Chico

You either learn… or you repeat the cycle

Every. Single. Relationship.

We don’t discover who we are in isolation

We find out through connection, how we show up, what we tolerate, what we fear, what we attract and what we accept

It’s not about who you think you are

Not who you say you are

But who you allow into your life. That’s the mirror. That’s the truth

Relationships reflect parts of you that still need healing, understanding or strengthening. Whether it’s your boundaries, your self worth, your attachment style or your communication, it all comes up through people

So instead of asking “Why did this happen to me?”

Start asking “What part of me aligned with this? What is this trying to teach me?”

Doechii for Outlander Magazine