ﻬﻬﻬNicoleﻬﻬﻬ

i would be so powerful if i wasn't distracted by every little thing btw

@dreamertrilogys

Your responses to past traumas are not you. You are more than the result of abuse. You are slowly healing. It hurts because the damage was real and you're recovering from that.

love is insane you feel like you're always subtly asking "do you still love me even though i'm flawed" and the answer just keeps being yes

Yeah sure you have the right to say it and sure you can. But is it kind? At its heart, is it kind? And if it isn’t kind, then is there some other redeemable quality which legitimises its voice? When you give voice to something, it is no longer only yours. You are not calling into an abyss. There is a recipient. There is a consequence. You do have a responsibility for that voice. To consider what you do with it and to be deliberate. I am not saying you must always be kind - but when you are not, are you aware that you are not?