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Take / your time. / Take mine / too.

I’m forgetting everything I’ve known, to become everything I’ve always wanted to be.

We will never be the same again. But here’s a little secret for you—no one is ever the same thing again after anything. You are never the same twice, and much of your unhappiness comes from trying to pretend that you are. Accept that you are different each day, and do so joyfully, recognizing it for the gift it is. Work within the desires and goals of the person you are currently, until you aren’t that person anymore, and everything changes once again.

what sucks so much about having avpd is that avoidant people cannot demand anything from others, as it’s against their nature. confronting others about their own concerns, whether it’s about their disorders or otherwise, is a huge No-No.