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With a woman, I want her to be my best friend, my companion and I want to spend a life with her, travel, sleep in the same bed, be best friends, buy expensive gifts for her etc. But with men I always have this feeling to one up them in some way; finically, socially, in terms of attractiveness. Its like I want them to be always “de-masculinized” like a sitcom husband or a eunuch. Which is a big juxtaposition with my desire to be as equal/ submissive to another woman.

I used to think that it was just a symptom of bisexuality; some people just have different dynamics/ expectations. But this is probably just comphet.

Like I would get pregnant if my hypothetical wife wanted me to enough (which is a big deal for me because pregnancy is horrifying.) But I wouldn’t even call a man my boyfriend, its to me disgusting.

Shes in the comments encouraging women to get into sex work despite the fact that 83% of disabled woman are sexually assaulted in their life time.

Sex work preys on women who are marginalized, who can’t provide for themselves, and who are left with no real choices.

If someone’s "choice" is made only because all other options have been stripped away, is it really a choice at all?

People condemn men who exploit women’s basic needs—like a boss or landlord demanding sex in exchange for a paycheck or rent—as coercive rapists. Yet, when a man pays a woman for sex because she’s desperate to survive, it suddenly gets framed as empowerment?