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My current name(s) and pronouns are: Exy or Dragon and they/them or he/him

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So many "I was born too late" takes are actually "I was born poor" like I'm sure you WOULD have loved whatever historical quirk you're talking about, but sadly you would not have been allowed to do that. You would have died in a coal mine aged 13.
Being afab will not protect you from dying young in a coal mine. They put wee lassies down there all the time and sometimes they died, just as the boys did. Your understanding of historical gender roles is filtered through the gender roles of the mid 20th century. Yes you would also have faced other gender based violence on top of this probably, but that doesn't make you exempt from death via coal mine.
Also thank you to every single person of colour in the notes pointing out how white the take I'm critiquing is. You are 100% right.
the stuffed animal situation is phenomenal these days. you can find any specific arthropod or deep sea fish or microbe etc. used to be back in olden times all you could get was bears and mutants
Thinking about love, again. It has always baffled me when people say they love someone more. I understand what not loving someone enough is; there is some way that you experience love that they were unwilling or unable to give. that makes sense. That happens. but loving someone more? how is that quantified? in the ways you do show love or the ways you don't? is it about how much effort you put in or how impactful it is to them? *Is* it the thought that counts?
Is love about sacrifice? Is it only love when it's wanted? Sacrificing your life to save someone else's is always construed as love, even if they don't want it. saving up to buy someone a gift they don't want is not seen as love. where is the line? what sort of unwanted gift automatically counts? do I have to love being alive?
I love being free. the side effects of every med that I try make it feel like my cage is shrinking. If I wasn't on meds I would have sat outside yesterday. instead I slept for 16 hours and then played on my phone for 6 out of the other 8. I walked my sisters to the library and almost passed out? Is that love? Is that how I get better? Is there a difference between getting better and love?
I'm not getting better for me. That would be nice, obviously, but I keep trying because I know my loved ones will and they shouldn't have to deal with that. Is that love? My sister says the meds I'm on made her unable to feel emotions, especially love, for months. This doesn't feel like love, but nothing much did before, anyway.
If love is sacrificing, I'm too selfish for it. I feel joy in the presence of people that I would say I love; is that what it means? I can inspire joy in others; I can't help them, at least not more than I hurt, but I know dying would hurt them more; is it love, to be alive and relying on them rather than dying?
Do I have to feel love? Does love feel like freedom or a constraint? I am so tired of constraints. I want out of this cage I want to be free I don't want to keep watching my life shrink. I want more than 20 minutes of me awake and present and pain free.
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my safe clothing items that I wear day in day out for years and years should never break or rip or wear down. the power of friendship should stop that kind of thing
every designer of public bathrooms ever:
People who donât even try to shield children from adult personal or interpersonal conflict make me want to bite through a wall.
Aggressive arguing or violence in front of children, trying to make children take sides, traumadumping on children, serious negative self-talk or suicidal ideation in front of children, not explaining conflict in an age-appropriate way, etc. Biting you biting you biting you (but not in front of them).
Iâm not saying never disagree and skip through a field of daisies forever but if you are about to have an uncivil disagreement with somebody dismiss yourself for grown-up time and remove yourself from the kidsâ sight and hearing for the duration.
And hey. If you are about to have a CIVIL disagreement about something not related to the child (especially if itâs with the childâs other parent), I think thatâs actually presenting a great model.
If you are genuinely trying to correct a misunderstanding or come to an agreement working together against the problem rather than against one another, thatâs GREAT. Youâre showing your children that adults disagree sometimes but theyâre capable or resolving it calmly and safely.
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also please know that almost all of these are by Carl Barks, a duck comic writer and artist who was so good that even though disney didnât credit ANY OF THEIR ARTISTS FOR A LONG TIME (yes. I know. god.) people picked up that there was this one dude who was sincerely rocking the format and became so legendary that this anonymous creator was known amongst readers as âthe Good Duck Artistâ or âthe Good Duck Manâ

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September is here. Meaning that you should to start fresh. So change those bed sheets. Switch out that old toothbrush. Get your hoodies and sweaters out. Prepare for a better you. With new goals. And a healthier mindset. I know itâs been hard lately, but use this opportunity to start fresh.
If you have siblings, do your parents/guardians have an obvious favorite?
Yes, both/all of my parents have the same favorite and it's me
Yes, they both/all have the same favorite, and it's NOT me
Yes, they both/all have different favorites, and I'm one of them
Yes, they both/all have different favorites, and I'm NOT one of them
Yes, one has a favorite and the other(s) don't, and it's me
Yes, one has a favorite and the other(s) don't, and it's NOT me
Yes, I only have one parent/guardian and I'm the favorite
Yes, I only have one parent/guardian and I'm NOT the favorite
No, my parents/guardians don't have favorites as far as I know
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did you know thatâŚ
while autism functioning labels never really had set diagnosable descriptions like autism levels & autism itself in DSM, so different clinicians may have different definitions, butâ
did you know that for many of them (more than you imagine, even now), what different between high functioning & low functioning is just. intellectual disability?
way they use is:
high functioning autism = autism without intellectual disability
low functioning autism = autism with intellectual disability
(so back in aspergerâs vs autistic disorder diagnosis days, aspergerâs & high functioning autism/HFA & low functioning autism actually all mean slightly different things)
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yes, one thing tumblr autism community tend get wrong is: unlike autism ADHD learning disabilities, intellectual disability (as single disorder) *directly* affect *everything* about person. from conceptual/cognitive/thinking/learning/etc to social to daily living & adaptive functioning to everything you can think of. and autism community tend downplay ID & ignore autistics with ID. so someone with even mild intellectual disability can be quite different than someone with similar presentation of autism but without ID. howeverâ
intellectual disability being only criteria for medical label, that follow you n impact you for rest of life, that claim to describe how much you overall âfunctionâ (want everyone imagine be told by everyone that you function lowly). is wrong.
am nonverbal. have high support needs & need 24/7 someone close by. diagnosed with autism that border level 2 & 3. have many severe symptoms, very impaired theory of mind & often do not even understand people exist & have own different thought n feelings that not like my own, have little to no interest in social, cannot mask n is visibly autistic, have behavioral issues, motor skill lower than bottom 1% of age group, etc etc
& another autistic with maybe mild ID, who with support & hard work is living more independently, who struggles but can speak by mouth, who have job, who with right guidance have enough social skills to keep some good in person friends
am would be called high functioning. n second person, low functioning. all because they have ID while me, donât.
so, me get âvery fortunate (sarcasm)â experience of be grouped in category n be black sheep n be expected assumed able to & be questioned why canât do things other âhigh functioningâ autistics can do, because they have lower support needs than me & lower autism levels than me. while second person get assumed they not able do things it too dangerous too risky & others be shocked about them do every small thing, simply because they have ID & thus must be low functioning, not because they actually cannot do it.
though. even if there someone like me but have ID. still donât think anyone should be told they so terrible at functioning they âfunction lowly.â
diagnoses can be important & having comorbid disorder especially something as general as ID can mean different things compare to someone without that comorbid disorder. but language about person should be individualized based on each person, not something general that only look at diagnoses n not the person. and, that language need be actual respectful about person, because that who we are: people. even if some of us have a LOT of struggles where we physically depend on other people 24/7.
(n everytime talk about autism functioning labels, feel need to say: forcibly labeling someone with functioning labels problematic because everything just said. not because all autistics same & by same, mean verbal low support needs)
this is your random reminder to CHECK IF YOU'RE STILL HAVING FUN
are you enjoying scrolling tumblr? watching youtube? reading that book? playing that game? drawing that art? doing that activity? if not,
YOU CAN STOP AND DO SOMETHING ELSE
you don't have to stick to something that you are doing for fun if it isn't fun for you anymore. You can come back! If you've loved it before you are likely to love it again! but you can stop!
Don't get stuck in a loop of doing something that you think should be fun when it isn't! You can put it down for a bit! Maybe that's the very thing that will make it fun again later!

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