Mental Mender

This account/page is a supporter of many things. So please be respectful and understand, even I will ask questions if I don't understand.

My hobbies are fishing 🎣, watching media 💻, singing 🎤, art ✏, learning about different cultures and languages 🌍, reading 📚, and bowling 🎳.

I will continue to edit this as time goes but if you have any questions, go right ahead. I also have other outlets instead of Tumblr.

Misc.

Type 4 Ennegram 🧠

Spiritual (still a beginner) 🌌

Pisces ♓

Type INFP 🧠

Stop Asian Hate 🚫

Black Lives Matter ⚠️

Since I got out of my father's house and now living with my boyfriend's family, I finally feel free and alive. I have little moments where I feel like life is either going too fast or I'm not ready at all. I feel like that's only because I have this newfound freedom and I have the choice to choose what I want to do and how I want to do it. I get to live my own life the way I want.

Although this is still new to me, I encourage everyone to at least live life to the fullest, enjoy the little moments and appreciate life. Be yourself and never let someone tell you what you can't do or you're inadequate in any way. Also fuck societal standards 🤙🏽

Have a great weekend and stay strong.

You are awesome. You are amazing.

You can do it!

Ever since I was a kid, I knew I was not straight. First, I thought I liked girls and it was weird at first because in my family, liking the same sex was not allowed.

Some time passed and then I found myself identifying as bisexual, liking girls and guys because I was attracted to people in my high school. Then I started to think that it’s not just girls and guys I like, it is the vibe, personality, the energy that I love about the (or a) person.

That was how I felt up until college because I met this new person, in my friend group at the time, named River and they were non-binary. Not that it matters but I was attracted to River and it changed the way I thought about my sexuality in general.

At this point I was confused. I knew I was bisexual, but I wondered if I may even be pansexual or queer. I talked and “explained” to my partner about this and he said “Okay? So what?” He explained how I should just be myself and not get so hung up on labels.

Now don’t get me wrong labels can and are helpful in many ways but he has a point. We, humans or everyone, feel the need to categorize and label ourselves and everything when we should just experience life, be happy, and live life the way we want to...You know? I probably didn’t explain it right but I honestly want to know what other people think about “LABELS” and how we label everything.