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So now you want to be in another group. A little confused. The reason so many people are salty about Aj/Jaeseop/Siyoon is because of the way he handled leaving ukiss. If the boy wanted to leave to persue whatever the heck he wanted in a non shady way he wouldn't be getting so much hate. Yes, we don't know what happened behind the scenes but for you to completely try to remove yourself from a group that you were a part of is sketchy. There are videos and pictures my guy! He only associates himslef with paran and says he doesn't care about ukiss. Why? You left to focus on school and a solo career and now you want to join another group. Heck, if you just didn't like the direction ukiss was going I could have respected that more. Lord knows Kevin jumped ship but he didn't belly flop off of it it he did a graceful triple twisted tuck off that ship. Would it hurt if Kevin joined another group? Yes! But he left his respectfully. Everybody has to work. This is his passion but he was pretty shady after he left. How do you not tell anyone but post on the fancafe. This fandom was really patient with him while he was in school. We waited only for him to pull what he did. In my best Tyra Bank's voice " WE WERE ROOTING FOR YOU!" Like I said music is obviously his passion. I can't knock him for making his coins but he didn't have to leave the way he did or act like he has since leaving. That is honestly the only thing that makes me feel the way I feel about him. This fandom is still pretty cool and I understand why most of them have resentment toward him. That doesn't make kissmes bad. Heck, half of us still mess with Alex, Dongho, and Kibum.

There is no way Kim Nam Hee is still running NH Media. The company has always been a little iffy, but over the last couple of years they have been making some really big mistakes. These decisions seem to be coming from people bigger than him with greed. All I know is Kiseop better rest. I hope he doesn't let this mess with him mentally. The thing that hurts is they were trying to give us the comeback we wanted and this happens. The perseverance is crazy in this group. Ugh. My heart just breaks for these guys. You wonder if this struggle is supposed to lead to something better and greater.

Shout out to Xander's sideburn game. It was strong! One of my favorite pics of him.

See what some of yall are not about to do is diminish u-kiss' accomplishment. Don't act like u-kiss didn't have that hot minute of 2009/2010. They worked their butts off and spread the hallyu wave. They were invited everywhere. So when they are included in list saying that certain groups wouldn't be here without them, it's true. Sounds silly but every time they had interviews they talked about spreading kpop. Just let them be great damn it! Lol

P.s. I’m no English major, but you get my point.

What is with some of you "Kissmes"? I use that word lightly now unfortunately. It's not enough of us around to be petty,rude, and condescending all at the same time. To go as far to say Eli's wedding wasn't real is a lot. So what if the members knew he was married? Also you can take photos at a photo shoot in a wedding dress. To question whether Kevin was there or not based off of three pictures you see floating around is foolish. It's funny to you and your little group of friends for likes and stuff, but that's disrespectful. Now as a fandom we have our own petty jokes about the members, but when we add to the unnecessary hate the boys get anyway as their "fans", that's not cool. All I'm asking is to tone the foolishness and rudeness down a notch.

Ok. So basically I need kpop fans to take a serious chill pill. The term nugu *almost threw up typing that* is so ANNOYING! It makes me sick. I totally get the context, but stop. Will people stop bc I said so? No! It was worth a try. Lol It's amazing to me how kpop fans function. They are petty and mean for no reason. It has gotten to the point where it's no longer cute or witty it's disrespectful and mean. Don't get me wrong I used to be all in it. I had fun with the community at one point. A long long time ago. Lol It had it's moments,but what it has become sucks. These kids most of the time in these groups practice their butts off to be on stage and sing. You know what we do? We make jokes about them. We treat them like emotionless dolls. Call them names, make fun of them, base their talent on weekly trophies. That must suck. Imagine finally making it in a small or big compinies only to be picked apart not only by your company but the public as well. You couldn't imagine how many groups I don't like. You know what those groups won't get from me? Attention. I can't stand some of these idols and groups because of their attitudes and problimatic behavior, but I'm not insulting them or sending them death threats. I focus all my energy on the ones I do like. I don't base my opinions on idols by their popularity or belittle them because their lack of music show trophies. Talent is talent people. I did mention Laboum in the title, didn't I? Lets get to that. This is a loaded post. Stay with me now. The whole Laboum thing is weird. Nobody cares about fair until it affects your little egos. What NH did was legal. Kind of stupid,but completely legal. A huge sponsored company bought albums and sold them at discounted prices. Like I said smart and stupid. This may sound crazy but more stuff like this is going to happen. I hope it does so Korea realizes how minuscule these trophies are and do away with them. I know it wont happen bc they love having a loser and a winner. Who doesn't in society? Don't get me wrong it gives these groups a feeling of accomplishment but it also gives people a reason to put other talented groups who didn't make it "big" a lot of shiz. In the mind of kpop fans *trophies =talent.* These poor girls did nothing wrong and have put in so much work. They don't get to enjoy the win. Nh get it together. You are amazing personally to your artist but your business tactics need a reboot. Basically jump off of Laboum and realize they have nothing to do with what happened. Stop being ashholes and let them live. The kpop community is only getting worse which is why I have been more than happy to seperate myself from it. I focus on the music and people I have enjoyed talking to since I started listening to kpop. Other than that I keep my distance. I save my energy for post when I do see stupid stuff on my timeline. Lol Stop being petty! Kpop is supposed to be fun not having to defend a group every ten seconds because someone is being messy.

Jk! We know already bruh😙

Don’t act like it’s not true. They are all “ they have no fans, no one knows them” until some drama comes out and you all are freaking u-kiss experts. His wife should have seen the Dr. sooner. If you know about them he released the news pretty early in her pregnancy. So she did not just completely avoid the the Dr. Also if people found out that would have been something else for people to complain about. Luckily all is well and they seem to have a good image dispite all the “hate” they have been getting. Go sit down. Kpop fans are the worst most judgemental people but only want camaraderie when it comes to certain groups. The same people complaining are the same ones with the most problematic group and bias. Just saying

Can somebody please tell me how Alex is at any kind of fault? I am at a complete loss. Half the people talking about her position in the group don’t even know that she’s been participating fully in the most recent comeback. Everyone is riding this hate bandwagon with no legit reason what so ever. Some sh*t might hit the fan( knock on wood) in the future, but for right now this girl has done nothing wrong. People are really reaching when finding things not to like. You know that she was scouted to be in the group. Even though she has no “kpop bootcamp” training that girl has been working her butt off. Forgive her if she doesn’t assimilate fast enough for you. The girl has been teaching herself Korean and is embarrassed to speak it because people make fun of her. She has had to adjust to the culture with no real guidence. She has also had to do her own hair and make-up bc the company doesn’t have anyone to do it. I have yet to see this girl complain. Talking about being tired is not complaining. You know what she is sticking around because you can tell she appreciated the chance and loves to perform. She has the opportunity to act and the company agreed. It’s not that big of a deal. I may not like the company she is under, but this girl is smart and knows what’s best for her. I may not know her personally but she doesn’t deserve the hate she is getting. The girl has done nothing wrong.

Okay, this is the thing. We all know Alex isn’t fluent in Korean. What I think some people overlook about this girl is her work ethic. When she first came to Korea she was teaching herself Korean. She was given an opportunity to perform and she took it. Would have being trained like a typical idol help, of course. That’s not what happened and you can tell she is/ was having a hard time. So while we all sit behind a computer screen judging and talking about her imagine how she has felt. All the obstacles she has had to overcome. It would be great if people stopped saying she doesn’t try because she does. She loves entertainment. Her writing and rapping isn’t really bad. She just doesn’t give off a stereotypical rapper sound. That’s something people need to get used to. That’s her style. You can choose to not like that style, but that’s just her. She’s serious about what she does and if you pay attention you can tell. Now my fingers are crossed that she does well on Unpretty rapstar. I hope they don’t tear her down and she keeps her head up because we all know how the Korean music industry can be. I’m wishing her the best of luck. I think she may have a couple of tricks up her sleeves. This girl isn’t a fool.

I mean stuff is bound to eventually happen, but good greif. I swear they have been the scapegoat group their whole career after MMHN. Let's be happy they are still together, and appreciate them while they are still together instead of wondering when something is going to happen everytime another group disbands.

OK. Now Eli has added to my speculation. His most recent instagram post(12/9/16) has a hashtag on it that says #oneofourmostemotionaltours on it. What is that supposed to mean? Please let me be wrong.

You know when you been a fan since the beginning and each year your fav group gets passed up on and fans leave and go to more popular groups while you sittin there being salty their hard work just didn't pay off in the same way other groups have. Drink those salty tears gurl. Drink them and just remember everyone can't win the way you would like for them to. They win in other ways. At least that's what I have told myself for the past 7 years. ROFL!!! 😭👍😂😥 I'll be there for their reunion performance at one of these award shows in the future shouting "Hey" after every MAN MAN HA NI! LOL