just a cat

It's nuts how common it is to not allow children to be angry, even (especially) in households where adults are angry all the time. As a child I knew my own anger was unacceptable--not just expressing it outwardly but feeling it at all. So now as an adult my immediate reaction to my own anger is often to feel guilt instead of like. Noticing when someone is being rude or unfair or my boundaries are being violated or whatever. fucked up.

actually pigs shouldn't be at pride even outside of uniform. fuck those guys

if you decide to become a police officer then that outweighs any other marginalised identity you can rustle up like. not sorry, who asked you to willingly become a pig

when i was a kid i decided that killing people was bad therefore war was bad therefore the military was evil. and adults would tell me it's more nuanced than that and i would understand when i grew up. well i'm a grown up now and idk i still think that killing people is bad and war is bad and the military is evil

As a trans woman I sure love having all this visibility that makes complete strangers break into our apartments to stab us 40 times while we're doing our laundry, or gun us down in the middle of the street while we're waitng for a bus, or kicking us out of homeless shelters so we freeze to death, or luring us into a park at night to stab us to death, or throw us into men's prisons for life for the crime of defending ourselves from a man trying to kill us. All those trans men sure are right to be jealous of our visibility.

really losing my patience for any 'feminist' statement to the tune of 'we need feminism because women fill a fundamentally different and necessary role than men and will be better at doing x y or z'. like actually i think we need feminism because it is an unbearable death of the spirit by inches to exist in a world where you are not seen as a fully realized human being because of a single cultural determination, and because a world that enshrines such things creates systems that are fundamentally sick to the core

the princess demands a kissie. AND ALSO. a hug. AND. 5 hours of cuddling !

wait what did nintendo ds stand for? dick sucking??ewwwww. the dsi? dick suck international??? ewwww

yuo cant say this during plague month

pride month. pharohs curse got me

you'd think "altoid" was an internet insult for people who like alternative music but it's a mint

Having a post blow up is generally looked at as some terrible event that puts you on blast but honestly I'm always grateful for the amount of people I get to block when it happens

So many red urls pop up in my notes it makes the process really really easy

for a while every other post was along the lines of "having issues with your brain is no excuse for having issues with your brain"