When I was fifteen, I could only dream of a life where Iâd get to visit many places and have friends from places other than Hungary. Six years later, somehow, this became reality. In this past week and a half, I moved from Washington to New York, hopped on a plane to Finland, spent two days in Hungary, hopped on another plane to Norway and now I am staying with my roommateâs home in the fjords.
Around that time, I was reading a blog of a Hungarian UWC student at UWCâs Red Cross Nordic campus. She wrote about how she woke up early in the morning to swim in the fjord, then went to class and in the afternoon she went hiking in the mountains. I long forgot about this encounter with her lifestyle until I was flying on the plane to Oslo. Since then, I met people who were classmates of this girl and also went to UWC Red Cross Nordic. Somehow, life came a full circle because on Friday I am going to visit their campus.Â
But whatâs more important is that this lifestyle in Norway is a huge contrast to the life I was living in New York and Washington. There is no rush since the daylight lasts for nineteen hours. When you hike or walk in the town, you say hi to people who come past by you. When you want to be alone, you can take a simple stroll anywhere and you are likely to fully enjoy that alone time.
Photo: The view of the fjord from the neighboring farm
While the hyperindividualism of New York was liberating, it doesnât work elsewhere. It helped me grow a thicker skin and become more resistant to criticism and rude behavior of others, and sometimes I myself was very rude to others. The hyperindividualism elevated the ego and crushed the community spirit, which is a functional system provided that everyone abides by it. But being the single person with hyperindividualistic career and academic goals does not feel right. On one hand I wish to be back in New York, where I could continue not caring about anyone but myself and my friends in the city, but on the other hand, I really enjoy developing these different types of more caring relationships.
Photo: Some snowy mountains and icy lakes at a high altitude seen from the seven-hour long bus ride
Iâm glad that something stopped the rush I got sucked into in New York and Washington. And maybe I am not alone thinking about this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=118&v=1KMv23wonQs .
Photo: Sjur and I walking on the shores of the fjord.
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After a 7 hour long busing, hitchhiking, walking combination, we reached to Santa Teresa, a tiny village with a beautiful beach there. It is famous for having high tides for surfers. So I convinced Jenny to try to learn how to surf with me.Â
After the fact, I told my Brazilian friend today about what an amazing experience it was to surf, and he said âyou know too many things, it is scaryâ. Because of what he said, I suddenly remembered, Alex Rider, my idol back when I was 12 years old from my favorite teen novel series written by Anthony Horowitz. Alex is a 15 year old British schoolboy who knows five languages, has a black belt in karate, and has many more skills. He got recruited by the British Secret Intelligence Service to become the youngest spy.Â
While I am 20 and not 15, I am happy that somewhat Iâve learned a bit of those skills that he knew in the novel, such as surfing. Knowing how to skateboard, snowboard, and sandboard, I could not resist taking a surf lesson.
At 4 PM, our instructor commanded to draw surfboards into the sand. Right hand pointing ahead of me, left hand balancing next to me, we immediately started to practice how to get up on the surfboard. Next step was to actually do it in the ocean. The instructor taught us simple techniques how to best obey the laws of physics and smoothly get deeper into the water.
When we finally got deep enough in the water, he told me to lay on the board and wait for the wave to reach me. Ba-bum, I wasnât sure whether that was the sound of my heartbeat or me falling into the water on my chest. The second try was much better.
The waves came, and my instructor pushed my board along them. That 60 second riding the waves as fast as a horse was incomparable to any other experience. Having had a bit of background in different board sports, it was easier for me to balance on the surfboard than for most people.
The surf lesson got harder and harder when my instructor taught me how to pedal against the waves and go deeper, turn around while sitting on the board, and then ride the it, all without getting off of it.Â
The sunset came, and my instructor said âthis is the final one, letâs get deeperâ.
He took me far away from the coast. Getting there was already a challenge, as with every wave there was seawater and sand dripping into my eyes from my hair. When we arrived to the destination, we sat on the board to align our directions with the waves. I have never had such a scenic moment in front of my eyes as during that time. Seeing the flame red sun set, and the silhouettes of surfers above the blue-orange bicolor ocean, while hearing the large waves approach was both calming and exciting at the same time.Â
âPedal! When the waves reach your ass, get upâ yelled my instructor.Â
I started speeding up to catch the waves, and then stood up, rode out until the coast.
We concluded this journey with a sweet mango and a coconut water, which felt like actual heaven after swallowing saltwater for two hours. Inshallah, surfing will become one of my hobbies.
Caption: the saltwater is still dripping into our eyes, and thus we refuse to open them.
Arriving on a plane 99% filled with non-Spanish speaker Americans to San Jose made me cocky about knowing how to speak Spanish. So instead of taking the touristy route of a taxi to my hostel, I decided to take a local bus.
It was already 10 p.m. when I got out of the airport and took the first bus going to San Jose. The sign indicated that it was coming from Alajuela and was headed to San Jose. It turns out that the bus was going to the garage in Alajuela and nowhere near San Jose.Â
âWhy are you not getting off?â asked the bus driver.
âI thought we were going to San Jose.â
âSon, this is a garage bound bus.â
The bus driver told me to find my way to Parque Santamaria, but there was a little problem with that. Every a lot of places are named Santamaria, thus finding places that are called in the same way is a bit troublesome, especially at 11 p.m.
Alajuela is a small town, and nearly everything closes for the night. I was walking on the streets with my luggage, not knowing where I was heading. At this point, I was honestly considering making myself comfortable on a bench in the park and sleep until the sun rises. Nonetheless, somehow I found the park and I found people wandering around there.
âWhere is the bus stop?â I asked the man.
âRight there!â
âThank you.â
âPura vidaâ
Pura vida literally means pure life but it is a very common phrase used in Costa Rica to say âcheersâ. I sat down next to the bus stop, which did not look at all like a bus stop. A mariachi man then approached me and asked whether I was going to San Jose. With some hesitation, I answered yes. He quietly mumbled something, which I could not comprehend.
Twenty minutes later, a minivan full of mariachi players and drunk people arrived to pick this man up. He waved at me and said âare you not comingâ?Â
To be frank, I was frightened by the minivan. I was facing two choices: I either sleep in the park and lose the 10 dollars I paid for the hostel, or get on this minivan, give my best trust to these unknown people and hope to get to San Jose. I chose the latter. Forgetting about my thoughts on getting kidnapped or mugged, I joined the mariachi man on the van.
About 45 minutes later we were approaching San Jose. The driver told us that were were gonna stop at Parque Central. I asked the mariachi man who invited me for this ride where that was located on the map.
âYou are not from here? What the heck were you doing in Alajuela? Itâ he reacted with surprise.
He was amused that a foreigner who speaks Spanish was in Alajuela at midnight that he started teaching me Costa Rican slang words. In the end, we parted ways at Parque Central.Â
Arriving to the hostel, the receptionist asked where I was from.Â
âIâm from Hungaryâ I replied.
âReally? You look like you could be from here.â
In the end, I concluded that I appreciate the veil of the night, which can make me look and sound local.
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It was 10 in the morning when my plane brought me to Kyiv airport to start my summer research on Euromaidan. Waiting in the line at the border control, I saw a man with a Russian passport getting pulled away for interrogation. While this occasion was a mere coincidence, it made me question how Ukrainians relate to Russians.Â
In the city center, looking at the brisk yellow and sky blue colored walls hiding constructions and decorating the barriers of bridges and parks, it was evident that pride in the nation is an omnipresent phenomenon and perhaps it is even a fashionable act. By talking to locals of Kyiv, I understood three aspects of the Ukrainian nationalism: the inclusivity of two major language and ethnic groups, the reassertion and the re-appropriation of the Ukrainian narrative of history, and the us-versus-them distinction of pro-Russia versus pro-Ukraine.
While in many countries an assimilative type of nationalism can be observed, in Ukraine patriotism is meant to unite the ethnically and linguistically diverse country. Due to historical events that reshuffled the Soviet population across territories, Ukraine has a large number of ethnically Russian people. Besides this, Russian language was used in most formal settings for pragmatic reasons of fluent communication. A Russian speaker Ukrainian woman told me that in the past if anyone spoke up in Ukrainian during official meetings, it was natural to assume that this person was brought up in rural Ukraine, equating speaking Ukrainian as an act of uncivilized behavior.
Today however, after Euromaidan, Ukrainian language has achieved a more equal position with Russian language. Near Khreschatyk metro station, a building was covered with a bilingual Russian-Ukrainian sign saying âunity of the countryâ. This sign symbolizes the idea that no matter what language one speaks or no matter what oneâs ethnic background, that person belongs to Ukraine. Just as Ernest Renan would argue, language and ethnic origin are not enough to form or break a country apart, Ukrainian patriotism also emphasizes the diversity of the country.
When the same Russian speaker that I interviewed said that she felt her rights of speaking Russian were violated due to the rise of Ukrainian language, I started to wonder whether in practice too, the idea of unity and inclusivity was applied. To test this idea, I attempted to speak Russian at restaurants, cafes, and on the streets in Kyiv. Some answered in Ukrainian, some in Russian without any remarks or comments, from which it seemed that the Russian language has not become any less accepted than before.
Language is only one major area in which Ukraine has progressed to develop its nationalism, another being the reassertion of suppressed Ukrainian historical narrative. When asking around local people, they mentioned one event, Holodomor, which Ernest Renan would call a common suffering that would unite people. Holodomor, as explained by locals, was a man made, particularly by Stalinâs order, famine in Eastern Ukraine, which was recognized as an act of genocide in 2006. This is one major example that creates the ground for the us-versus-them identification of Ukraine being against todayâs Russia.
Other than the above event, the re-appropriation of the narrative on the transitional period was prominent. One art exhibition in particular, titled Borderline Ukrainian Art 1985-2004, showed a short film on the transitional period. A woman, symbolizing Ukraine, was hanging in the air, tied to the ceiling with handcuffs. This woman was released from the handcuffs and fell to ground from where she could not stand up, symbolizing the economic crisis that hit Ukraine after the 1991 independence.
Skipping ahead many years, the two most recent major events that caused the outbreak of toilet papers with Putinâs head on it and phone cases saying âPutin, f*ck you!â are the Crimean Annexation and war in Donbass. These two events are also the ones after which the Ukrainian national sentiments particularly focused on accentuating the unity of the country. As Renan mentions, having a common enemy can create nation states. To be sure, this common enemy should not be mistaken to be Russia nor to be Russians. Many Ukrainian people having relatives living in Russia or in the annexed Crimea the Ukrainian national sentiments cannot be directed against Russian people.
While the inclusivity of languages and ethnicities, the re-appropriation of the historical narrative, and the us-versus-them distinction are some of the most prominent aspects of todayâs Ukrainian nationalism, the most important aspect of it has not been mentioned yet. Just as the most recent changes in language usage and increased usage of Ukrainian and anti-Putin symbolism indicate, the Ukrainian nationalism constantly undergoes many changes. If I had visited Kyiv two years ago, I wouldnât have seen the plethora of yellow and blue color that can be witnessed today on the major streets of the city. The current project of building a Ukrainian national sentiment is perhaps to constantly reflect on what constitutes of âbeing Ukrainianâ.
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From Shanghai to Hebi, I traveled on a 16 hour long K-train ride. It was my first ever train ride on something that was not a D or G train. I must say that it is actually very nice and comfortable. In the past I have travelled on a night sleeper D train on a seat and compared to that, sleeper trains with hard bed are way better.
Someone told me that in this cat cafe the cats seem too slow and sometimes unresponsive. This person theorizes that the cats might have been drugged to be "pettable" for the customers. Perhaps it is true to some extent perhaps it is not. Some of the cats were very ordinary, unlike this cat. As seen on the picture, the cat could not open its eyes properly. Every time the cat was petted, it made this uncanny pose, looking up to the ceiling.
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What can possibly be so important that does not let me go to sleep?Â
Tonight I had a literary reading event where I was taking photos and all of a sudden, I was invited to have dinner with the wonderful three writers among Wang Anyi is probably the most renown. At least in China. Surrounded by these three inspiring people plus a bunch of inspiring professors and tutors, I suddenly felt dragged into this power loop of passion. Passion for what? Anything that you like: writing, painting, photography, women's rights, etc.
When I finally opened my eyes a bit to look around who is doing what and why, I realized that passion has never been closer to me.Â
My professor, who was sitting right next to me, was about to submit a policy proposal for UN Women about the issue of poverty among women in the global south. She asked me whether I wanted to be part of this project by taking photos in Shanghai!
Then on my left, my tutor, who can spare time besides his intensive tutoring and research job for art. All sorts of art. Photography, painting, graphic design, and whatnot! Across me from the table, there are the three writers, who really do live from writing! This kind of passion and drive for art, I believe is very rare or I haven't met many people like this.
Extending the enlisting beyond the chairs of the table above, the people who have popped up in my mind were my three other professors graduating from Princeton University, Columbia University and New York University. Neither of them is American: they all strived hard to learn English and succeed in the American Academia.Â
And here I am, surrounded by all of these aspiring people. What am I about to do with my life, that is the question. And guess what, even these professors can feel sometimes jealous of us, students, who have the aspiration to perhaps do even more than what they have done.Â
And they are right, we are really aspiring: thinking about all the things that matter to me, I feel like a lifetime is simply not enough to complete them. This semester is my last one in Shanghai before study abroad, I want to complete a photography project in the old neighborhoods of the city. Perhaps even an interview with the migrant workers. Why does this matter and what can this do, you may ask. I always thought about art as limited tool to attract attention for a social issue. In other words, without doing anything trying to fight against something.Â
But in fact, art is one of the most powerful tools. Without art, there would be no May 4th movement that radically changed politics in early 20th century China and even influenced modern China. Similarly, without a pen in the hands of Marx and Engels, Communist Manifesto wouldn't have born. Any sort of art is indeed a powerful tool, and perhaps is more powerful than arms.Â
Very very very bad idea, I have to tell you. So what was the bad idea? Basically to trust myself in having the determination and the memory to write two-three weeks after I finished this wonderful trip. Yes, I kept telling to myself that this way my writing would have my reflection in it. In any case, I will upload the photos once my computer gets fixed. As for now, this is the blog post.