are you gold star? if not, do u have any self resentment for not bein a true lesb
There are a lot of things wrong with this entire ask so here we go
the concept of “Gold Star Lesbians” is both outdated and also very harmful to the lesbian community. And here’s why:
It implies that sexual experience is the only form of validation for lesbians when, being a lesbian and wlw in general, is so much more than just sex.
Virginity is Not Real. It was a concept created by men do they had the power to take something from women
Virginity also heavily implies penis-in-vagina sex and once again, is not the only kind of sex that exists, therefore it is not a valid concept.
Plenty of lesbians have slept with men. Are they any less valid? Absolutely not.
Plenty of lesbians have been in relationships with men.
Plenty of lesbians have had sex with men.
Plenty of lesbians do not realize or accept that they are lesbians until later in life.
Are all those lesbians still valid? Of course
Compulsory heterosexuality is a sad and very real thing
It implies that bi women do not have good intentions which plays into the idea that bisexual women are less desirable for lesbians to date, since they’re not as “pure” in their sexual desires or experiences.
Lesbians who have been raped by a man are still valid lesbians
The term “Gold Star Lesbian” is often used to justify transphobia.
Any woman aligned person who is attracted to women aligned people, can call themselves a lesbian. The only people who cannot call themselves lesbians are men.
My sex life is no one’s business but my own and I am a valid lesbian whether or not I have slept with a man.
The gold star lesbian “identifier is
maybe leave your shitty, gross standards out with the garbage where they belong
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