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DO NOT DO THIS.

This makes me so angry.

If you work in a movie theater and you do this I have no respect for you.

My younger brother is Type 1 Diabetic.

When we go to a movie theater, we always get him diet soda. If he were to get regular when we asked for diet, we would not give him the insulin he would need for it. If that happens, his blood sugar level could go so high he could go into a coma, go blind, or even die.

If somebody gave him regular soda instead of diet without telling us, that person could be responsible for a nine-year-old being killed or blinded.

Just thinking about that makes me so angry. I get scared every time we take him to a movie in case the people working there saw this picture and decide to do the same thing.

I am very sensitive to lactose, not Lactose intolerant but because of stomach ulcers that are still healing. A couple years ago I went to Starbucks right after my classes with some friends and asked for a green tea latte with soy milk. The barista, for some reason out of malice and/or hate for her life so she took it out on me, gave me whole milk in my latte.

5 minutes after my first sip of latte, my stomach cramped BAD. Not the “Oh! time to poop!” kind of cramp but it felt like someone had stabbed me with a knife and twisted it. Now I’ve had this happen before so I knew the cause of it. I went up to the barista clutching my gut screaming at her that she put dairy in my latte rather than soy LIKE I REQUESTED. She denied it and called me a “pretentious white girl for wanting soy”and so my friends got the manager. I had to explain that I had stomach ulcers that were still healing and if I were to go to the hospital for this incident, they would be responsible for it.

Manager flipped his shit and the barista was terrified out of her mind. Pretty sure both thought i was gonna sue. Manager actually fired her on the spot because of the negligence. My friends managed to get me home in one piece while I stayed home for 3 days in absolute agony and missed my midterm.

Last month I went out to dinner with a friend at an italian restaurant that had a small gluten free menu. I had been there once before and had their gluten free pasta and it was great! I think one of the managers had been there and was super helpful when taking my order to make sure that everything was gluten free for me. When I ordered the gluten free pasta again this time though, the waitress who took my order all but rolled her eyes at me. I didn’t think much of it at the time, because the restaurant was so accommodating before, I just assumed it would be the same this time.

But sure enough, they brought out my pasta, I ate it, and about an hour later I had extreme stomach pains and was throwing up (in a movie theater no less).

Barfing and agonizing pain aside, eating gluten when you have celiac causes a lot of internal damage that’s hard to notice. The biggest thing is that it damages your intestines, preventing your body from absorbing nutrients properly, which can take months to heal.

90% of people don’t take my cats and dog allergies seriously when I tell them I’m allergic and wondering if a cat or a dog is present at X place. They think it’s just watery eyes. Nope. Well yeah, watery and itchy eyes, but I start wo wheeze and have trouble breathing. They don’t give epi-pen for those (anyway you have to go to the hospital after) just inhaler. It’s no miracle, specially if I didn’t take other meds before.

I myself have two very odd allergies: capsaicin and menthol (the chemicals that make peppers hot and mint cold, respectively). I can’t even use regular toothpaste because I’ll get a bad headache and nausea. Peppers cause my throat to swell up, even just if I’m smelling hot sauce sat across the table.

I have had to fight with actual healthcare professionals (mostly dentists and dental assistants) who thought I was playing up the fact that I don’t like how it tastes (news flash: I absolutely love mint, but I am absolutely still allergic to it), and I have been served food incorrectly on five separate occasions as well. Thankfully, I only had a really bad time with mint in a Starbucks drink; that just made me vomit (from smelling it; I have a habit of smelling drinks because I used to drink a lot of tea). Had it been, say, jalapeno salsa on my nachos (which happened, but is pretty easy to spot), I wouldn’t be here telling you about it.

I’ve gone through triage about twelve times in the last year, and every single time, I inform the nurse that these are my allergies. They look skeptical (one even went so far as to say “well, that’s not something I’ve ever heard of), but lo and behold, when they type it into the system, it comes up! Thankfully the doctors I’ve dealt with are smart enough to listen to the triage nurses and make sure that even if it’s just an antibacterial rinse, it’s menthol-free.

So I’m very new into my own chronic illness (I have POTS), but one thing I learned SUPER early on, before I even got my diagnosis, is that I am now incredibly sensitive to caffeine. Like stupidly sensitive. Diet drinks are manageable, and caffeine-free stuff is a godsend!! I’m also still a teenager so I just. Really enjoy carbonated drinks

Another note: I’m very small. I’ve always had a problem gaining weight throughout my life, and have gone through several medical procedures to make sure I would be able to live a normal and healthy life when I was very young. Because of this, I am incredibly skinny.

I went out to eat with my girlfriend once, i forget exactly where, and I took note that they served caffeine free drinks and I got so excited. I very happily ordered one!! There are very few places that even offer caffeine free stuff. When I got my drink, I immediately started sipping away even before I got our food, and literally within the first few gulps my body started to turn on me. I did my best to ignore it, but I knew that the drink wasn’t caffeine free and just stopped drinking out of it. I was dejected (we had already left at this point, and I don’t think I’d be able to even confront the person who made my drink due to anxiety), and physically sick not even within the hour, throwing up everything I had had, and had to leave my girlfriend to go home early. I was rendered pretty much useless for the next several days, literally unconscious for almost a full 10 hours and laying in a pool of my own sweat, vomit and tears for most of it.

I watched a TikTok video yesterday where baristas were talking about how if you’re mean to them, then they’ll ruin your order on purpose and if you’re nice to them, them they’ll do something “nice” like giving you an extra shot or something.

food trust issues are so prevalent in OCD/AN-R and other control-based mental illnesses.

as someone who’s been struggling with a restrictive eating disorder for years, not being able to trust a calorie count IS something that would make me simply decide to not eat at all.

you (general) are so concerned about making the skinny person not skinny anymore as some kind of retribution or whatever, whatever reason you feel entitled to fucking with their food. okay. let’s ignore that.

but before you let “they’re skinny” get in the way of your common decency, consider the following:

how would you feel knowing you’re the reason people like them just avoid eating altogether and become more ill? don’t you want them to eat more?

I used to be EXTREMELY lactose intolerant (I still am but slightly less) and my aunt ordered me a soy milk drink at Starbucks. My aunt is very skinny, and alot of people assume she’s doing fad diets or something (she isn’t) and the barista happened to one of those people. So she put WHOLE MILK in a specifically SOY MILK drink.

Guess who left that Starbucks extremely sick and about to cry from pain?

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