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one of my favourite things about your chillstreams is how well you and your friends can manage to take turns contributing to conversations and avoiding crosstalk. two questions about this:
how do you (plural) decide whoever becomes the "moderator"? is it whoever's stream you're on?
is this something you also do off-stream or is it for the sake of a broadcast?
The short, honest answer to this is actually "I am not friends with people who crosstalk in the first place." I have bad auditory sensory overload issues and it makes me beyond furious when people talk over one another.
A more helpful answer might be this diagram.
I don't remember where I heard about this concept or what it's called so I'm going to call it a Laugh Pyramid. I someone taught it to me in college improv classes.
Imagine a comedian telling a joke and the audience laughing at it.
The red line is the intensity of the audience's reaction over time. If you watch any comedy special, you'll notice the comedian doesn't wait for the audience to stop laughing entirely. That results in a loss of energy. You want to keep moment from one successful joke and carry it into the next one.
Obviously the comedian doesn't want to cut off the laugh at it's peak, so you wait until just after it starts to die down.
General conversation kind of works the same way.
Imagine the red spikes are someone talking about something over time in a normal conversation. The peaks in this line can be any kind of intensity. Could be volume, how focused the speaker is, how on topic they are, etc.
At risk of sounding like a robot or alien who studies humans, this is some good practice I've found for conversation:
If you have something you want to contribute to the conversation (i.e. something in your friend's story reminds you of a related story that would be a great follow-up) you should start actively listening for an entry point.
Obviously, you don't want to cut them off. A comedian on a stage is in control of the conversation, but you aren't. You need to wait until it sounds like the speaker is reaching the conclusion of their thought.
The ? is a possible entry point because it seems like they're winding down... but then the speaker picks the thought back up again. Whoops. Turns out they had more to say. Don't cut them off right now.
The ! is a better point to start talking because they're actually winding down. Learning to spot this conversational rhythm takes awhile. Everyone has different speaking patterns from each other. Everyone speaks differently in different groups. And this is even harder when there's multiple people involved in a conversation.
Also, be sure to set up flags to indicate that you're about to start talking. Little meaningless sounds or linguistic back channeling.
If I want to follow up on what a person is saying I usually start with a quick "Oh", "Yeah", "mm", or just some kind of tiny sound. That sound is an audible cue to everyone that you want to talk next, like raising your hand in a Zoom call.
This makes transitioning from speaker A to speaker B easier, but it also helps speakers C, D, E, and so on notice that someone else wants to talk.
If speaker B and C both want to follow-up on what A is saying, obviously only one of them can talk at a time. But, if they both use a little auditory flag, the other speakers might notice. So if A speaks and B follows up with a second thought, B can end that thought with "Anways, C, you were gonna say something?" and you can pass it over to the next person.
It's important to keep track of who's trying to get a word in so you can all help the conversation flow. Sometimes people get skipped over multiple times and you need someone who's a little more forward to help them find an in.
I've found most people also have little unconscious things they do to signal that they have finished talking.
For example, if you watch any of my streams, you might notice that almost every time I do a joke or a bit, when I hit the punchline you can hear a laugh leak into my voice. I do this so often when I'm telling a joke that if I manage to keep a straight face the entire time, my friends often pause longer before reacting because they're so used to the laugh sound as a subconscious cue that they aren't sure I'm done speaking without it. Piph also does this with a very specific little "nn! hehe" sound he makes after doing a joke.
Obviously this isn't the kind of thing 99% of people will consciously notice. I've spent a four-digit number of hours editing recordings of my voice as well as my friends so I'm hyper aware of their ticks. But most people have one. You probably have some you only do with some friend groups and not others.
I two of us ever speak over each other for more than like 5 words, one (or usually both) of us stop talking and straight up say some version of "no you go".
All of this is a practiced skill.
I genuinely do not understand how in the digital voice-call Discord-is-every-forum-now age we live in people still think they can just railroad someone else while talking. It is insane to me and is like the #1 way to make me not like you.
i still think about the fucking quesadilla terf
iirc it was like this terf who was absolutely fuming because her brother was dating a trans woman and she started claiming that she was clearly male socialized because the terf made quesadillas for dinner and the trans woman was like "wow :) this is really good, what is it?" and if she was a REAL woman she would instinctively KNOW what a quesadilla is
anyway it turns out the reason the poor woman didn't know what it was was because the terf had used hummus instead of cheese for some fucking reason so it wasn't even a quesadilla
my favorite thing about this is that we just take for granted that the brother's girlfriend is actually trans. there is zero actual evidence for that being the case in the original post by quessadilla terf - just that she "clocked" her specifically because she didn't "know how to make" a quesadilla(despite the hummus thing)
shit it really is 2016 again what do you MEAN szin dropped a new hamilton animatic
going over to my minimalist girlfriend’s house and she apologizes profusely for the mess and there’s just a single perfect, fresh pea on the floor of her living room
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i deserve a medal for this post. not because i was particularly funny but because i survived an onslaught of nearly one hundred gimmick blogs in the wake of this post popping off, and the fact that i didn’t try to track any of them down and snuff them out with my bare hands is a testament to my immeasurable strength and should be rewarded. at one point i had “the official letter h” add on to this post. you wanna know that blog’s gimmick? the really funny and original and worthwhile gimmick the official letter h blog had? yep you guessed it they just gave me the god damned letter H and then fucked off. only jesus knows the suffering i endured over that harsh winter, and he wept for me

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we need to bring back the phrase "what business is it of yours" in a big way i'm serious
i know you can just say "none of your business" but phrasing it as a question with a jarringly formal tone is the ideal way to shoot an overfamiliar unwelcome overture dead in its tracks and force the person making it to confront the boundaries they're taking for granted + it would really piss people off which is funny
&also it allows you to experience the joy of talking like an autistic vampire, which i highly recommend
big day for tumblr sexyman enjoyers and weird fags everywhere
Heartwarming story: Little girl doesn’t have to do anything to fund her dad’s surgery because his expenses are covered by his country’s universal healthcare.
Human determination: Man bikes 18 miles to work every morning because he wants to and not because he can’t afford a car and would be fired if he’s late.
Spirit of Brotherhood: Neighbors host housewarming party for elderly resident who doesn’t need help in paying rent because his pension is more than enough.
SO INSPIRING: Local middle school students bake dozens of cupcakes because their home economics class is doing a baking unit. Their school is fully funded with everything they need.
This feels like calibrating my normal detector
exercised but i didnt eat much today and i still wanted to feed myself so the exercise wasn't fucking pointless so. eating biscoff straight out the jar

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is human seasonal shedding a real thing or does my mom just think it is bc she doesnt fucking eat in the summer and is in denial of her anemia
You wouldn't know it from mainstream media, but cis lesbians are the most supportive group of trans people... even more than trans people ourselves!
Media doesn't present reality: it creates it. The moral panic over trans women in queer spaces is a contrived conflict invented to drive our community apart. But our movements are connected at their core, and we are stronger together.
If you were really my friend you’d do this highly unethical experimental surgery on me
my favorite part of this whole thing tbh

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screamed so much at pride yesterday and then went to the bar and danced and then went home and exercised and then had 5 hours of sleep and exercised again. ouch
i do have to say i've performed on stage for most of my life doing piano, choir, theatre and dancing and i've never felt such pressure as everyone hyping you up when you start shaking ass at the club. that shit is SERIOUS