Dum Spiro, Spero

So, in the comments of a video on YouTube I saw a lot of people mentioning what occurred between Onision and Lainey, well…him and Lainey’s girlfriend. Seriously, like, do you guys have nothing better to do than to obsess about some person’s personal life? He’s his own man. If you don’t fucking like him, don’t watch him. :)

Y'see, being in an open relationship means that you have to communicate and, if someone says that they’re uncomfortable with something, you don’t fucking do the thing your partner is uncomfortable with! There’s got to be a mutual agreement between partners. Say Partner A wants to go out with Partner C But Partner B doesn’t want to go out with Partner C. Partner A and B talk about if it’s a good choice and if there are any sort of bounderies that need to be set. If everything is worked out, Partner A is going out with Parner B and C and they’re all happy and content. If something like Gerg and Taylor’s relationship happens, where there’s next to no communicaation going on between partners or if there’s no respect for any decision made between partners, cheating will occur. That’s exactly what happened: Gerg didn’t respect Taylor’s bounderies and cheated on them.

I mean, Gerg and Taylor made it into a public thing when they could have very well kept it private and personal. Once it’s out in the public, people can talk about it all they want, honestly. Especially when Taylor straight out said that Gerg cheated on them and that Gerg admitted that he cheated (I’m sorry, “betrayed”) on Taylor, then went on to make a big joke about it.