Greyās Ultimate Guide To Passing As Male
Alright guys listen up. There are a lot of things on Tumblr about passing, so Iām gonna share my collection of tips.
Also, Iām pre-t, and I pass so donāt worry
Also, Iām a teenager, so thereās your age range
Thisāll be long, so here are the categories
Look at popular male styles, see what people have currently and use that as a guide
I find that a somewhat shaved back/sides with a short bang thing helps a lot
You know those little pointy bits by your ears ?
Take some scissors and cut those fuckers. Square them off so they have a blunt edge, not a pointy one
If you have naturally light hair, youāre fine. But if your hair is naturally dark, donāt bleach it. It honestly gives that stereotypical ālesbianā look that society identifies
If you wanna colour your hair, dark, stereotypical masculine colours are the way to go
Iāve done pretty well with red, blue, etc, but colours like purple have really fucked me over
Donāt fill your eyebrows, guys.
Use some coconut oil and make āem grow thicker if you have to, but keep it natural
Speaking of coconut oil, if you want facial hair then that stuff is cheap as fuck and super effective
Also, if you wanna shave your legs or sum, donāt worry about not passing. No one gives a fuck
Binders. You know, those things no one likes but we all need ?
Youāve heard this shit, but I recommend GC2B cause safety first and shit
Anyways, there are some good types to have
I would recommend half tank for summer. I usually use a half tank binder that matches my skin tone
For winter, either a nude full tank, OR a black one. if someone sees it, you can easily pass it off as a tank top
White full tanks are nice for both seasons. Again, pass it off as a tank top
This is here for the sake of my conscience
Honestly ? Underworks is too expensive and not that great
Donāt bind for more than 8 hours
Donāt wear 2 binders at once
Donāt put a binder on wet
Fitted teeās. theyāre slimming, make you look taller, and thatās how most guys wear them
Also graphic teeās are really popular, and hide your chest
Button downs are excellent, and look hella masculine
Just not flannels, cause those do the thing that makes society perceive you as a lesbian as opposed to a male
If you insist on a flannel, leave it open with a solid, grey tee underneath
These work for short and long sleeves, depending on the weather
Sweatshirts from Nike or Adidas or something are popular as fuck
Solid colour anything is good, really. Especially in neutral tones
Sportswear is super popular, anything dryfit or something
Muscle tankās are fucking amazing. Those fuckers with the thicker straps ? you loon tall and thin and manly and fit and they hide your binder so so so well
Jean jackets for men square out to body, and are really stylish. Just be careful, because womenās ones highlight your curves
Leather jackets are also really great, same rules apply
Bomber jackets can work, but you have to be careful of colours and styles. Look online at what other guys are wearing
You know those puffy, ribbed coats ? donāt wear those. You look tiny and they highlight curves and shit
Looser, menās jeans. Iād say go a tiny size up, and make sure their menās. Womenās jeans accentuate thighs and hips and shit. I recommend straight cut, but any style works. Blue and black are the obvious options
Track pants are great. Those black things with a white stripe ? Throw on a pair of those and a sweatshirt or something and you have a perfect outfit
Sweatpants. Easy, casual, straighten your legs, and paired with a sweatshirt you have another easy outfit
Cargo shorts straighten the legs, and arenāt really popular with girls
Jean shorts can be okay, but theyāre hard to style. They canāt be too tight or too long or too loose or too short. Try things on carefully, and look at what cis guys are wearing
Basketball shorts are common among cis guys. The hard part is making them work with your legs. If they donāt fit well, itās an easy way to get clocked, so be careful
These are kinda obvious, but you know how it is
Obviously tennis shoes. Thatās the most universal thing. Based on your style, cis guys go for a lot of overly obnoxious colours, but neutrals are also nice
Vans/converse. Again, pretty universal. the classic black ones, or something red or checkered is always a good choice. you canāt really go wrong with a skater shoe
Ankle boots are worn by a lot of cis guys. Just make sure they donāt have a heel and shit, you know ?
Cis guys wear two kinds of socks tbh. Those short, invisible ankle mother fuckers, or the weird, ribbed sport things that go up your leg
Donāt wear beanies. Itāll do the āsociety thinks youāre a lesbianā thing unless you have more masculine features
Unless you have long hair that you canāt cut, in which case you can hide that shit
I canāt stress this enough, snapbacks are amazing I always pass in a snapback, black ones especially
Also bandanas. Look up how to do those bandana headband things, they look excellent
Yeah yeah āiDk WhO wOuLd WeAr JeWlErY iF yOu ArEnT a TrEnDeRā
Fuck off, tons of cis guys wear jewelry
Rings are nice. Those thick, manly, intimidating ones. 10/10
If you want piercings, nose and lip rings are great. Also, one earring. I usually wear a stud or a silver crystal in my left ear
Leather bracelets are good. Either the thinner, braided cord or those really thick ones
A black cord with a ring or a shark tooth on it is a great necklace choice
Wallets are nice. They donāt make you pass (or detract from it), but they feel pretty masculine. Something neutral is amazing, like brown or black, but also anything from a fandom. Some sort of videogame or superhero works well
Backpacks/bags. Dark colours are usual, but some cus guys like the really obnoxious ones (mine is galaxy, and my cis friend has a neon blue and pink one). Also, ones from more 'masculineā fandoms work, like starwars. If you donāt pass well, I do in t recomend anything too flashy, but do what you will
Headphones tbh. Guys always have them on their neck or looped over their ears, even if they donāt have music on.
Swim binders are honestly really expensive and donāt work well
GC2B is great, but have a separate one for swimming. And if yours is already tight, size up for swim
Use a half tank for swimming, youāll thank me
Obviously swim shorts. But same as with basketball shorts, you have to be really careful about sizing
If someone sees your binder, you obviously wonāt pass
Colours donāt matter much. Neutrals blend in, but a swimsuit is a swimsuit
Board shorts are pretty damn masculine, I recommend
Idk what else to say, but people ask about it, so here we are
Shrug your shoulders very slightly. Itāll feel nature if you keep at it, and it makes your shoulders look bigger. Put your elbows on chair arms to do it while sitting
Clench your jaw a little bit. Itāll make you look like you have a more masculine jaw line
Walk with your stance every so slightly wider than usual. Guys take up space, they donāt try to contain themselves
When you sit in the ground, sit with your ass on the floor. Indian style or with your legs out works
Act confident. I shit you not, this can be magic for passing. Relax, act confident, lean back, and be comfortable. People see it as dominance and we subconsciously see dominance and our mind trails to masculinity
Donāt move out of the way for people gracefully. not saying donāt move out of the way at all, but let yourself brush shoulders sometimes. You probably shouldnāt maneuver your way through people
Turn your feet out. Look at girls when they sit and stand, their feet are crossed or turned in. Guys keep their feet flat, and their toes face straight or turn out
Sell weed, thatās a pretty big ābroā thing
Donāt let people talk over you. If someone cuts you off, keep talking
Posture is important. Straight back, firm look, radiate confidence
Unless youāre sitting. Then you wanna slouch a bit and look kinda fucking bored, you know ?
Donāt sit with your legs together. Spread 'em a bit. you donāt have to be obnoxious, but definitely do it
Furrow your eyebrows a bit. It gives you a more stern, masculine look. I promise
Talk slower. Girls talk faster, you want to slow your speaking as best you can
Make your voice kinda rough. Talk so you sound kinda husky and shit, itāll make you sound more masculine
That head raising thing really only works for a minute
Instead, lower your voice little by little. Talk with a slightly lower voice until it comes naturally and is subconscious, until itās your natural voice. Then lower it again, and repeat until youāre satisfied
Try not to verbally doubt yourself. If you sound timid and uncertain, youāll sound more feminine. Thatās just how people see things subconsciously
Thatās all Iāve got for now. If you have more, please add on, and if thereās anything else you want to know, comment or send an ask or message me. If thereās enough stuff Iāll make a second edition to this post, but Iāll answer each personal question regardless