. At the beginning, there is nothing to steal. When you get a gift, you show everyone what it is (in case they want it) and then draw another number. Items can only be stolen twice-so that third time the item is locked.
It was pretty nifty. We did that and then got presents for one another. New years comes pretty quickly after that. This year I am doing Color of Money at Linbrook, I did it last year and loved it. I get my partner to join me this time and honestly, I love the changes of my life.
2026 is just around the corner. In numerology, that breaks down to 10 or 1. 2025 was a heck of a year, and I for one am looking forward to seeing some of the fruits of my labor of setting up the lovely life I live and living it on my own terms. I don't know if I am going to do any resolutions yet. I know for sure I intend to travel more, work on my weight, and be mindful with my money!
I hope everyone has a wonderful 2026!

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Happy New Years Eve everyone! 2025 was a year of change and growth but I am very much looking forward to 2026! Wishing you and your family health, wealth, and happiness from me and my family! #newyearseve #newyears #december #january #countdown #bitmoji
12/2025-Ozzie as a Tattoo!
So it has been a year since I sent my wonderful Ozmas home to heaven, or released him from his physical form to join me as a ghost. Whichever resonates with you, it has been a long ass year.
I don't know how I got through that year. Most days are good, some days I still ball like it was yesterday. I started to wear his ashes on me and thought, I want him on me like he never left but at that time it was too soon.
Fast forward to December and I am like, its time. So I find a new tattoo shop-I don't mind driving a little bit away from home for a good artist but there is great local artists too. I decided upon American Iron Tattoo Company in Bellflower, CA. As a walk in, I worked with Gill and he was fantastic.
So, I chose the area he would always sit on my shoulder and climb up on me at. I used to have to hold him while I was cooking or cleaning because he never outgrew the habit of kitty hugs.
For design, I used the paw print I had of him (also tips-get paw prints while your animals are healthy and alive). We decided on simple for the design.
For healing, Gill had a different way of doing things:
Put the cling wrap on for 2 days
After 2 days, wash with dial soap and air dry
Wipe around the tattoo with rubbing alcohol
Put cling wrap on for another 3-4 days max
After day 4-the ink is fully healed
No worrying about sleeping on it bad or sun exposure. And it worked!
I wanted it to be healed in time for the anniversary of his passing and it was. It came out beautifully. It helps immensely, I don't know that I will ever stop missing him. But love be like that sometimes!
12/2025-CACM Certification
Some things changed and other things did not! I stayed in the property management field after my divorce but went to the HOA side of things!
CACM stands for California Association of Community Managers. It is like the DRE but for HOA's (and with nearly as much lobby power in government). Different from a Sales Person or Broker License, in the fact that vendors can also be CACM certified. There is even a new potential law stating managers of HOA will need to be licensed or certified.
So you start off with 3 classes: Ethics, Legal, and Basics. I loved that the classes were taught by professionals in the field and available online. Scheduling it around work amid multiple promotions was fun but there is never a "good" time to do what needs to be done. One just makes time.
I did one class at a time, plus there is a cost to be a member and take the classes. But I got it done! I currently hold the record for quickest to get certified in the company, but there is a new employee that may beat me to that punch. I love that the environment is conducive to growth for everyone!
I am currently still licensed as a sales associate, and might keep both-who knows what will come in handy or make more sense. But it is a good reminder that it is never too late to learn or go back to school! But make your education work for the life you are living!
Now Playing: Hunt A Killer!
It is so dangerous to go shopping with your partner! You find stuff you don't need and it is hard to stay on budget! But we found the Hunt A Killer games in the clearance section at Walmart and ended up finding a game we really loved to play together!
So, let's start with the gist of the game. You have a murder, cold or fresh, and you are given the clues and told to find who did it. You are looking for someone who means, motive, and opportunity. Only downside to this is the lack of replay value. But this is fun for couples or families.
Here is the list of titles:
The Haunting at Wicker Ridge: This is an easy one, but stumped us a little bit.
Game Night Gone Wrong
Lakeside Slaughter The Last Vacation
A Wealth of Murder
The Final Act Murder At The Talent Show
The Girl In The Well: This is an easy one and we did this to get our feet wet.
Homicide at the Heist
Murder At The Motel: This is a medium one and we got super close to figuring it out but did need a little bit of help.
Death At The Dive Bar
RIP At The Rodeo
Dead Below Deck
Body On The Boardwalk
Dead On The Vine
Camp Calamity
Supernova
There is more here on the site: https://www.huntakiller.com/
Look at everything when you do this, even if it is to remove someone as a suspect. Often time it looks really good for someone to have done it but they don't due to not having opportunity and means.
We plan to send these to someone else to do, pass the love of whodoneit around! People are making great content with this on Social Media too! Have you played any of these titles? There is enough competition that one could have a whole sub section for murder mysteries on the game aisle!
Story Time: RV 101
I have always loved Tiny Homes. Between being a renter for the majority of my life, a home owner for part, and a creative soul-going tiny is not much of a stretch for one like me. Recently, as I have just divorced my spouse, I have reentered the work force and looked into moving out. To be on the other side of leasing is…gross to say the least. What you pay for, versus what you get, and how hard it is to find something that pays enough? Don’t even add in pets, WHICH EVERYONE HAS THESE DAYS. So, I said F It, why not own where I live and lease my space? (For now anyways…)
This is how I started my RV lifestyle. Yeah, I am one of those people and honestly-I can’t tell you when I was happier. So let’s start with why rent vs why buy a RV. Here is the scenario:
My partner and I are looking for a place, we have 2 cats. Realistically we only need one bedroom or even a studio. We both make money, but if one follows the general rule of “2-3 times the rent in income” then we are capped at about $1500 per month. Trying to find something that doesn’t actually cost more than that with pet rent/insurance, utilities, etc is impossible. Add in not great credit and a record-we could look but man what an exercise in futility.
So we sat and asked ourselves, how do we stay in budget but also be smart? I have some money, I put some down on a fifth wheeler and we looked for a place to park it. Why a RV? It essentially has everything you need to live, as long as you can plug in and hook up, do your laundry on site-its not that different than an apartment.
Renting:
1500 per month, plus utilities-it essentially goes to waste as you don’t see any return on that money spent.
RV:
Purchase the unit out right (if in budget) or put money down and get financing (this will build credit) and rent a space with hookups (eventually you could buy a space too).
Realistically, either way-we end up at about $1500-$2000 between all the other factors that eventually come into play. If you purchase an RV and have a payment of less than $500 and the space is $1500 plus utilities, then you open up to: owning your home, being able to rent it out, being able to sell it for money back, or being able to vacation/travel. Insurance for RV’s is about $500 per year.
It does take some maintenance to live in an RV-it’s different but not that drastically more compared to renting/home ownership. If you lived in a rental or owned a home, you are maintaining to some degree anyways. RV’s I think are unique in the way that you are maintaining a vehicle and a home. But once you are in the swing of things, its just another day in the RV life.
We got a fifth wheel, and there a couple of types of RV’s you can get. The maintenance tips below will be applicable to most types of RV’s but vary slightly depending on the type of RV.
Black water tank: this is what the toilet empties out to. This needs to be emptied once nearly full. It is simple enough to do so on your own: connect the hose, empty. Empty the gray tank next. Clean out the black tank with a dedicated hose and a cleaner. (There are services that will do this for you, or plug into a full hookup place)
Gray water tank: this is what the kitchen sink empties to. You would empty this after the black tank. You can connect to water lines for this. Each tank should have a dedicated hose.
Fresh Water Tank: You can connect or put water into the tank. Each tank should have a dedicated hose. Always use a water filter when plugging in.
Battery: You can have up to two 12 volt batteries. Plugging into power charges the battery. You can go off grid with solar, generator. There are 30 amp and 50 amp options. Always use a surge protector when plugging in.
Propane: There is typically two, you can use one if you need to refill the second one. You can get these filled most places.
Whether you are leasing or renting, you need some start up money. When one is leasing, unless you are leasing a furnished home-you need couches, dining table, chairs, kitchen stuff, bed, etc. When you have an RV, you have a different list:
Black tank hose
Black tank cleaner
Hose for black tank rinsing
Gray water tank hose
Fresh water tank hose
Surge protector
Water filter
Gloves for black tank
Storage for supplies
RV Toilet Paper
There are some stuff that are good to have but you can acquire as you go:
30 amp to 50 amp converter
Power extension cord (30 or 50 amp)
Wheel covers
Battery tester
Battery Charger
A second battery
Storage or bike racks for RV hitch
Generator
For the general house stuff, there is decent storage on a RV but you need to be smart where you can. So far for misc house stuff we need:
RV pans (I found some that the handle is removable, travels well)
Plastic ware (glass will break potentially with traveling)
Keurig (can be good for tea or coffee)
Bed sheets
Kitchen utensils
Paper Towels
Trash Can
Hamper
Some of that stuff I am sure you are thinking, if you have one already why do you need a new one, and the answer is-stuff for RV’s (depending on what it is) is made differently. Total so far is about $500-$750 to get set up in the RV. Furniture for leasing would be much more. Walmart is your friend, Harbor Freight, and so is your RV Dealership.
The unit will use gas, water, electric to run the unit as a whole. There are some adjustments to make if you are going to be on the road but it is not too bad really. We are using a family member’s truck to move the Casita to its final destination, but should we keep it-we plan on getting a truck to pull it. I would like to save up to pay the Casita off and then make truck payments.
This opens up the question of-do you stay or do you go? If I don’t want to lease, why lease a spot? Leasing is a great option in the short to medium term. Once you get medium to long term, that question has a different answer. At some point, it would be better to own the land you are on and the unit you are in. So, essentially for $200k, one could buy a unit to live in ($50k), a truck to pull it (if needed-$50k), and a spot to park it ($100k). OR, you could sell it and upgrade to a permanent mobile home. There are a lot of options, and that is part of the beauty of it.
For now, the question comes-where to park it. California, like anything else, seems to be picky about being RV friendly. The search for long term parking was kind of atrocious, but I was in for shifty search experience either way (leasing or RV’ing). But I kid you not, I made a google sheet for this.
For location reference, I am in California (SoCal) and my finding was one of the following:
Limit of 6-25 Weeks (at a time)
No answer at all
Water, Sewer, WIFI, and Trash were included/Electric was usually sub metered
Age restricted (older communities)
Amenities tend to include minimal parking, pool, and laundry
We actually got into one, and it wasn't bad. But we were on the wait list for like 5 or so. As the move in day for the original one was coming up, we got a call that one of the wait list ones had an opening. I called back right away and we told the other one we were no longer interested. On labor day, the unit was moved from my family's house to the spot.
It has been really nice so far. Still working on pairing down, settling in, and all the after homework of moving out. But no regrets and looking forward to going home, wherever I choose to park it!

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Story Time: Divorce 101
I have used Tumblr as a venting source but also found healing in sharing knowledge that someone else could possibly use. I recently helped my mom finish her second divorce, and while I had a clue it might be relevant to me-I did not realize it would be this soon.
Background:
Prior to my current relationship, I had a few partners over the years. As a teenager, I was not really allowed to date by my parents. As a kid I thought that was weird-my friends were sleeping around and dating, and I wasn't a bad kid. Looking back I am pretty grateful for that, dating is hard and doesn't need to be combined with being a kid. My first boyfriend was a long distance relationship with a guy from Kentucky, Jake. Nice guy, still friends. He took me to prom. But long distance is hard.
Next boyfriend was more local, at one point, Chris. I was graduating college around this time. He ended up moving out of CA after his dad kicked him out, rightfully so, and moved to be with his mom in NV. I followed him and we moved in together. We got engaged, and while I was dress shopping in CA with my mom-he was already bored and looking for someone "more exciting". He now has a wife and kids, good for him.
I almost moved back home but I met my next partner, Josh. We were both a settle, he wanted to be with his friend and I had a good job out there I didn't want to give up. I loved living in NV, I vacationed in NorCal so moving there was easy. I would have been better with one of his friends but I needed enough of the wrong relationships to learn what the right one has. We did not last long at all. He was me making all the "wrong" choices and deciding for myself, what was right and wrong.
After this time I delve a little bit into experimental phase, what I was doing before wasn't working so try something with different intention. But my nephew was born and I knew that if I was going to be a good aunt, I needed to be local. I moved back to CA.
Once back to CA, I moved in with family. There was a family friend who I tried dating, and while he told me right away "If I don't end up with someone by X age, my friend and I are getting married". Well, that ended up happening but I learned I valued spirituality in my partner. I also crossed an item off my bucket list, but don't ask me the guys name.
Marriage:
Once back in CA and ready to enter the dating field, I went to online dating. I really do miss the old days where you could find a DECENT person in PERSON. But I did it, and I met my current/former partner, G. We met online, started talking. A week later I let him have my phone number, a week later we called, a week later we went out. I walked multiple blocks to have him be local to me but not know where I live. We started going out, and started dating in 11/2016.
We moved in together to a house he picked and bought in Spring 2017. He is the oldest of 3 brothers, who at the time were all a mom's house. Not everyone got along so while we were figuring out how to play house-his youngest brother moved in with us. We ended up getting engaged in 12/2017. I took 3 months to plan a wedding, and let me tell you-that sounds short but any longer and that wedding would have undergone 10 more personality changes.
We are married in 3/2018. From there, with BIL still living with us, we start our family struggle. My infertility journey starts here officially. From other posts you will know we did not succeed. But along the way the relationship suffers from business failures/workaholic tendencies, lack of proper prioritization, and lack of effort. I have a sad theory that men, and I hope one day to find one that defies this, stop trying once they think they have "won" and "you can't run anymore" and the true self comes out.
Years come and go, we get to year 7 of the relationship and that is sadly where it is going to end. While I did everything I could and was as patient as I could be for "better days", he failed to take opportunities along the way to be a better partner for me. Also over the years I came into my own, cut my hair and pierced my ears and got tattoos-and that "wasn't the woman he married". The truth of the matter is he wants a family, I can't give it to him-I want freedom to be myself and someone to live life with and he doesn't have time.
Divorce:
So here I am in 2025 getting ready, as much as one can, to make a life changing decision. I start with making the choice to choose me no matter what that means to others. I ask my family if I can move in with them and then determine what I am going to take with me when I move. I make a plan and list of what I want to ask for and what needs to cancel/get reset up in my name. Planning to ask for money to get by until I have a job and look for a job in the meantime. It doesn't help that by this time the universe sends me someone else that gets me and slaps me in the face as being the "right" to my obvious "wrong".
But it is still such a hard thing to bring up. How? When? I decided the when, 2/2025 and 1/2025 would be all the prep time I was going to give myself. I figured out the plan mostly, but eventually the conversation had to be had so we started talking. I think it went well enough, for how good it could have gone. It comes down to incompatibility, growing apart, and being too different.
So the first and hardest conversation was had. He asked me for a week to consider things. In that week he had a lot of hard conversations with himself. He ended up apologizing and I appreciated that. It was my intention to not attack him but he did mess up, and only he could get himself to that realization. While he tried to compromise, I could not get over my lack of feelings. He asked me to extend the week to a "month trial" but I denied him.
From here, we started talking about settlements. I moved out and in with family, I stored some of my stuff there while I was "in between" gigs. The job market hella changed, but I have another post going out about that. We did the first step of filing and serving him, and from there the 6 month timer started. We finalized the financial agreement and I made the major decision to go back to my maiden name. Crazy huh?
So the 6 month clock ticks as I work. Everything changes and nothing is the same. After a couple of revisions, the paperwork comes back at month 5 as officially good to go-and September 2025 marks the "officially" single date. I talk to the lawyer and request a copy of the form to do my name change and look into a product called Hitch Switch to help me do it easier. But finding the time to do it, is a whole other monster in it's self. By the time the ink is finalized, I have moved my stuff into a storage unit-I really thought I had paired down before but I am getting ready to do so again!
Conclusion:
The other thing no one talks about is how different life is when you have a house, family (yours and theirs), and a combined life. When you cut a person out of your life, you cut their folks and your businesses' you built together, your friends. Some friends will talk to both parties but others won't. This makes for a temporary lonely state of affairs as you build the life of your dreams. Man, I can't tell you how much I am craving the chaos I used to know. But folks on both my side of the line and his side of the line showed their true feelings when shit hit the fan. Some of who was there before and who is there after is shocking a bit to me. But I am here for a different kind of chaos, bring it on!
For a little while, while I was gearing up to this point, I was concerned no one would want an infertile divorcee. But the right person will want you for you and appreciate what you have gone through. Life is too short to settle for anything.
7/2025-Finishing My 4th Tattoo!
Jacquimo and Bartok added to the crew, it was time to finish my IVF homage to my kiddos. While I am happy to have played on the fun side of tattoos for a little bit, I know that I started my ink journey to find courage and release as well.
So, my last implant was a girl-I named her Gladys after my great grandmother's mom. Ironic enough, we lost my great grandmother around the time my last implant failed. But I was waiting to finish her as I really wanted to honor the mosaics. In IVF if an embryo is missing a chromosome, it's called a mosaic. It means I could have risked having a special needs child. In the two egg retrievals-I probably had like 10 or so mosaics, but no doctor wanted to touch them. It may seem strange to some but it was not without a heavy heart that I let them go to the great beyond. But I wanted to honor them too.
Fast forward to me showing my boyfriend the saw series and saying I want the puzzle piece tattoo-that I realize a puzzle heart would be a cute way to honor them! I talked to my tattoo artist, Ronnie O, about it at one of the previous sessions and we booked it.
I love having my kids with me, in some form or fashion. It also feels really good to close that chapter right and live a life they would want to live with me. Everyone heals differently and this is how I heal. Just wait for my upcoming joker sleeve and divorce ink!
6/2025-My 6th Tattoo!
I know what you are thinking, I love the life I am living! Am I making up for lost time? Eh, maybe? But I love it. Don Bluth fan here, but more so than that-the timeless nature of the characters has always resonated with me. Also, Jacquimo needed a friend!
Cue in Bartok The Magnificent! He is a side character, comic relief in Don Bluth's/Disney's Anastasia. But then he eventually gets his own prequel.
He turned out soo good, he even made it to my artists page! AHHH. Anyways, it is so tempting to not get more Don Bluth characters on me but I look so nice in a tank top!
Ashlie Tsair turned 5 today!
#happyfourthofjuly ! Let freedom ring as we celebrate America. #independenceday #holiday #july #summer

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Happy belated Mother’s Day to everyone! Hope everyone appreciated their moms and mom’s mom both here and in heaven. #family #holiday #bitmoji #mothersday