I know two men who are currently single. One is 26, and the other is 38.
Iβve spoken with both of them at length about what they want in a woman, seeing as theyβre cishet and white.
They both immediately went for physical attributes. Thin, but needs to have a nice butt. Boobs canβt be too big. One likes short hair, the other likes long hair. They also went into facial features for some reason. That was the part that made me really uncomfortable as I hadnβt expected either of them to have been that focused on appearances.
Aesthetics came next. Both want βalt goth / witchyβ women. It should be worth noting both of these men said their potential partner canβt wear too much makeup.
Lastly came personality and interests. They both said this is the most important thing to them, but they also βhave to be prettyβ. Oh, and they need to listen.
I have some single ladies Iβve also spoken with.
Itβs the opposite. They rarely care about looks. Itβs about chemistry, emotional connection, feeling safe, and sharing common goals / ideals.
While I know itβs not βall menβ it sure as fuck is a lot of you. Also both of these men think theyβre part of the βgood cishet white liberal menβ who voted for Kamala, despite one of them not voting at all.
Heβs the 38 year old. To make things worse, heβs trying to date a 24 year old. π€·ββοΈ His criteria for a potential partner was also under the age of 30 because it means less baggage and theyβre still βfun to be aroundβ.
You donβt want to know what he doesnβt bring to the table. Either of them, rather. π
We do have a male loneliness epidemic, but itβs not womenβs fault. We donβt owe you anything. Weβre not vending machines you put tokens into and get sex out of. Male culture made by men and perpetuated by men has made men this way. And itβs your job as men to fix it, not point the finger at us and say itβs our fault for not wanting to be with you. Some of us like myself want to actually HELP you, but you guys rarely want to listen. You instead want to complain to us about our gender and how unfair weβre being by not giving you a chance.
We donβt owe you anything.
On January 20th, 2025 and forward, theyβre going to try to take our rights. They may succeed.
Men have to take from us because theyβve gaslit themselves into seeing us as the enemy, despite having driven us away by their own actions centered around self interest.
βItβs not all men. But it sure is a lot of you.β
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