dear love of mine

Why are there 300 page books on "does he actually like me". Why does something sooo inherently pure and natural need that much scaffolding. Like are we all seeing this????

Full Moon in April l Seong Mo Lee

-> The self-hatred to the point of mutilation, the desperation to find a ‘community’, the obsession with parasocial relationships, the ‘let’s move in together immediately only to find out we’re incompatible’, the delusion that leads many to support insane bullshit in order to belong, the lack of standards, the settling, the laziness (why bother at all), the performative aspect so many have towards homosexuality because they have no way of actually experiencing things in real life, being terminally online, getting caught up with weird labels that no straight person would ever use, the pretense that looks don’t matter (🙄), the cult-like behaviour when it comes to so-called lesbian history that you aren’t ever allowed to question, the mental illness and alcohol/drug abuse, the fact nobody knows what female homosexuality actually is except for the tiny number of us, the misrepresentation, the constant conflation with bisexuality.

Maybe my jokingly saying that women throw their entire fucking brain away after having a kid isn't even that wrong. Apparently hormones from the pregnancy prune your brain to make you a better child-care providing robot lol. And never forget that males will fetishize this because they are disgusting creeps and this is what you're helping perpetuate by giving birth to more of them.

KATY O'BRIAN in Queens of the Dead (2025)

So dear going2hell, fuck you very much.

Did you really think you were having a good and original thought here?

Hiroshi Yoshida - Color woodblock prints from the series United States of America.