level up

I know for some the biggest takeaway from this is the “it takes the same amount of energy to think small as it does to think big”

And while that is important, that’s not my biggest takeaway.

It’s the “I encouraged my husband in subtle, fun ways to become a billionaire by expanding his mindset.”

This is what some men know and why they don’t care about the “what do you bring to the table?” question. They know that with the right woman by their side she can elevate them to levels they never even imagined.

It’s YOU.

That’s what you bring to the table.

Not your job. Or degrees. Or savings account.

You travel with him

Money is involved

You’ve seen him when he’s angry

You live with him

You see how he acts while drunk/high

You tell him “no”

You see how he deals with loss or grief

He doesn’t get to sleep with you whenever

He’s broke with little to no money or limited funds

“But what if I can’t afford it?”

Most of the shift has nothing to do with money

You can’t afford the luxury gym, but you can afford daily walks, stretching and prioritizing sleep

You can’t afford therapy every week, but you can afford journaling, boundaries, and not entertaining chaos & drama

You can’t afford designer clothes, but you can afford dressing neatly, caring for your body, and carrying yourself with intention

You can’t afford first class, but you can afford planning, patience, and respect for your time

You can’t afford the dream apartment, but you can afford keeping your current space clean and organized

You can’t afford the business yet, but you can afford learning, consistency, and showing up daily

The future version of you isn’t defined by what you buy. They’re defined by how you think, how you treat yourself, what you tolerate, and what you repeat every day