Modern dating, personally, are dates produced by online dating apps or websites. It is good coz it connects people of different locations, origins, races, etc.
But there are two reasons why modern dating makes me sick in the gut.
1. Men who are alreadyĀ āin a relationshipā, hop on to online dating platforms when they feel the urge to cheat on their girls. To either taste another womanās body or be entertained by another personality.Ā
How does it work? Theyāll meet you online, and if you are like me whoās got excellent online stalking skills, theyāll admit of their current girlfriend, then smoothly transition toĀ ādoesnāt mean we canāt be friendsā.
Fckin epic. So a girl youāveĀ chatted with for few hrs, get physically attracted to, but canāt date coz you have a current gf, but canāt drop coz you want her to be in your radar, in case you get tired of current gf. That girl is not a āfriendā, that girl is a prospect.
So if you are a vulnerable chic and agreed with the āfriendshipā, donāt be surprised when he only has time for you when the main girl is away. That sister is the start of you being a side chic.
2. Men, who are too cheap to pay for a hooker or who donāt want to risk exposing themselves to disease, will hop on to these platforms to find a free lay.
When you are gutsy, you can ask themĀ āwhat are you looking for?ā, youāll be answered withĀ āi want to get to know youā. But bitch watch out, their idea of getting to know you is by summoning you to come to their turf toĀ āNetflix and chillā. Youāll be lucky if itās paid Netflix, what if itās just a torrented movie?
Why do these moves make me sick? These are situations wherein modern dating gets abused, just because itās right at these menās fingertips. And women get broken because they believed every fckin word he says, when in fact it was honest to goodness ābitch what were you thinking?ā
Women are so big onĀ āi am an empowered woman, i am stronger than you thinkā, but when faced with a situation like this - they get caught up making decisions, because the man in the situation is fckn hot.
Letās not tolerate please. Letās keep modern dating fun and fit for purpose. Letās not breed entitlement. They are what they are because women allow them to.