Khadija Chelidonia

It’s The Little Things In Life…

…that matter most. I had a robust argument last night with a mentor of mine. Well perhaps, it wasn’t a robust argument as much as it was me being very stubborn and the other party being cool, calm and collected as he shared his posits. I had just spent nine minutes and fifty-eight seconds of my life listening to Nigel Marsh on ‘How To Make Work-Life Balance Work’. Stemming from this, we were…

“Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment.” Jim Rohn 2017 in many ways was less than ideal. There, I admitted it! With that being said however, the year had its treasures. With a promotion secured for a new job in an uncharted field, an adventure ensued. I became a disciplined workaholic turning goals into accomplishments like an oyster with a grain of sand! That’s not to say…

Gift Yourself: Birthday Edition

Kate Moss is a Capricorn. Michelle Obama is a Capricorn. Yes, I know you see where I’m going with this: I am a Capricorn. So what did I get myself this year, other than some cliché La Perla corsetry and Laurent Perrier Rosé bubbly?   Something for Fashion’s Sake…   Strapless Little Black Dress: Yes, I’m an LBD addict. Perhaps I’ll do rehab for this affliction of mine in 2017. But after I’ve…

Freedom is what you do with what’s been done to you. – Jean Paul Sarte 

Where There’s A Will…

We’ve all heard it before. There’s no new revelation here. … there’s a way.  If you were lucky enough to be blessed with Caribbean parents, their uttering of that phrase simply meant ‘quit making excuses’. Or cued a mockery of your actual desire for whatever it was you previously claimed you wanted and had yet to materialise. But shouldn’t there be something more profound to a cliché as overused…

The Biggest Blown Opportunity in Your Business (Entrepreneur)

Not a new article yet John Brubaker’s posits still hold true. He writes of coaching as a key to “minding the gap” between potential and performance in order to improve engagement. Takeaway: Get a mentor; get engaged.

  Overplayed Song:

Do You Mind (“because he ain’t messing with no average chick…”)

I can’t even begin to justify my reasoning for playing this song so much. Nonetheless, Nicki’s lines are all catchy, Chris Brown’s and August Alsina’s vocals are amazing and I suppose the video is a major key? No judgments please…

  TV Show Quote of the Week:

“A cloud can mean a shower or a storm. So you take your good days where you get them. Try to stay positive. You try to remember that even in the bad news, there’s good news for someone.”

And of course this twisted but profound statement is going to be what I clutch from this week’s episode of Grey’s Anatomy. Thank you Shonda Rhimes for your loaded whispers of optimism. What else can I say?

  Indulgence:

Caipirissima Cocktails (…fruit flavoured ones are best…)

Enjoyed a great lunch meet up with a fave girlie of mine on the West Coast on Tuesday. We had a blast and moved on to a nearby bar for drinks well into the evening with great company. So how do caipirissimas fit into it all? I enjoyed more than half dozen between the two locations. I might be low-key addicted!

  Featured Outfit of the Week:

Over-sized Boyfriend Shirt, Ankle Pants & Heels; A Smile 

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Perfect for a Meeting to Sexy-Lunch-Date Transition!

Eyewear: Elizabeth & James Earrings: Pandora Top: Zara Bra: L’Agent by Agent Provocateur Pants: Zara (tailored) Purse: Chanel Heels: Aldo

    Thanks to Shane Leacock for the photos!

It Bag 2015 Selects

Less than 24 hours left to cast your vote for the It Bag of 2015… And I am somewhat torn! Ten candidates vying to be the ultimate purse of fashion goddesses everywhere and two caught my attention. To me when choosing an It Bag, you need it to be a few things… You –it simply has to speak to your taste and personal style…. Versatile –does it go from day meetings to evening cocktails? Can you wear…

Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Fancy words tend to impress, as do fancy promises. But let’s face it, people do lie, whether it be by omission or commission. Sometimes the grandest of intentions are just that, intentions! Now, I’m not saying never take a person at their word. After all a man’s word should be his bond. However, I’ve always believed one’s character and integrity is measured by their actions, never their words.…

The Grass is Always Greener on the Other Side

Aren’t we all guilty of fantasizing about someone else’s life that seems to be oh-so-better than our own? You know what I’m talking about. The girl at work or college who seems to have it all… The guy from your school days whose business is booming… The person you secretly instagram stalk… The celebrity you not-so-secretly and perhaps way-too-loudly stalk. Oh how their lives just seem to be…

Frank Gehry’s Twisted Box

From the time this beauty debuted on my timeline as she was posted on Louis Vuitton’s instagram page eight weeks ago, I was hooked. This work of art has been on my wishlist eversince! It was at this point that Louis Vuitton had launched their latest campaign that celebrated their infamous monogram design with The Icons & The Iconoclasts. Enter prize-winning architect Frank Gehry (among other…

You Can’t Please Everyone

Everyone and their pet shark has an opinion. And some days it seems like you can never win with the masses. From whispers to complaints to instagram comments; ever the constant indications on how you should conduct the affairs of your life. Now it’s one thing to accept constructive criticism. (Yes, perhaps I should be a little less lazy when it comes to my hair; duly noted.) On the other hand…

No Time Like The Present

As this is my first post on the blog, forgive me for being a tad sentimental with this choice of a cliché quote for a pinch of inspiration. Here goes… I am guilty of procrastination. As if admitting to being an addict at some ‘Anonymous’ (more…)

New Year’s Resolutions vs. Goal Setting

It is that time again, where to be qualified as a progressive human being, we are required to set resolutions. So we make these long lists of things we wish to accomplish or change in our lives. You know what I mean, it usually goes something like this – lose weight, exercise more; spend less, save more; work smarter, try new things; blah, blah, blah. Sure we all mean well but by February, these…

Mango Patron Cocktail Experiment

Flavoured liquor. Tequila. Cocktails. Seaside. At sunset. This tall glass of something new is what got me over my humpday blues. Some things just have lifestyle written all over them. Need I say more?  

Reggae Beach Party: The Newbie’s Guide

One of the highlights of the Barbadian calendar of festivities would be the ever anticipated Reggae Festival. With that being said, let me admit that I have never been. But that had to change. So this time around, with lots of last minute persuasion (and demanding and nagging) from friends and work colleagues, I decided to go turkle it out to Kandie, Spice and Alkaline. Ha!   Here are my tips for…

Say hello to the fancy schmancy of salads! Ingredients: Diced Avocado Grapefruit & Orange Segments Cherry Tomatoes Organic Leafy Greens Thinly Sliced Radish Microgreens and Lemon Zest (for garnish) Balsamic or a Citrus Dressing   Best Paired With: A bubbly drink! I’d suggest a lovely glass of prosecco for most but I’d go with sparkling water and a twist of lemon for the health conscientious and…