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“After a recent post, i got tons of messages asking how i was able to score such high allowances while barely seeing these men.

Some general advice

Get a head start

I believe that you have to give your sugaring some time. If you are in a position where you need to make some quick cash, you are more likely to accept low offers. In order to get a great allowance, you have to be in a decent starting position. Don’t be desperate, assholes smell that shit from miles away. 

Dress well

Even if you don’t have a lot of money, try to dress well on first dates. Inexpensive companies like Zara provide everything you need: A pair of heels, a dress and a nice jacket. When in doubt, wear black. And don’t show too much skin. If you do own designer items, put them on! 

Have manners

You better know how to walk the walk and talk the talk. You know which forks to use and which vino to order. The internet is your friend.

Don’t show that you are impressed

This is important and a great way to manipulate rich men. Don’t show how impressed you are. He takes you to an amazing restaurant? Talk about “this other place” you had dinner at. Do your research before. He owns a private plane? Sentences like “Oh my god, I love sitting in the jump seat!!” show that you are excited about what he has, but not too surprised or impressed. Act like everything he has is according to your expectations, but not below or above them. There is a fine line between being easily impressed and putting a man down. Try to balance. 

I’m going to illustrate negotiation and manipulation skills using my current SDs as examples, but remember that every man is different and you gotta adjust the mind-games accordingly. 

SD 1: 5000 euro for a 2-day trip every month. Married. True business man. So with this man, it was easy. He was the one that brought up an allowance before even meeting me, asked me how much I wanted. I asked him to make an offer (I prefer that, if I make an offer myself I’m always worried he would have offered more otherwise). It was a quick phone call, he offered 3500 (in case we got along obviously). I told him I’d think about it, calculate what i needed and get back to him. Didn’t text him for about 2 days, then sent him a short message saying “I am going to need at least 5000 to take care of my needs”. Again, in order to have the ability to take risks and be so bold in negotiations, you can’t be in a desperate position. He texted me back and agreed within 10 minutes. 

SD 2: 8000 euro, 2 evenings a month, no intimacy so far. This is far more interesting than SD1 and the way most SDs work. In my experience, highly effective. And we all know, i love to play people. Especially men.

So, this type of man - yes, i can certainly generalise -is complex. He wants someone that likes him for him, not for his money. Something real. At the same time he knows exactly that the money is the reason we want to be with him. He doesn’t want us to show that though. This man is extremely generous, but doesn’t want to feel like he is paying for sex or companionship. He wants to spoil the girl of his dreams. To this man, you better don’t bring up an allowance until after the 2nd date.

So, how do we deal with this? We don’t want to fear him away, nor do we want to be tricked by salts. Salts hope/assume we won’t talk about money because we don’t want to seem like gold diggers. Real Sugar Daddies want us to be more than gold diggers (even if thats all we are). So, how do we know we aren’t wasting our time but have a true gentleman as a POT? 

1. Obviously, screen the shit out of him. What his profile says doesn’t mean anything, but does he give you his real name? Find out as much as possible and if he is able to afford you.

2. Let him choose the restaurant for the first date. If it’s an expensive place, extra point for him. When you are there, don’t you dare order the cheapest dish. You order one of the most expensive things, and when you are done eating, you keep ordering expensive drinks. Watch his body language during all of this. Does he cringe while you order the lobster?  No need to waste your time. Does he decide to order bottles that are 100 bucks? Good. Talk, laugh, smile and listen during all of this. Find out what he is interested in. Theatre, music, sports? Generous men will feel the need to give you a few hundred bucks after a good first date (bonus point). When that happens, you smile and say “I have a hard time accepting this, I had so much fun with you”. Refuse twice. He will give it to you anyways. And think very highly of you. No kiss at the end of it.

3. Text him the next morning. Say how much fun you had, and that you would love to see him again. On date 1 you found out what he is into (sports, theatre, whatever). Do your research online and tell him about an event he could be interested in. Suggest it as a spot for your second date. He is going to love the fact you listened and are interested in his hobbies. The seats he gets are another great indicator for his generosity.

4. During date 2, get over any mediocrity you might have in yourself. Brush up on your general knowledge, talk about current events. Impress him, know more than him. Talk about your dreams. And dream big. Wanting your own company and the ability to provide for yourself will make this man more generous than your dreams of designer clothing. If the date goes well, you can let him kiss you. Maybe.

5. After the second date, its time to talk about allowance. Emphasise your dreams again, and see what offer he makes. If it’s too low, move on. Again, sugaring takes time. But this technique has been proven to be rather bulletproof and scored me whatever I wanted.”

Alright alright, I’m back with a haul picture for y'all with some of the highlights from my last heist Total: $7k+

how much i love lifting and how much it’s changed my life

i went from wearing bland ass clothes that made me insecure and sad to wearing whatever i want everyday. i get makeup and a lot of skin care products that are good for me and make me feel confident and lovely. i get healthy food that makes me feel good. i went from like 2 pairs of socks to as many as i want. i went from 3 worn down bras that i’ve had since 7th grade (size a, when i should have worn a c) and underwear from years ago with rips and tears and sagging to a plentiful amount of bomb ass undies with cute patterns and lace.

The drop technique and my quick concealing method shown.

Drop technique notes: 1. Use a bag with a shoulder strap so you don’t have to think about where the handles are. You do not want to worry about getting your product tangled up in them. Another benefit of a shoulder strap bag is that there is no gap between the bag and your body (that the product could fall through). 2. Use a structured bag, so that if your product hits one of the sides (as my peanut butter & honey palette did!!), it falls inside anyway! Floppy purses are bad for this because your product can become unbalanced on the cloth if it hits the side, and end up on the floor. Cloth is just one more thing for the product to become tangled in. 3. See how the inside-tops of each side of my purse are angled slightly inward (toward the zipper)? These are your bumpers, babes. Like rails in Mario kart, these guide your product into the bag, so you don’t have to think about it at all. 4. I usually do something with my hand while doing this, as an excuse to move my arm and drop the product. Because I don’t touch my purse, it was clearly “just an accident” if I were to be caught. 5. Once this is done, immediately zip up your purse. Preferably do the concealment and zipping in a blindspot, or the closest thing to a blindspot as you can find. Also a great tip: walk into the store with your phone in a pocket. After dropping, place your phone into your purse and zip it up *without looking* at it.

As someone who suffers from major depressive disorder, severe anxiety, and frequent panic attacks, I have been on Wellbutrin, Abilify, Prozac, Xanax, Paxil, and Brintellix without any relief. In fact, most have given me terrible adverse side effects or allergic reactions. I am well aware I will probably suffer throughout my life with depression, but there are ways to make it more *tolerable* sometimes. Here is a list of things to lift yourself for anyone who is depressed or has the occasional blues. These items especially help me when I spend a day at home with nothing but food, my bf and puppy, and Netflix.

👗 Clothes - Really soft and cute sweatpants. I recommend any Victoria’s Secret Pink sweatpants for this. It’s no surprise that when you’re depressed, everything seems 100x more terrible. For when you want to do nothing but sulk, soft sweatpants will be your best friends. Don’t try to squeeze into uncomfortable scratchy jeans! - An oversized shirt. Whether it’s your own or your boy’s oversized shirt, let yourself drown in this while you cuddle up in bed and cry. - A cute, flowy summer dress. Everyone experiences depression differently. Some don’t care about their appearances and would rather just slum it (me) and others feel slightly better after feeling cute! So steal yourself a cute lil dress and put it on and admire yourself in the mirror. - Fuzzy socks. There is no question about it. - Slippers.

🍕 Food I know some people lose their appetite with depression, but I definitely have a huge appetite when I feel depressed. I do stick to comfort food that’s extremely easy to make because I become severely crippled when my depression gets at its worst. I can barely get out of bed. - Donuts. Chocolate covered, sprinkles, glazed, idc get whatever the fuck your heart desires because you deserve some donuts. - Bagel Bites. Yummy, yummy. It’s so good, comforting, and so easy to make! - Hot chocolate in a cute mug. - Cheetos. Yes, so unhealthy. But these puffy little motherfuckers are always by my side whenever I’m blue. - Tea of your preference.

💊 Medicine/Herbal Supplements - St. John’s Worts. An herbal supplement that has been effective in treating depression. It can interact with other medications, SO PLEASE CHECK BEFORE TAKING ANY. - L theanine. An amino acid that is found in green tea. It can drastically help with anxiety and combats the bad side effects of caffeine. - Ginkgo Biloba. Whenever I get severely depressed, I become foggy and hazy. Ginkgo is a plant that helps with brain alertness. I find it improves my foggy feelings and sluggishness that comes hand in hand with depression and post panic attacks. - Bach’s Remedies. Check online for what could help you the most. These flower essences are supposed to help you naturally with anything ranging from depression to anxiety to PTSD.

💸 Boosting Items If you’re low on money, I recommend boosting lots of items. This is so when you are at your worst in your depression, you have some money for shopping for items that you CAN’T lift. Retail therapy is REAL! You deserve to treat yourself. - Naked Palettes. The normal big ones or Naked Basics always sell within the first 5 days of me listing it on eBay. I usually boost Naked Basics because it is a small palette that is easy to conceal. Retail price at Ulta is ~$30, and I have been able to boost mine for $27. - OPI or Essie nail polish in lots. For OPI, I suggest going to Sally’s Beauty Supplies. That place is so extremely easy to lift from, I wonder if the SA’s even care. I have taken up to 20 OPI nail polishes in 1 visit to Sally’s and turned a pretty big profit. For Essie, I find Bed Bath & Beyond extremely easy. Sell the nail polishes in sets of 2-3 for like $12-20 for some easy cash. - Michael Kors or Kate Spade anything. I’ve never lifted a handbag, but I have lifted a little Michael Kors wristlet from Marshall’s before and made $50 from that. - NYX soft matte lip cream in sets. Again, BB&B is extremely easy. You can sell these in sets to make money.

🏡 House Decor - Candles. As many as you can. Just lift a ton of cute and great smelling candles and light them all at once. It’s almost impossible not to feel even a little bit better after lighting an adorable candle. - Plants & flowers. Plants and flowers are said to help with depression. Brighten up your living area with some vivid flowers and succulent plants!

✨ Miscellaneous - Crayons and coloring books. I might be alone, but when I’m depressed, I like to revert back to my child self to cope. I draw and color like a little kid. - Books. Happy books! Immerse yourself in happiness. - Tranquil Turtle. This cutie helps me out at night when I can’t sleep. It projects an ocean floor onto your ceiling. - Bubble Bath and Bath Bombs.

INSTRUCTIONS: - Get all the above items plus all the blankets, stuffed animals, and pillows you have. - Grab your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife/BFF/dog/cat/etc… and have a Netflix marathon while cuddling up to them. - Get your boosting money and take your cute lil booty out for some shopping (without having to worry about getting caught since you’re paying! And also, shopping for items you CAN’T lift.) - Try to smile but never force it. If you feel sad, allow yourself to feel it. Embrace those feelings instead of bottling it up. - Remember to lean on those people who are there for you - they want to help. - If you feel lost, I’m always here if anyone wants to talk.