The reason why so many of y'all's feminism sucks is because you still believe deep down in your hearts that there are only two kinds of people in the world: precious, ethereal, fragile dollthings called "women", and violent, lustful, rage-fueled apes called "men". Until you throw that idea away, 3rd-grade-tier "girls rule boys drool, girls are princesses and boys are stinky :(" is as feminist as we'll ever get-- and I hope it's obvious that that's lightyears away from the bare minimum of where we need to be.
no, we've just seen first-hand that the vast majority of this trans movement is led by men appropriating womanhood based purely on stereotypes, fetishizes girlhood and womanhood to honestly impressive degrees, seeks to violently shut women up who have even the slightest bit of dissent, and refuses in general to take no for an answer all while their cult following of, regrettably mostly women, promotes this violence as 'inclusion' and doesn't see what's wrong with allowing men in women's spaces especially when those exact women are screaming no... good try tho!
You're either a throwaway account dedicated to transphobia or a very sad woman.
Either way, you need to fix your heart.
