Donāt forget the AIDS episode.
If you werenāt around in the 80s or you havenāt studied queer culture of the 80s, you have NO IDEA how fucking insane it is that they made an episode with this scene:
āAIDS is not a bad personās disease. It is not G-d punishing people for their sins.ā
That was a statement so radical in the mid-1980s that calling it āradicalā doesnāt feel extreme enough. Nor is this the only moment that hits so hard: Sophia expresses the then-common fear that she might contract HIV from sharing Roseās coffee cup, and in a later moment of the episode where Rose is at her cracking point, Sophia takes one of the coffee cups sheās marked as having been used by Rose, and drinks from it. If youāre young enough to say āā¦..okay?ā or āso?ā to that sentence, I donāt begrudge you your ignorance of the fearāI feel glad youāre blessed to have never had to live in that worldābut I do need you to understand:
This is Princess Diana and this photo caused an international uproar because the man sheās shaking hands with had AIDS.
Princess Diana touched HIV/AIDS+ people and had to reassure the entire world this didnāt make her a bad mother or mean she was dying, and this would have been about the same time as the GG episode. Remember the initial terror over Covid, before there was a vaccine but after the pandemic was announced, when nobody really knew exactly what it was, only that it was killing people? Imagine that. Multiply it by a hundred. Maybe a thousand. The hospital scenes we saw in Covid arenāt much different from the AIDS crisis.
And the Golden Girls explicitly chose to give an AIDS scareāand remember, at this time there was absolutely no treatment whatsoever, AZT had been discovered but not yet approved, so basically if you got AIDS your treatment was praying like hellāto its most straightlaced, beloved character. Rose is an integral part of the show. Rose is not a āvery special episodeā shoo-in. And while Blanche could have been a cautionary tale about sleeping around, noāthey chose to go with something that was a very real concern at the time, the lack of effective blood screening for donated blood. There wasnāt a person in America who could judge Rose. She needed surgery. She needed a transfusion. She trusted her doctors. This is the most natural thing in the world. The storyline was carefully crafted so that at no moment could bigots find some way to justify Roseās possible diagnosis.
And for thirty minutes, the show delivered hit after hit after hit of AIDS education (VERY GOOD AIDS education, actually, some of it is now outdated but most is still solid and for the mid-1980s it was choice), forcing middle America to actually reckon with what the the then-President was openly mocking as āfag disease.ā And not just the disease part of it: when Rose says sheād have to give up her job and doesnāt know what sheād do, that the medical bills will pile up, Blanche says āthatās what [house] mortgages are for.ā Sheās the one who owns the house they all live in. Sheās ready to put herself into tens of thousands of dollars of debtāno minor sum now, it would have been MASSIVE in 1985āgoing into her retirement years, to ensure Rose receives what little medical care is available, should it be necessary. This episode forced people to look, really LOOK, at what HIV did to people emotionally, the choices it forced them to make. Yes, itās somewhat sanitized for prime time, but ask any gay man who survived that time what it meant to hear Blanche say āAIDS is not a bad personās diseaseā or to see Dorothy fold Rose into a tight embrace as she faced the possibility of being told āIām sorry. Get your affairs in order.ā It was HUGE. It was AN EXTREMELY BIG DEAL.
The Golden Girls came out swinging hard for older women, and then said āfuck that, weāre doing it for everyoneā and they DID.