Mister Torn

I'm solo.

Very much so. Though Fetlife is a better place to reach me nowadays, I haven’t been checking in here often.

Not as many as I would like, unfortunately...

You are. But do you know anyone who isn't sentimental every now and then? I'm not sure I do.

2 years and 2 days since that night. Maybe one day I'll stop observing this date so hard, and just focus on your birthday? You were so, so good to me, and I'm so much better because of it. @January_Seraph @msjanuaryseraph @januaryseraph https://www.instagram.com/p/B0N1wiUg4-Ly1PZ_eAmHsNcCeFC8nQgBW9PQb00/?igshid=b4t4i5krx1z8

Ms Z. Paige and myself, 2k13. https://www.instagram.com/p/BwlnrlghRXW/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=sbncnftzu555

Rearspearing Saffy at a party in around 2012. Manual strappado - easier than you think! #strappado, #orgy, #kinkdotcom, #sfarmory, #theupperfloor, #ballgag, #collar, #metalcollar, #steelchoker, #stainlesssteelcollar, #slavecollar, #collaredsubmissive (at San Francisco Armory) https://www.instagram.com/p/BwajJ_AgdwP/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1twuzy4qoor95

Looking back at a good looking back, on a bright sunny day in my bright orange bedroom, 20 years ago, 5300 miles away. Wow. #pinkhair, #pinkcollar, #tragicromance, #sweetsurrender https://www.instagram.com/p/BwWFZ2Fgnme/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=6qteyxb1omdw

#baldisbeautiful, #headshaving, #girlswithshavedheads, #drumnbass, #breakcore,

I'm glad to have found the Noké. Smart padlocks add a lot of possibilities (not to mention safety precautions) to my preferred flavour of consensual captivity, and it's fantastic to finally have one with a design aesthetic worthy of it's role securing people I cherish. https://www.instagram.com/p/BwKauWMBjin/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=mz3k262ajzox

(Yes, this does mean Zita and myself are no longer living together. It's been a while. We're still very close, but have transitioned to a relationship much less sexual in nature, and we're currently not practicing D/s. There was no terrible event, betrayal, or rivalry. We still adore each other, it's just time for the next chapter...)