Me: Do you want the real answer or the answer that will make sense to you

Coworker: I guess the real answer?

Me: Do you have three hours and a notepad

Coworker: No

Is this some kind of identity thing

Like for some reason the person can feel more bisexual than pansexual

Because of that's the case I am so done

Not because I don't agree with finding who you really are and finding words to communicate it

But because I have no fuck idea at that point and when everything ties back into your identity, like how do I say this

Your gender and your sexuality is part of your identity but they are also something else independent of your identity except your identity influenced them until they are essentially not independent of your identity

Having both of those things be tied to an identity is essentially just stereotypes and misogynism

But at the same time your identity actively influences them and then there is words that separate these different type of identities which means that it's do you understand what I'm saying

Happy pride month!

Bisexual isn’t a bad word!

Bisexual doesn’t mean you are only attracted to two genders or just men and women!

Bisexual as a label has existed for decades!

Bisexuals are literally the third letter of LGBTQIA+!