Sireh Junjung As The Gift from the Groom in Malay Wedding
Last Friday, my mom got an offer from a friend who need help on decorating a traditional bouquet for her son's wedding. So we take the order and made it within 3 hours. Therefore, whats interesting about this traditional bouquet anyways?
Usually, in Brunei- Malay wedding or engagement, people will stare at the arrangement of wedding delivery items that are beautifully arranged from both sides of the bride and groom. As the rules of the traditions, the delivery item that is usually located in the front line is âsireh junjung'. So, why it is usually used as a 'penghulu' or 'head' of delivery, while other items are considered as 'escorts' delivery?
According to the traditions or customs of the Malays, âsireh junjungâ is a matter that must item in any engagement or marriage. Apart from being the narrator and complement of the ceremony, it also carries the implicit meaning of symbolizing the acidity of married life between husband and wife. This is because the life of every married couple has to stay together from all the joys and sorrows. Similarly, âsireh junjungâ are composed with betel leaves and a mixture of several other ingredients which somehow elderly Malay people will eat it as a snacks and the taste of it will be sweet, sour, bitter and sometimes salty. As mentioned above, there are several other ingredients that are usually included once in the composition of âsireh junjungâ. The implication behind the materials used are:
Betel leaves - carries the noble meaning of his heart, brave, not easily discouraged and humble
Gambir - one of the hearbs, its bitter taste reflects the firmness of one's heart
Lime - gives a brackish, bitter and warm taste if eaten together with betel. It carries the meaning of a pure heart but can rebel if challenged
Pinang - a traditional fruit nut, symbolizes good lineage and noble heart
Tobacco - means a person who is resilient and willing to sacrifice in any case. Clove - its spicy taste gives the impression of a person who adheres to the principles
So, as my mother and i wanted to compose our âsireh nunjungâ order,it will need fresh betel leaves in various of sizes - at least 13 pieces. Then the betel leaves will be arranged and shaped according to the our taste of design. Apart from that, the use of fresh flowers such as chrysanthemums and roses also plays a role by being placed in the crevices of betel leaves. As a âfinal touchâ, you can sprinkle a little fragrance like rose water to evoke the aroma of the bouquet.
According to Malay tradition, 'Sireh Junjung' from the groom should be slightly higher than the bride. This is to show the role or responsibility of the man as the head of the family.As compared to the time of my mother before, sireh junjung is often composed high like a tree. But along with the development of time, sireh junjung has been composed into various modern forms such as mosques or buildings adapted according to the concept of delivery. Regardless of its shape, the composition of sireh junjung will still be the head of all deliveries and complements to a wedding ceremony.
***picture above was our own fresh Sireh Junjung that proudly design by my mom and i for our lovely customer.
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