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@messymotherfcker
you have to be kinder to people with memory issues.
you have to be kinder to people who are slow processors.
you have to be kinder to people who don't understand your jokes.
you have to be kinder to people who forget important dates.
you have to be kinder to people with cognitive decline.
you have to be kinder to people who were always this way, too.
you have to be kind. you have to be kind.
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it's weird after being through massive life-changing trauma how not much feels like it matters anymore but when you do still get those spikes of mundane worry or self-centered insecurity or whatever you then feel guilty for caring at all. and you feel guilty for idk enjoying a song on the radio or a sunny day. and you feel guilty that you can't go back in time. and you feel guilty for using it all as an excuse. and you feel guilty for not being able to move on
“You’re not really depressed you just need to do X,Y,Z”
But also:
“If you were really depressed you wouldn’t be able to do X,Y,Z”
In another universe you realized you hurt me
In another universe you actually asked for forgiveness
In another universe you would have taken accountability for your actions
In another universe you actually realized the irreparable damage you did on me instead of acting like a fucking asshole
In another universe I hope you can be a good person...
When certain past wounds are brought to the surface by some kind of trigger, we find ourselves in the same emotional state as when they first happened.
It seems that some wounds will never heal.
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Sometimes it’s not about choosing what to become, it’s about surviving what already is.
"this suicidal person is so stupid for believing nobody will miss them. i remember people i haven't talked to in years lol"
ok but are you present in their life enough for them to realize that?
we can all say after the fact that we cared for our friend who committed or disappeared or whatever. we can even mean it when we say it. we can think about them. but did we ever act on it? did we ever even make them feel like we were there? "nobody would care if i disappeared" is not a literal phrase. of course they know that people would care. what the phrase conveys is a deep sense of alienation that can't be mended by implying stupidity on their part.
Sylvia Plath, The Bell Jar
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This
Pre-menstrual depression is always depicted as like "He He! I had a box of icecream bars and cried while watching the Titanic!" But in reality, it's more like, "I'm standing the edge of an abyss. There is nothing good inside of me, I'm filled with rage and desperation."
It's crazy that being told how to deal with that is never a part of anyone's menstrual sex education.
This has already been said in the notes, but if PMS causes extreme depression and even suicidal ideation, that is in fact something that most people do not experience and it can be treated
Like for the majority it really is "oh i'm hungrier and moodier than usual"
^this should be a part of sex education so the point still stands
I went to my doctor after I was walking to work one morning and saw a bus coming and actually took a step to throw myself in front of it before I pulled myself together. Later that day I started bleeding and was literally like someone flipped a switch and I didn't feel suicidal anymore. Which made me feel like I was loosing my mind because who goes from 'I want to throw myself in front of a bus' to 'I'm perfectly fine' just like that? I did some research, I went to the doctor and described my feelings, he looked me in the eye and gently asked what I thought it was, I said I'd read about PMDD and I thought it might be that, he said 'I think so too' and wrote a prescription.
If, before you get your period, you feel furiously angry, suicidal, irritated by every tiny thing to the point you want to murder someone, stuck in a black hole you'll never escape from. If you are experiencing extreme emotions for what seems like no good reason, especially if you get your period and those extreme emotions just go away. You're probably not just PMSing , you may have PMS's feral big sister PMDD and it's treatable.
Also this is something that can develop as you get older. So if you used to get normal PMS but what I wrote above sounds more like your norm now then don't just write it off as regular PMS.
It can also be PMDD even if you have depression or other emotional dysregulation issues the rest of the time. If it's significantly worse before your period, it's probably PMDD.
I didn't know this until I'd spent years with PMDD worsening my depression to at times life threatening levels on a monthly basis. I didn't stop having depression once the PMDD was treated, but it did stop trying to kill me on the regular.
Don't make the mistake of thinking 'oh it's not PMDD because I just have depression/other mental illness.' It can be both.
The fact that I learned about PMDD from an instagram reel and almost wrote it off as a new trendy health term despite it being a highly active detriment to my mental health and wellbeing is just one of countless reasons why this NEEDS TO BE TAUGHT IN SEX ED.
I got inspired by this post
I see that "learned helplessness" is the hot new psychological term getting wildly misused. the phrase you're looking for is "weaponized incompetence," babes
weaponized incompetence is when your partner does chores shitty on purpose so that you stop asking them to do chores. learned helplessness is when you've experienced so much trauma that you've developed the mindset that you can't meaningfully change your situation and have become accordingly passive.
if your partner is exhibiting learned helplessness they aren't manipulating you, they're displaying a trauma response.
im so sick of being broke im so mad some ppl are just born into better circumstances im so mad that my life is and will always be small because of this. and im so mad that we’re just supposed to be like ah well it could be worse. actually it could be a whole lot fucking better
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i’m not even sad i’m just full of unsaid things and memories i didn’t ask for
