Hayden Blackwood

Hello, everyone!

As my blog gains more and more followers, it feels necessary to state some things upfront for anyone looking to send an ask.

I like general questions, ask games, and discussion.

If you just want to send me something saying hello, ask benign, silly questions (favorite colors, scents, memories), or ask my perspective on a witchy thing, go right ahead! I love answering generalized questions and participating in tumblr ask games, so don’t be shy. Even if it’s been months since I posted something, just send me an ask stating which game you’re referencing and which question you’d like me to answer, and I will!

I don’t necessarily support, believe in, or practice everything I repost here.

Just because I reblogged it, doesn’t mean I condone it. Just because I reposted it, doesn’t mean it’s a true representation of my opinions or perspective. Many of the things I reblog are just things I find interesting. Perspectives I’ve never seen before, practices I find compelling, and discussion I think is worthwhile to read. I do not 100% support everything here, so keep that in mind if you’re considering sending me a message about a particular post.

I don’t do requests.

I don’t offer free tarot readings, I don’t write spells by request, I don’t signal boost, and I don’t do shoutouts.

I’ve been on tumblr for a really long time and lots of notable internet personalities have been outed over the years after faking donation requests for issues that seemed very real at the time, and I can only be thankful that I had enough foresight as a kid to never give any of these people money. If I don’t know you in-person, I most definitely do not have the information necessary to validate whether your request for donations is real or not, and I refuse to subject my followers to what I cannot verify is a true and honest need for support. I don’t judge people for asking, but please don’t message me asking to repost you.

I tag consistently, but don’t take tag requests.

My tags are consistent for specific subjects and I will always tag every post. However, I don’t take tag requests asking that specific things be tagged for specific people. There are thousands of you, and there’s no way to keep up with that sort of demand.

Don’t trauma dump on me.

I’m an intuitive, empathetic person who grew up being used by others as a form of cheap therapy. Though not everyone who did this did it intentionally, it strengthened my boundaries and made me relatively picky as to who I’ll discuss these emotionally draining topics with. I also have my own issues, ranging from mental illness, chronic illness/disability, trauma, caretaking for partners/friends with chronic conditions, changing careers, moving away from my old support system, etc.

↟ 𝐒 𝐔 𝐍 𝐒 𝐓 𝐎 𝐍 𝐄

This stone has been known for many centuries and was discovered in Viking burial mounds. During the Victorian era, it was a little-known, rare, and costly stone. A member of the feldspar group, and can be found mainly in India, Canada, and North Europe. It fuels creative desire, increases motivation, channels sensuality, and aids manifestation.

Chakras: solar plexus, sacral

Zodiacs: leo, libra

Planets: in this case, our star, the Sun

Elements: Fire

💛🐝🌻💛🐝🌻💛🐝🌻💛🐝🌻

Phases;

Morning:

beginnings, growth, expansion, strength, positive energy, courage, harmony, happiness, activity, plans, prosperity, ideas, fertility, goodluck.

Noon:

health, psychical energy, wisdom, knowledge, motivation, confidence, success, courage. Also the best time to charge crystals and other items. (Make sure it's safe to leave it in the sun though)

Afternoon:

Profellsionalisiam, business matters, communication, clarity, travel, exploring, clarity.

Sunset:

Removing depression, stress, confusion, letting go, releasing or finding a truth.

Crystals/metals:

diamond · amber · topaz · sunstone · tigers eye · gold · goldstone · red agate · carnelian · citrine

Ingredients:

It’s really common to find witchy mental illness/health related content that is catered towards specific illnesses (usually anxiety and depression). This is more catered to specific symptoms.

Witchcraft is to be used as a supplement to proper medical care, medication and therapy - not as a sole alternative!

Anger:

Amethyst anger release spell

Easy anger release spell

A quick way to cool anger

Anger dispersion magic tea

Anger reducing bath

Bath spell to release anger

“I channel my anger in a healthy, safe and productive manner” sigil

“My anger is under control” sigil

This masterpost

Anxiety:

Anti-anxiety shower spell

Soothing bath spell

Rainy day anxiety spell

I will be okay spell

Anti-anxiety spell jar

Anti-anxiety spell charm

Anti-anxiety tea

Brain Fog + Memory:

ADHD concentration spell bottle

Brainfog lifting

“Brainfog begone” sigil

Rosemary memory spell

Finding things/ memory spell

Memory and concentration spell

Memory enhancement sachet

Memory and awareness spell bottle 

Depression:

Post-depressive-episode bath spell

Ease my depression spell bottle

“Last hope” spell for depression

Anti-depression tea

Gems for depression

Disassociation: 

Spell for disassociation 

Witch’s disassociation bracelet 

“Anti-disassociation” sigil

“I am grounded and in control of my emotions + reactions” sigil

Fatigue:

Spell for energy

Energy gain spell

Energy jar

Energy bath

Crystals for fatigue

“No fatigue” sigil

“Energy” sigil

“I am energetic” sigil

“I have the energy to take a shower” sigil

Flashbacks/trauma

Spell to release emotional blockage

Piece by piece trauma healing spell

Healing from childhood trauma spell bottle

Spell bottle for reassurance 

“My trauma does not hold me back” sigil

Insomnia + nightmares:

Restful sleep and sweet dreams sachet

Sleep crystal spell

Stuffed animal sleep spell

Sleep easy spell sachet

Sleepy witch tip

Nightmare ward charm

Nightmare repellent

Nightmare prevention - crystals and herbs

Dream witch nightmare tips

Intrusive thoughts:

OCD assistance bath

Spell to ward against intrusive thoughts

Spell to control intrusive thoughts

Banish intrusive thoughts incantation

Banishing unwanted thoughts spell

Intrusive thought banishing spell

“I am in control of my OCD” sigil 

Panic attacks:

Panic attack relief pouch

Anti-panic attack spell earrings

Rose Quartz calming spell

“Ease my panic attacks” sigil

“I have less panic attacks” sigil

Paranoia:

Crystals for paranoia

“My paranoia does not control me” sigil

“I don’t let paranoid thoughts overcome me” sigil

“My paranoia does not affect me” sigil

Picking (hair, skin, etc.):

Ease skin picking spell

“I resist the urge to pick my skin” sigil

“I keep from picking” sigil

“My trichotillomania is under control” sigil

“I don’t pull out my hair or eyelashes” sigil

“I am in control and resist the desire to pick my hair” sigil

Mood Swings/Emotional Balance: 

Increasing your emotional tolerance spell

Crystals for BPD

“I regulate my emotions well”

“I am happy and do not have mood swings” sigil

reblog if you believe bi people deserve to have a space and voice.

reblog if you recognize the specific struggles that bi people go through.

reblog if you know bi people are more than “half gay, half straight”.

reblog if you believe bi rights and representation aren’t just “catering to straight people.”

reblog if you see us.

Some find it confusing when a difficult card falls in the advice position. Death is not asking you to die. But the Five of Cups wishes you would cry.

Death

Purge your soul of what no longer serves you. It will only be more painful if you wait for life to force you.

Three of Swords

Acknowledge your pain. The wound will fester if you keep denying its presence. Healing begins only with acceptance.

The Devil

Dive into it with all your might. Do not go gentle into that good night. It will all be worth the fall.

Five of Cups

Cry till the tears run dry. Till the darkness has gone, leaving only the light. Then turn around for a wondrous sight.

Two of Swords

You will never be completely certain. No one is in life. All you can do is follow your heart. It will lead you to what is right.

Five of Wands

There is a time for peace. But it is not today. You have to fight for your beliefs. Let nothing stand in your way.

Seven of Swords

Leave your morals at the door. This is no place for principles. What matters is survival. Time to think like a criminal.

Ten of Wands

You are walking through fire, and the pain is unbearable. But give it one more minute. The hurt will all be worth it.

Eight of Swords

You look at yourself and see a prisoner. And yet the ropes are loose and the lock is open. Stop acting the victim.

Five of Swords

So you lost. Cry for a while. Then dry your eyes and try again tomorrow. No need to drown in sorrow.

Nine of Swords

Turn your fear into fuel. Do not sit there waiting for destruction. Fight with all your might to escape annihilation.

Five of Pentacles

If you bother to look up, you will notice a shelter. Enough with the self-pity. Time to outsmart the weather.

Nine of Wands

As things stand, it is not safe for you to love. This is not the time to fall. Protect your heart, and build a wall.

Ten of Swords

Some pains demand to be felt. So feel them. Give them their deserved recognition. Then banish them to oblivion.

The Tower