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put where you’re from, and your opinion on these foods in the tags.

sweet iced tea

key lime pie

fried chicken

sweet potato casserole. bonus: with or without marshmallows?

peaches

collard greens

cornbread

biscuits and gravy

shrimp and grits

not a fan of iced tea

key lime pie is meh, unless it’s key lime meringue pie which is lovely

fried chicken is fine

sweet potato casserole with brown sugar is very good, have not tried with marshmallows

peaches are wonderful

collard greens are nice

cornbread is very heavy and requires milk or something to help it down

biscuits and gravy are okay

haven’t tried grits

Iced tea: I like it

Key lime pie is our “torta de limão”, I think? I like it but it’s extremely sweet.

Fried chicken is good

I’ve never heard of eating sweet potato as a casserole?? Or with marshmallows?!

Peaches are good when ripe. When green they’re too crunchy and not sweet enough :(

Collard greens, I love them raw and shredded like salad. But sauteed in a pan is nice too

Cornbread is bread made of corn meal/flour, I suppose? I like it, it has a softly sweet flavor

Biscuits and gravy is… like… cookies and cream? Can’t say I’ve ever eaten them like that

Shrimp and grits… well, I don’t know what grits is, but I do like shrimp.

it’s all delicious. every single one. collard greens need vinegar to be real good, ill admit that, and you should throw some bacon grease in the pot for a real treat. to not have consumed shrimp and grits is a tragedy that you should rectify asap.

It’s come to my attention that a lot of people want to avoid terfs, but just don’t know what to look for, so I thought it would be useful to compile this handy little guide.

What is a terf? The question I most often see in the notes of any anti-terf post. TERF stands for Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist. A more accurate term, which some people have taken to using for them is Feminism Appropriating Reactionary Transphobe (FART). Basically, they’re transmisogynists masquerading under the guise of feminism. They’re also often anti-sex workers (swerfs), generally racist, and all in all very similar to your average conservative in most of their views.

The Basics If you’re lazy like me you probably don’t want to search every op to see if they’re a bigot, so here’s some quick and easy signs.

The url. Chances are you’re dealing with a terf if they’ve got any of the following in their url:

rad or radical

a part of the reproductive system (ovary, vagina, clitoris, etc. It’s a bit weird tbh)

terf (I know it seems obvious but you’d be amazed how many people miss it)

Almost any post about “males invading female spaces” is a terf attacking trans women.

In general, any post using males and females in place of men and women is a cause for concern. It’s good to check the op before reblogging.

Be wary if…

Their url contains the word female, especially if their avatar includes the lipstick lesbian flag or the purple triangle and axe lesbian flag. Some will be normal, nice lesbians, but you’re better off checking.

They talk about “gender traitors”.

They act as if every woman who chooses to dress femininely and wear makeup has been brainwashed by the patriarchy. There’s a long conversation here about gendered expectations and societal pressure, and that should definitely be addressed, but the hardline “you can’t choose to do this” rather than “question why you choose to do this” has its roots in terf rhetoric.

Conversely, a lot of terfs hate butch women (see the “gender traitors” thing above). Basically, these ones want to know what your genitals are by your clothes, and that’s just gross.

They’re aphobic. Seriously, the arguments used are almost exactly the same. It’s one of the few times the slippery slope actually works.

first off- radfems are racist and hate sex workers. both are way off base. radfems want prostitution to not exist. it’s harmful just it’s existence justifies to men that women are a commodity, a thing to be purchased.

racism- honestly, there’s way more proof of y'all being racist (comparing black women to trans women) than there is of “terfs” being racist. like your buddy tygress!

considering y'all have urls like “stop stalin and suck my dick” and “terfs suck my dick” maybe you should reconsider this one. also, women are allowed to be proud of their biology, especially when people have put them down for it for years

the highlighted part is just blatant lesbophobia. “check every lesbian blog because it might me a terf!!” is just admitting that you see all terfs as lesbians @terfstillmeanslesbian

and clearly you’ve never seen a radfem post because all of the ones about compulsive femininity says “question why you do this”

there are butch radfems?? radfem blogs usually have a shit ton of butch support posts.

Also, not to be rude but like..... Do You Think you could just pass the GED without going through high school? My brother did 3 yrs of high school before he tried to take the GED and go to trade school early, and he had to take it a few times and use a program to study for it. It’s meant to contain high school material.

TERFs benefit from your hatred of lesbians.