ive also come to the conclusion that "laziness" is probably the stupidest, most hurtful, least useful, deliberately cruel concept in the world
I don't think I've ever seen anyone benefit from being called lazy but I've seen hundreds of people destroying their bodies and minds trying to avoid being called lazy because at some point someone decided that if someone wasn't miserable then that means they're a bad person
#like at what point is it more useful to call someone lazy than to pin down exactly why they routinely choose inaction#this person is avoidant and I don't respect that. But also this person is tired and that's fine they can rest#this person doesn't value working for themselves and i don't respect that. but also this person hasn't been allowed#to keep the fruits of their labor because they only ever worked for a boss. so who can really blame them?#even if there's no counterpoint and it's actually just a bad thing that causes inaction#there's a lot of value in pinpointing exactly what kind of root cause we're looking at.#calling something ''lazy'' is about as close to genuine laziness as you can get#it's an instance of willfully neglecting to put in the work to actually understand something.
