I’m Here For The Shits And Giggles

(nobutforrealthough)

(The amount of triple-checking I did to make sure all of them were tumblr appropriate lmao)

He identifies as nonbinary and says he just doesn’t care about gender, but it seems very likely to me that he is a woman either in denial or just unrealized. If it turns out he’s happy with his identity then I’ll leave it there, of course! But I don’t think that he is happy. How can I tell him this in a way that he will take seriously and legitimately consider? I’ve suggested exploring his gender further and looking into hormones and he’s shrugged it off, not in a way that suggests he’s uninterested, but as if it just hasn’t sunk in that it’s something he can do.

I’ve read perspectives from trans women about the journey requiring a lot of radical self-acceptance that they themselves had to initiate. I know I can’t do that part for him, but I also can’t just not intervene when he is so clearly unhappy with himself.

Even if you post this with no answer so your followers could chime in, I’d really appreciate any perspective I can get on this. Thank you. 💜

I love that you’re so accepting and open to your partners identity but I think that you may need to take a step back and let your spouse move at his own pace.

You’ve made sure he knows that you’d support him no matter what and you’ve vocally expressed your support for exploring gender. That’s huge and that’s amazing.

This panel was how I first found the bus AU, and it also helped me on my journey to make Kuzuhina my entire online presence, so thank you 💖

Ive never picked favorites in my life. I dont have very recognizable patterns. (maishelf)

Oh god okay I didn't realize we were DOING THIS!! I have way way waaaaaaaaay too many faves but here's a few that have absolutely nothing in common~ Also the one where my icon at the time was from but I couldn't FIND IT DX And the boy pile where they're slut shaming nagito

YAYY I LOVE SEEING YOUR FAVES

i'm TRULY losing it bc i can't remember what post your icon was from-- - -

my favorite one. I was gonna add more of my fav panels but tumblr flagged it

(fanofawesomethings)

(nobutforrealthough)

(nobutforrealthough)

(And, like, EVERYTHING from the Patreon, but I can't post most of that here, heh)

YESSSSS THANK YOU >///////< this is what i want, exactly this!!!