Cedrick Kern aka Light_Skin_Dragon 🐉

1. A real man knows his purpose.

He understands why he exists and lives with direction. Purpose keeps him focused.

2. A real man values his sexual purity. He respects his body, his commitments, and others. Purity builds trust and honor.

3. A real man controls his emotions. He doesn’t act based on feelings but stays true to his values, no matter the situation.

4. A real man creates time for his partner. He knows love is shown through time and attention, not just words.

5. A real man forgives; he doesn’t punish. Forgiveness shows strength. A real man builds peace, not pain, in his relationships.

6. A real man spends wisely. He plans his finances, avoids waste, and provides security for his family.

7. A real man doesn’t drink excessively. He values his health and stays in control of his actions.

8. A real man is shaped by purpose, not roles. His strength comes from self-discovery, not from following society’s expectations.

9. A real man respects his partner’s opinion. He listens, values her thoughts, and makes decisions with her, not above her.

10. A real man solves conflicts wisely. He doesn’t expose his partner’s flaws. He settles issues calmly or seeks help when needed.

The difference between a male and a real man is simple:

- Males follow emotions; real men follow values.

- Males are shaped by their environment; real men are led by principles.

- Males dominate; real men empower.

- Males are respected for their roles; real men are respected for their purpose.

This writeup came from a painful moment. I heard and seen my dad as a child beating my mom while she cried. It reminded me that being a male is biological, but being a real man is a choice.

A real man protects, uplifts, and builds. He never destroys.

If you’re reading this, choose to grow. Choose to lead with love and values. Choose to be a real man.

Stay Blessed🙏

1.Every girl is beautiful, it just takes the right guy to see it

2.Sometimes creating a little distance will help people recognize how much you actually mean to them,

3.The best person in your life is the one who comes first in your mind after reading this sentence,

4.Master your emotions before they master you,

5.First it hurts you, then it changes you,

6.When someone helps you, & they’re struggling too ,that’s not help- that’s love,

7.You never stand still. You’re either getting better or getting worse

8.The struggle you’re in today is developing your strength for tomorrow,

9.Don’t treat people as bad as they’re, treat them as good as you’re,

Life is “Change” , growth is optional,

10.Fake friends are your shadows nowhere to be seen at your darkest hour,

11.Everything will be worth it one day,

12.Some people hate you coz they’re failing at destroying you,

13.The best feeling in the world is being loved back by the person you love,

14.In order to stand up, you gotta know what falling down is like,

15.Never judge a situation that you’ve never been in,

16.Prove yourself to yourself, not others,

17.Obesity is now a bigger killer than malnutrition

18.Your relationship with yourself is directly proportional to the amount of peace & happiness you feel ,

Thank you for reading 📚 ❤️