Found this gem on Reddit 🤣🤣🤣
Should've included "Never actually apologizes, though."
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Found this gem on Reddit 🤣🤣🤣
Should've included "Never actually apologizes, though."
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Yo I am so sick of Under the Oak Tree as a series, the ML Riftan is irrationally angry all the fucking time any time his wife speaks to anything that isn’t just lying still for him to fuck her and absolute reverence for him. He reads as a sexist mega controlling red flag trying to disguise it with the excuse of protection. And puts his wife down by calling her useless and unhelpful while he’s at it. You’re telling me after 109 chapters and the six billion arguments they get up to about this exact problem he doesn’t get better about it AT ALL?
0/10 ML, he’s fucking trash.
At the very least the shitty ML’s who realize their wrong doings after their wife leaves them and try to change to win her back are doing SOMETHING OF PROGRESS. They still don’t deserve forgiveness, but at least they’re TRULY AND DEEPLY REGRETFUL
Okay holy shit tumblr would not let me make a long reply to OP’s comment so I’m putting it here
MILD SPOILER WARNING
I found the first half of book 2 extremely frustrating and painful. Maybe that’s because I’ve been reading it on WebNovel (the worst way to read it, would not recommend) with 3 chapters a week so it felt extra slow and torturous. Maxi’s character development is really good imo I think she’s a really good FL. If you’re already at your limit with Riftan’s fucking bullshit idk if you would like the second book at all. That being said, take my opinion with a grain of salt, as much as I love these books I’m very, VERY critical of them and I would never recommend it to anyone tbh
@acastlemuse Lol, you know, at least you're honest. You still like the series for your own personal reasons, but you're also self-aware enough to recognize that this series is... pretty ass and would probably be a bad recommendation. It's such a shame because this story genuinely could've been something great. I at least appreciate the way the author portrayed Maxi's trauma and her healing from it—where most authors just gloss over it the moment the freaking ML is introduced, the narrative actually takes its time with Maxi's progression. Where it falls apart is the fact that the ML directly contributes to Maxi's turmoil, despite the fact that this story apparently was meant to be about two broken individuals learning to love and overcome their trauma. More often than not, it felt like Maxi's development happened in spite of Riftan, rather than with or even because of him.
I hate that people use 'media literacy' to go against any criticism of the media that they like.
You do understand that having media literacy requires you to be critical of the media you consume, right?
If you just use the fact that it made you feel good and you "liked it" as an argument, then I think your take on people who criticize your faves being "media illiterate" might be the opposite.
Here we go!...
Riftan is manipulative towards Maxi because he frequently prioritizes his own feelings as well as controlling her reactions over communicating honestly with her.
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He purposely withholds important information from her—the most egregious example being her own pregnancy and subsequent miscarriage—and constantly imposes decisions for her under the weak justification that he's "protecting her," instead of allowing her to make informed choices herself.
He becomes passive-aggressive and emotionally withdraws when upset, which forces Maxi to chase for an explanation or reassurance for his emotional volatility.
He responds to their personal conflicts with overwhelming and suffocating displays of affection, choosing sex (often coercive) and lovebombing over genuine communication for addressing underlying issues in their relationship.
He PERPETUALLY frames Maxi's independence as reckless and irresponsible on her part, which in turn forces Maxi to prioritize his feelings and emotional response over her own autonomy and personal growth.
(Before anyone can argue this point, yes, Maxi is naive and inexperienced and has tendencies of recklessness and stubbornness. That being said, it isn't at all a stretch to say that Maxi's recklessness is a direct consequence of Riftan’s restrictive and smothering methods of "protection." Moments where Maxi has either gotten hurt or pushed herself to her limit could've easily been avoided if Riftan hadn't discouraged Maxi from learning magic in the first place. He instead chose restriction over guidance every time Maxi insisted on aiding him and his men while she trained with Ruth. His refusal to compromise ultimately pushed Maxi into situations where she had to develop her skills and assert her agency on her own or with someone else guiding her, essentially growing in spite of Riftan. In essence, Maxi's recklessness doesn't exist in a vacuum. Riftan's attempts to restrict or discourage her growth directly contributed to it by forcing her to pursue that growth through extreme methods and without his support.)
The core issue is that manipulation doesn't always stem from malicious intent. Whether or not Riftan genuinely loves Maxi beyond a physical, surface-level attraction is up for debate. However, regardless of how he feels about her, his intentions do not erase the negative impact he's caused in their marriage, and the fact the narrative seldom, if ever, correctly holds him accountable for his problematic and borderline abusive behavior is exactly why many readers, myself included, dislike Riftan as a character as well as a partner for Maxi.
Overall, he's just a terrible husband and a poorly written male lead, and no amount of sloppy emotional setup and cheap grand gestures will undermine this fact.
So, I found this image on Pinterest, and I need to vent
I remember feeling utterly disappointed when I first read this scene in the novel. I genuinely struggle to understand how a few lines of dialogue were enough to convince so much of the fandom that this is some beautifully written relationship.
"I'm proud of you."
"I'm proud of you?"
No “I’m sorry for making you carry the weight of my emotional despair after you left for three years?”
No “I’m sorry for resenting you over a decision you made in order to protect me?”
No "I'm sorry for treating you like a fucking stranger upon our reunion after being separated for 3 whole years??"
Just, "I'm proud of you."
And nothing to follow it up.
That's all he tells Maxi before leaving.
And Maxi breaks down in tears, fully accepting his cheap acknowledgment.
Like a kid finally earning approval from their negligent parent.
And somehow, that's enough for readers to call Riftan a green-flag husband.
This is what has the fan girls ugly sobbing? This is the relationship people hold up as romantic? That's it? After everything that's happened between them, that's the conversation we're supposed to be crying over? This is what has fans swooning to tears?
Give me a damn break.

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Yo I am so sick of Under the Oak Tree as a series, the ML Riftan is irrationally angry all the fucking time any time his wife speaks to anything that isn’t just lying still for him to fuck her and absolute reverence for him. He reads as a sexist mega controlling red flag trying to disguise it with the excuse of protection. And puts his wife down by calling her useless and unhelpful while he’s at it. You’re telling me after 109 chapters and the six billion arguments they get up to about this exact problem he doesn’t get better about it AT ALL?
0/10 ML, he’s fucking trash.
At the very least the shitty ML’s who realize their wrong doings after their wife leaves them and try to change to win her back are doing SOMETHING OF PROGRESS. They still don’t deserve forgiveness, but at least they’re TRULY AND DEEPLY REGRETFUL
Title: under the oak tree
isekai type: none
is it good?: no
chapter: 11
notes:
big aggressive tanned man, pale wispy naive young woman without agency who is babied by him *retches*
[Under the Oak Tree]
Absolving responsibility and emotionally gaslighting your reader base
(‼️Spoilers for Book 2‼️)
I feel so bad for Layla.
Im not just talking about the fact that the entire story revolves around her being abused and getting Stockholm syndrome. It's a case of the fandom
Shes the FL, everyone almost always gets on their knees for the FL but then they go and romanticize her abuse, they act like her getting assaulted by Matthias was hot, there is multiple tiktok and Instagram edits thay portray the relationship as "cute" and "protective" and "Layla just doesn't know how much she loves him." A 18 year old girl being coerced into doing what a nobleman wants isn't cute and it sure as hell isn't justified because they misuse the dark romance term A LOT.
And if she wasn't the main character and Claudine was? The amount of people that would rope her in with the typical white lotus mistress type would be insane. She'd be called a slut for getting in the way between Matthias and Claudine, she'd be made fun of for being a commoner who dared to even look at the Duke and they'd belittle her trauma and call her "another trashta"
Theres no winning for Layla when it comes to the Cry or better yet beg stans, if she's the lead then her abuse is romanticized and on occasion people will claim it was Layla gaslighting the readers, if she isn't the lead then she'd likely be demonized as a slutty mistress thinking she can sleep her way to the top.
✨️Friendly reminder for those writing for complex, flawed characters:
A flawed protagonist doesn't become compelling because they're flawed.
They become compelling because they're forced to confront those flaws.
Without proper, consistent development, that character stagnates, and ultimately, the narrative suffers as a result.

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cry or better yet beg stans are a whole new breed because how do they look at this and think "yeah she liked it 🥵"
Sorry I can't take this seriously Lol
Ayla was doing her best job to save the face of the whole family even in her fake kindness so it looks better for the twins if she did it. But Varkas was already breathing behind her neck like "What the fuck did you say?"
Bro is not trusting this woman for a second. When anything is not going in Thalia's way he lashes out with unnecessary anger and borderline violence type of shit XD
YES! Finally someone says it!
There is nothing attractive about the "I hate all women except for my wife" trope. It's just misogyny being painted in gold sheets.
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I just thought about this
A lot of “dark romance” stories are not actually dark romance, not because of irresponsible framing or because they romanticize toxic and abusive relationships. But because they fail to fulfill what dark romance fundamentally is: an exploration of those unhealthy dynamics.
A dark romance needs to examine the mechanisms driving the obsession, manipulation, violence, dependency, and desire. It has to understand the machinery underneath the relationship, not just use toxicity as decoration or even tension over taboo
I feel there was especially a missed opportunity to do this in Cry, or Better Yet, Beg, when you consider that the setup was literally there right from the start. We have Layla, who was abused and basically abandoned by her family at a very young age, eventually finding a stable and loving home with her estranged uncle.
Meanwhile, there's Matthias, a man groomed since birth to be the perfect heir to his family's lineage, and that often means that everything single thing in his life is decided for him, including marriage. He's been raised to believe that genuine love and attraction are irrelevant in a relationship if you're only marrying for convenience. Clearly, someone who’s lived under that level of restriction would have a deeply distorted understanding of intimacy, autonomy, and emotional connection. That setup alone could have supported a far more psychologically grounded dark romance, one that actually examines how trauma and control distort a person’s understanding of love and relationships in general.
One of my favorite moments was in the latest chapter, when Matthias took care of Layla after she was hit by a car. He gave her a piece of candy—the same kind her mother used to give her as a child—and it triggered a flood of memories about everything she had lost since then, until she finally broke down in tears. Throughout it all, Matthias held her without demanding an explanation. He simply let her cry. It was, honestly, a genuinely strong emotional moment.
What undermines it, though, is knowing that nothing meaningful will ever come of it. Their toxic dynamic—Matthias' controlling, borderline predatory behavior toward Layla, and Layla's complicated, often dubious attraction to him—never really gets addressed in a substantial way. We already know where the story goes, and it doesn't meaningfully interrogate either of their backgrounds or how those experiences shape the way they relate to each other. That ends up making moments like this feel less like development and more like isolated emotional scenes, leaving you wondering why they were included if the relationship was never going to evolve in a more interesting or meaningful direction.
Instead of just presenting obsession and abuse as cheap plot devices, the story could have delved into how someone with a warped, conditional understanding of affection might project that onto another person in destructive ways, and how an abuse survivor might be vulnerable to that kind of dynamic being repeated or reframed as "affection." That kind of narrative would require directly engaging with emotional manipulation, conditioning, and the slow erosion of boundaries in a way that actually interrogates the trauma on both sides, rather than treating it as dramatic tension.
That’s what makes it feel like a missed opportunity: the pieces for a much darker, more psychologically complex story were already there. The author just never intended to do anything compelling with it in the end.
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My obligatory opinion on the newest popular female lead in the manhwa scene
Okay, I know I haven't had the most positive opinions on The Forgotten Field, but I don't necessarily hate Talia as a character. I don't like the majority of her fanbase, and I find her to be awful as a person but those were very likely the intended feelings I was supposed to have because she's supposed to your traditional over the top "seductress" villainess, and instead of those negative traits being painted as a misunderstanding or a consequence-free memory after a regression, they are taken up several notches to the extremes.
Talia isn't just a heartbroken hopeless romantic, she's obsessive of Varkas to the point where she could almost be classified as a yandere, she isn't just envious of Ayla's popularity, she attempts to assassinate her multiple times, thus giving her half sister no reason to care when Talia suffers, she isn't just an older sister to Arthos, she takes out her unresolved trauma on him just as Gareth took out his trauma onto her.
Talia is enjoyable to me when there isn't someone yelling in my ear that she's just a misunderstood little baby girl who just needs tender love and care, her allure is that she is a horrible person, she has a childhood that explains why she's a horrible person, but it shouldn't exonerate her of all wrongdoing as an adult. For Christ's sake, she raped her husband, the excuse that she wasn't treated fairly as a kid can only go so far, and before anyone tries to tell me that Varkas eventually said yes, wearing someone down because they initially said no to sex until they eventually give up is NOT consensual! Manipulating and guilt tripping someone into sleeping with you is NOT consensual!
"But he was scared he would hurt her, that's the only reason he said-" A no is a no, it doesn't matter why he said no, that should have been the end of it.
Talia is supposed to be a horrible person, if you really were a fan of her writing, you wouldn't be trying to rationalize literal sexual assault. You want a problematic character? Then let her be problematic.
Manta. Bros. Let me level with you real quick.
After everything we've already seen from Riftan (especially in this season) from raping his wife on their wedding night (Yes. He did, read the novel), using sex as a substitute for communication—the smut itself bordering on rape because he was constantly coercing Maxi into sex—discouraging Maxi from learning magic, yelling at, and manhandling his wife hours after witnessing her father brutally beating her, what, in the fresh hell, do you guys mean by "Green Flag Knight?"
Jee, it's almost as if they're sucking this guy off so damn much because Under the Oak Tree is their biggest cash cow on the site 🤔