Trying to attend anything in public just has me butting against the fact that being tma sucks. Yeah, that hema thing looks cool, how do they feel about trans women? Yeah, the trivia at the lesbian bar looks cool, so like their thoughts on trans women? Oh, that lesbian rave looks awesome, so about the trans women? Just, fundamentally unsure if I will even be allowed to exist in this space, and if I am will I be interacted with? Will I be the pariah desperate for attention but relegated to standing awkwardly in the corner or alone at the bar?

Then maybe stop going to lesbian events???????

Idk man it’s so easy to get bogged down in all the bullshit online but when my then-6 year old cousin found out I was trans he said “ok” then corrected my grandma when she misgendered me. I was once the third between a gay man and a lesbian. Two lesbians once invited me back to their place when I presented as a man. I met an AMAB nb butch who looked strikingly to outsiders like a cis man and it was one of the more sapphic experiences I’ve had. I nervously wore a boydyke shirt to pride and got 3 different cis-looking femme folks tell me they loved my shirt. I once told a trans group at a protest that any pronouns were fine for me and one person said “wow, I’m impressed and intimidated by people like that. I don’t know that I could be that chill with pronouns.” I once told a GNC friend I wished I could wear a type of “opposite” gender clothing after I had already transitioned and so it would be associated with my AGAB and he said “You could just do it.” I’ve had cishet men fight cops for me before. The first time I had a doctor ask me if my name was different than what was on my forms I had to try not to cry. Last week, a phone call with a doctor’s office where I am generally cis passing asked unprompted if my name listed is what I want to be called. It touched me then too. I told a lesbian friend once I felt like my attraction to men AND women both felt gay. She said “makes sense.” And we moved on. I go by different pronouns in different circles. I’ve had gay women love my facial hair. I’ve had gay men like my tits. It’s all out there, I promise. It can be hard to find it but I promise there is community like you and community who likes you. And it’s more messy and beautiful than tumblr discourse makes it out to be.

Do words have any meaning at all to you people?

Today is the anniversary of the death of Jonathan Joss (King of the Hill, Parks and Rec). Jonathan Joss was an Indigenous, gay man who died protecting his transgender husband, on the first day of Pride month. Today we remember him and how he protected his family.

Sad that he was murdered but he was in a heterosexual relationship.

TIM dressed as a little girl, shocker

@tankhall may you never ever escape this

Ethel Cain is so irritating you are not a sexy traumatised teenage girl you are an adult man on tumblr

Ethel has good fashion sense but I just want to grab him and go YOUR WHOLE CONCEPT OF FEMALE EXPERIENCE YOUVE BASED YOUR CAREER ON IS BASED ON TUMBLR PHOTOGRAPHY AND MALE GAZE AESTHEFICS

are u retarded

Oh my fucking god Ethel Cain just called me retarded

It’s really disgusting sex predators are mocking people for censoring their feet in photos of themselves because there actually was a big problem with foot fetishists creating databases of people and their feet to masturbate to. We should be able to acknowledge that it’s a violation to masturbate to pictures of strangers online to the point where everyone becomes so aware of it they’re not even comfortable showing their fucking feet in pictures, but that wasn’t even the issue. The website wikifeet literally cataloged people and pictures of their feet specifically to jerk off to with their identities attached to it. We’re not allowed to feel any type of way about that though. We’re not even allowed to censor that in photos of ourselves now or else receive ridicule. These sex pests have no problem throwing a fit about kiwifarms and similar websites documenting lolcow pedophiles and how that’s a violation of privacy and dignity, but no having a website of profiles of strangers online with images of their feet specifically to masturbate to is fine. Everyone should be fine with that. It’s actually weird if you start to cover your feet now because you know we have a profile of you on fetish website.

Posted a picture of my new shoes and had the most disgusting men liking it. God forbid a girl buys shoes!!!!!!!!!!!

It’s really disgusting sex predators are mocking people for censoring their feet in photos of themselves because there actually was a big problem with foot fetishists creating databases of people and their feet to masturbate to. We should be able to acknowledge that it’s a violation to masturbate to pictures of strangers online to the point where everyone becomes so aware of it they’re not even comfortable showing their fucking feet in pictures, but that wasn’t even the issue. The website wikifeet literally cataloged people and pictures of their feet specifically to jerk off to with their identities attached to it. We’re not allowed to feel any type of way about that though. We’re not even allowed to censor that in photos of ourselves now or else receive ridicule. These sex pests have no problem throwing a fit about kiwifarms and similar websites documenting lolcow pedophiles and how that’s a violation of privacy and dignity, but no having a website of profiles of strangers online with images of their feet specifically to masturbate to is fine. Everyone should be fine with that. It’s actually weird if you start to cover your feet now because you know we have a profile of you on fetish website.