Aristide Maillol, Young Woman Under a Tree, ca. 1926. Woodcut printed in black ink on cream wove paper.
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Aristide Maillol, Young Woman Under a Tree, ca. 1926. Woodcut printed in black ink on cream wove paper.

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bitches will bring a million things to do on a train ride or long car trip and then spend the entire time looking out the window and daydreaming. i’m bitches
bitches will plan a million things to do during self-isolation and then spend the entire time mindlessly scrolling through social media. i’m bitches
How to Argue Like an Asshole
Good evening, friends, let me tell you some Secrets on how to argue like (and with) assholes. I’m writing this because I keep running into a particular asshole, and I need to stop engaging with them, and so this is an instruction sheet for myself as well as you guys.
First, try to avoid assholes; they don’t deserve your time and energy. But, if an Argument is unavoidable, here are a few tips on how to emerge unscathed.
Let go of the idea that you’re going to win.
You’re not gonna win. Nobody wins in an argument with an asshole. But, on the other hand, you can make them lose. You can deprive them of their entertainment and their triumph.
How???
Do not present your side of this debate.
This is so counter-intuitive for most of us who believe in things like, oh, science, or real facts, or the idea that real facts can be determined by science. Here’s a cool terrible thing about humans: certainty has nothing to do with facts. And when people are certain, that is when they become assholes.
When someone’s only goal is to win an argument, any real evidence or facts you give them is just ammunition for them to turn against you.
You will not convince them. So what should you be doing?
Destroy their arguments.
This is a thing of joy, because it’s what assholes are used to doing. They are, at heart, morons who don’t know how to construct, only how to destroy.
I used to be super emotional about arguments like this. I couldn’t think of anything to say while the other person ranted on about their horrifying bigotry. Now I’m a lawyer, and I’ve learned to weaponize my essentially nitpicky nature. For money.
So here are some easy tactics you can remember and deploy:
- Make them define the words they use. Nitpick the definitions.
- Turn questions back on them. If they ask you “why do you believe x”, ask them why they believe y. If they pull some “I asked first” shit, ask them why they’re afraid to defend their beliefs.
- Call them emotional. If possible, pick out specific emotions. This is especially devastating when you’re debating a man, as he will get more emotional as a result.
- “Why is that funny? I don’t get it.” Making people explain mean jokes can be a delight; they just wilt the more you question them about the underlying assumptions.
- Laugh at any especially dumb shit. Like they use some slogan or catchphrase that’s obviously untrue, due to science, or essentially ridiculous, like “we’ve made America great again,” and you just blurt out laughing. If they get mad, tell them – oh, so sorry, I’ll shut up, I’m giving you the floor to talk about your beliefs. I’m respecting you. This is a goddamn power move. It gives you the high ground, and also the implied control over the situation. The floor belongs to you, but you are yielding it to someone because you can.
- If they make an awkward exit, let them. Especially if they call the discussion “political.” It means they’re feeling attacked. Graciously allow them to retreat with their tail between their legs. If they storm off, allow them to do that too. Congratulations; you’ve ended the argument and you don’t have to deal with it anymore.
Basically: hand the asshole a shovel, and let ‘em dig. Relieve yourself of the burden to convince them they are wrong, and just sour their fun instead.
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Additionally, these are the tactics that assholes use, consciously or subconsciously, all the time. Recognize them. Once you know what they are, you can become immune to the intimidation and belittling tactics.
Good luck.
Good to know.

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A Lesbian Artist Who Painted Her Circle of Women at the Turn of the 20th Century
Now THAT is the kind of art I like to see
the artist’s name was romaine brooks and her art is great
The hardest thing about switching from liberal feminism to radical feminism isn’t the potential to lose friends / attract hate but realizing that all the progress you thought women have made is a lie and that shit is worsening, our safe spaces are being depleted, the strides our foremothers have made are being erased, and that women in nonwestern countries are getting the worst of it.
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9 Ways The Mainstream Trans Movement Executes Misogyny Towards Trans Men (FtM) - From a Trans Man’s Experience
1) shutting down trans men talking about their anatomy and their dysphoria
like shutting down trans men complaining about periods by mtfs who complain that it makes them dysphoric or that trans men don’t appreciate what they have; it only works this one way - I never saw a trans man scream over a trans woman who was complaining about say random erections that she should appreciate what she has and stop talking about it this way
2) speaking over trans men on issues related to their biology and socialisation and in extreme forms even completely denying them a voice on those issues
telling trans men that they do not know what’s it like to be socialised as a girl or treated as a girl and should shut up about it, often simultaneously telling them they also don’t know what’s it like to live as men/be a gnc man, removing trans men from talks about feminism, misogyny, abortion or rape
3) devictimising trans men
being misogynistic towards them (portraying them as hysterical bitches or mocking their anatomy, for one), or transphobic towards them (calling them shrimpdicks, cuntboys, manlets), and justifying it with them being men and either not being able to be victimised or deserving the harassment; it’s also present as “venting about men” but singling out trans men and never cis men
4) erasing trans men’s oppression
one element of it is claiming trans men shouldn’t reclaim tranny despite it very well targetting them, or replacing “transphobia” with “transmisogyny” in general discourse, in such ways as to erase trans men as targets of transphobia in order to frame them as oppressors of trans women more
5) limiting trans men’s freedom and means of describing their oppression to serve trans women
trans women’s interests are always prioritised; it’s “trans men shouldn’t say they were female socialised because it implies trans women were male socialised”, never “trans women shouldn’t say they were female socialised because it erases trans men’s trauma with misogyny"
6) constant guilting of trans men who dare speak up against those things, and guilting of trans men into taking a subserviant role in activism
trans men are constantly reminded that they are potentially predatory, potential rapists, just like cis men etc, and that is applied twice as heavily to trans men who disagree or talk back to trans women; the rhetoric is always that they are oppressors of mtfs and are victimising them further by “not listening to trans women”
7) bias in judgement of trans men’s actual societal power and position and spreading misinformation about it
in such a way trans men will constantly be told trans women get sexually harassed and raped more often, earn less, etc, despite statistics proving otherwise. bringing up those statistics results in: see point 6. in places with equal numbers of trans men and trans women in power (rare), the trans women will typically still claim there’s more trans men in power and their power is greater.
8) piting up trans men against each other
urging trans men to “defend trans women” from wrongthinking trans men. demanding that trans men who speak up are ostracised, including from their own circles
9) undermining the soldiarity trans men may find with lesbians, gnc women or any other female group
that can take form of literally explaining to butches with whom they should and with whom they shouldn’t have solidarity, or speaking aganst “AFAB solidarity”, or arguing that “AFAB people” don’t have any common experiences
those are my experiences from 8 years of being around other trans people. I met cool trans women, but I must admit those things are, unfortunately, a tendency. for clarity, I don’t believe in some crazy mtf conspiracy and hidden agenda. I believe in male born people often sticking with each other against female born people due to misogyny, and in them acting on their socialisation a lot of the time, leading to perserving patriarchal dynamics with opposite pronouns.
the new patriarchal dynamic is men being emotionally withholding and distant whilst periodically being affectionate/amorous when they get short bursts of desire for a woman, then they return 2 being stunted and not knowing how to communicate and women have to take on the ‘cool girl’ role of being unbothered by emotional whiplash because they’re so scared of fulfilling the misogynistic stereotype of ‘overbearing high maintenance girlfriend’
Wait a second….
SHEESH
WTF ITS TRUE
it also creates this weird false scarcity of male affection! women feel *so special* when they “convince” their man to “open up” because hes just so stoic and shy and reserved.
“he only opens up to me! but, i have to do tons upon tons of emotional labor to get him to open up and now hes evidently dependent on me emotionally. hes just a softie with a hard shell, if i leave him he’ll fall apart!”
its manipulation :)
Thanks! I hate it! :)

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me: why did you beat your wife with your hands
Period Sex Is Perfectly Normal – photographed by Nolwen Cifuentes
“ Periods were humiliating and you never wanted anyone to know you were on it. When I’d buy tampons at the store, I’d try to buy lots of other items so the cashier wouldn’t notice too much. I’m not sure why, is it some big secret that we all get it every month? My grandmother growing up had to go deep into the woods to bury the cloth she used to contain her menstruation. We’ve been through so many generations of shame involving our periods and not many of us have stopped to question why.
I first thought about making these images after a conversation with some friends of mine. They were pretty grossed out by the concept of period sex. When I mentioned that I do it with my partner, they didn’t even realise this was something some couples do. I felt pissed off about it at first and I decided to channel this feeling into a photo series. I wanted to photograph only women as I thought it would feel safer and sweeter somehow.”
The Culture Conversation: Guru Jagat x Ayishat Akanbiv
I was JUST talking about this with my therapist. You aren’t woke for calling me “they” just because of how I look.
Penn Badgley photographed by Luc Coiffait for Netflix

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damn...……….terf much
Damn.......misogynist much?