I don't really understand what Daemon's fault is.
Aemond was a request from Rhaenyra and in HOTD they made B&C an accident.
Then, what do we really blame Daemon for ?
For doing his job as a consort and acting when Rhaenyra was unavailable in 1x10 to allow their house to have defenses after Rhaenys warned that the Greens were coming for Rhaenyra and their children ?
For not wanting Rhaenyra to consider a deal that would send their sons as hostages ?
Really, this is supposed to represent Daemon re-establishing the seriousness of Rhaenyra's claim to the throne for people ?
Plus it didn't bother Rhaenyra to be accused of Laenor's murder all these years... Nor that Daemon officially acted without her word in the eyes of others (even if she gave him silent / non-verbal permission to a nod) when he decapitated Vaemond. precisely because it was for their family and their safety. Just like the concil in 1x10 and not agreeing with Otto's cardboard peace terms...)
Are they aware that what they write does not correspond to what they are trying to project ?
Daemon is literally Rhaenyra's greatest ally in Fire and Blood just like HOTD, but for reason the writers constantly try to make people doubt Daemon's loyalty to no avail, because they don't even understand what they're writing about anyway, nor the world they write for.
In context, there is no reason for Blood and Cheese to be a problem for future supporters of Rhaenyra, it never was for a good reason in F&B and it should be the same for HOTD.
The Greens shed the first blood of an innocent man. Who happened to be a member of their family and messenger. They committed 3 big crimes.
But apparently in HOTD we don't care about lore.
No mention that killing a family member is actually a horrible crime in Westeros, no mentions of the messenger's law, or for example the right to invite for season 1 with episode 5 where Criston Cole literally kills the lover of Laenor who was a guest. Normally, he would never have been able to keep his job and get a promotion, it's ridiculous. I agree that Viserys was stupid, but there are limits.
It was just there to make a marriage turn bloody. Nothing more. Gratuitous violence once again.
I swear the only thing keeping me going on this purge is Daemyra / Matt Smith & Emma D'Arcy.