you're in control. anything you want to manifest is in your hands, because you are both the vehicle and the destination. you're constantly shifting states at all times. all it takes is a second, and you've inhabited a completely different state of being.
for example, let's start with the analogy of driving. i recommend reading this slowly so it can cement correctly, because i'm using a lot of figurative language. you're in the drivers seat of a car operating the wheel with your hands, your right foot operating the brake and pedal, and your complete focus and gaze at the road in front of you. in order to drive, all three of those components must be implemented, and i will tell you exactly why.
you lose control of the wheel? then the entire frame of your car is veered off to the side as a result, because you're no longer in control of where your car is going. you're in control of the brake (stopping), the pedal (the intensity at which you can go), and your attention, but you have no control over the destination.
this is what occurs when you feel as if you're not in control of your own life. you're observing the direction you're going, and you are controlling the speed, yet internally, you believe you've got no decision over the direction. meanwhile, all you have to do is grip onto the wheel, and steer yourself back into the correct position. all you have to do is reclaim control.
alright, you got that steering wheel issue fixed. now, let's say you lose control of the brake pedal, and the ignition. so you've got a working steering wheel that allows you to steer the car, and your attention is still faced towards what's in front of you, yet you've got no momentum to move forward. you're sitting there in your vehicle, in the middle of the road looking out at your surroundings, holding onto the wheel, but physically going nowhere.
this analogy alludes what happens when we know the direction of the destination we're headed towards; we know how to get there, but we internally self-sabotage movement, and stay stagnant. you cannot stay in two locations at once. you can't stay in the realm of your old life, while constantly looking out towards your desired life because you will continuously be the observer of this other version of yourself rather than just, being them. again, you simply have to reclaim control, and decide, no, i am not stuck here, i am going to continue moving one way or another.
so, now you're moving again, your brake and pedal are all in service. but, let's say you suddenly lose focus. you're driving, foot on the pedal, hands steering correctly, but something either internally, or externally catches your attention and takes you out of the present moment. now, you're caught up in a fog of thoughts that are clouding your perception of what's right in front of you. your attention should be on where you're going, yet it's not.
you know how manifestation coaches will always tell you, your desire is already yours? that's because it's absolutely true, as long as your perception is veered towards that. you've already got the roadmap in your head, you already know exactly what streets you're supposed to turn at, but somethings taken your attention off of that. so, you've got complete control over your vehicle's components, you've got complete control over your destination and where you end up, but your focus isn't intact. now you're irritated because you're lost, turning down towns, asking around for help, and as each second goes by, you're losing more and more patience. with each passing minute, you're growing more tired, and you'd rather just go home than deal with this annoyance. and as an hour passes of your aggravation, you've lost all motivation.
but again, all you have to do is clear your mind, breathe in and out, and reclaim control of where your attention lays. because if you just turned down two more streets, you'd realize, your destination was much closer than you believed.
you are the vehicle, and the destination. you're in control of where you're going. you're in control of the speed. you're in control of how you get there, when you get there, you're in control of it all. everything is you pushed out.
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