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My supermodel pose. đ¤Ł
Just wanted to share my favourite photo to date. I felt so beautiful here. I wish I could look this good every day.
every ask to neil gaiman goes about like this:
greetings sire, i am but a worm beneath you, but my dear sister is deathly ill and your work is the only thing that brings her happiness still. anywho, in season 2 of good omens do crowley and aziraphale have fucknasty butt sex? thank you!
Nailed it. đ¤Ł
me: âyeah I dated a guy in high school who came out as gay. it was before i knew i was a boy so needless to say it didnât work outâ
coworker: âdamn dude was preorderingâ
other things this coworker (who is a cis guy) has done/said:
âgot confused about why Iâd never been a boy scout because he forgot i was trans
âtold me he was gonna get top surgery scar tattoos to match me after i get mine
âlaughs at all my trans jokes, even if theyâre supremely unfunny
âcalls me big dog (and him little dog) even though he is about as tall as two of me
â âI canât believe she would say that transphobic thing to you. In June? Pride month?â
Once I said "My gender is whatever's funniest at the time" and my coworker stops dead in his tracks, turns slowly and says "So are your pronouns honk/honk?" killing me instantly
I think my pronouns might be honk/honk from now on. đ¤Ł

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Had a makeover at The Boudoir London a little while ago. I had an absolute blast, and think the photos turned out fairly well. đ
Check your privilege.
I'd never really thought of these things as Gender Affirming Care before. Wow...kind of blows my mind.
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It really does feel like that
You ain't kidding.
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The fact that so many articles paint âgender dysphoriaâ as only something trans people experience is ridiculous.
The concept of societal gender has, and continues to, harmed cis people for a very very long time and causes cis folks to suffer similarly to their trans siblings.
While, yes, trans folks on average may have a greater sense of (and reaction to) gender dysphoria - a lot of that comes from actually understanding what that feeling IS and knowing how to combat it in the way they need.
Cis people, however, will sit there and be uncomfortable while not knowing WHY and when they are told âthat sounds like gender dysphoriaâ they will say âno, thatâs only for trans peopleâ - and then⌠continue to suffer.
Additionally âSocietal Gender Normsâ depending on where you are in the world you are and what is âGirlâ and what is âBoyâ can change DRASTICALLY depending on where you are from or the culture you grew up in.
This is to say that, overall, people attempting to adhere to the âAmerican Societal Gender Normâ as some âUniversal Standard of Genderâ are far more likely to be depressed over their gender presentation than in most other countries and societies in the world.
Why? Well⌠our standard of âBoyâ and âGirlâ is not only the YOUNGEST acting societal standard but it changes SO OFTEN that if you look at âThe Standard of Beauty for Womenâ and âThe Standard for Manlinessâ across the last 100 years you will see such dramatic shifts EVERY 10 YEARS which can cause increasing amounts of dysphoria as time goes on because:
1. The standard you grew up with and idolized is NOT the standard you live in NOW and you feel âout of sortsâ with your gender.
Or
2. The standard you WERE considered âWomanlyâ/âManlyâ in has changed DRASTICALLY with time and now you are no longer considered that DESPITE not changing how you present your gender.
This is to say⌠cis folks and trans folks deal with a lot of the same issues, and by breaking down barriers between statements like âYOU CAN NEVER UNDERSTAND (X TYPE OF PERSON)â we can realize that AS PEOPLE we are all more alike than things appear.
Be that by gender, color of our skin, sexuality, spirituality, or ANYTHING!
We are all human, we all suffer, we all grow, we all learn, we all cry, we all smile, we all are people among other people.
Kindness and learning about yourself and others helps everyone in the end.
I love this. In particular, I appreciate that this highlights how gender norms change from culture to culture. â¤

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Sunday was much better than Friday and Saturday. I had a good talk with a friend, and she helped me reframe my perspective. I have been overwhelmed by focusing on what I will lose by getting a divorce. But all growth comes with loss, even if it's just who you used to be. I should be focusing on what I will gain by having a chance to explore who I am again.
I think I am transgender, but I still wonder if I would be more comfortable if my body was more feminine, if I took estrogen. It's OK to not know. I'll use this separation as time to explore this question. There is pain here, but also opportunity.
I came back from the office Christmas party last night, and I had a great time. I don't know why, but once I got back at home, I just started feeling really low. I'm overwhelmed by life right now. I'm getting a divorce because I came out to my wife, I'm questioning if I am transgender, I have to find a new place to live, my wife's family hates me now while I love them more than my own family, I worry about holding onto my job, the world is a mess, and so on and so on.
I watch these videos of girls documenting their transition from MtF, and they look so amazing and seem so happy once they become completely transitioned. I worry that if I transition I'll just end up looking like an ugly boy with boobs, and that I'll still feel miserable when everything is said and done...the expense of it all is depressing as well.
I don't see my counselor again until after the holidays. I completely broke down this morning. đ
It's all just too much right now.
Hormones
I've gathered a bit more information about hormones. I think it is possible for me to take estrogen alone, without also taking a testosterone blocker, and achieve a feminizing effect, while minimizing the risk of erectile dysfunction and genital shrinkage. I should be able to work with an endocrinologist to get the right balance.
I've also discovered there is a facial surgery called an upper lip lift, that should give me a fuller upper lip without having to use fillers.
I'm a long way from doing any of these things I need to move out of my current house and spend some time on my own. I need time to experiment with my dress and appearance. I need time to think about who I am, apart from my wife, before I commit to a major action like hormones or surgery.
If you are reading this, and you are on an estrogen regime similar to what I have described, I'd love to hear from you if you don't mind sharing. Feel free to comment or send me a DM.
xxx
Nikita
Tumblr has a lot of problems but seeing posts that say things along the lines of "being trans is so cool and sexy actually" over and over and over again made me genuinely believe it. Being trans is so cool. You are given the gift of life, and despite hateful backlash and the tremendous amount of work and bridges you will burn, you still would rather be your authentic self.
How punk rock, how fucking badass. Being trans is so cool and sexy actually
Truer words have not been spoken.

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Reminder [UK]: your GP is REQUIRED to refer you onto a gender identity clinic if you ask them to. They may try to refuse a referral - but it is not up to them. They do not get to decide who is âtrans enoughâ to be referred. The system is broken enough as it is - do not let your GP refuse you at the first hurdle.
If your GP refuses a referral:
1) Ask them to officially note the refusal in your file so that they cannot deny that they refused a referral later.
2) Talk to the practice manager - point out that it is a requirement that they refer you.
3) Speak to PALS.
Finally, once they do agree to refer you - chase up on it. A reluctant GP may 'loseâ or 'forgetâ your referral. Donât sit for 6 months thinking that a referral has gone through when your GP hasnât 'gotten aroundâ to it yet. Chase weekly.Advocate for yourself. Sometimes being a (polite, but firm) nuisance is the only way to get things done.
Iâd appreciate if you could share to make sure this gets seen by people who need to see it.
Not sure if it is a requirement, but I do appreciate the advice to advocate for yourself.
My favourite photo from the club...giving you "the look"