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The Navajo have a unique tradition. When a baby is born, it is regarded as the ultimate, precious gift and must never be abused. From the moment of birth, the child is watched over continuously by family and friends, who patiently wait for the child’s first…laugh.
“Has your baby laughed?” is common question posed to parents who have infants around the age of three months. The first laugh of a Navajo child is a very significant event. It marks the child’s final passing from the spirit world to the physical world, meaning he or she is now fully human. This milestone warrants a party, and what a party it is!
Whichever brother, sister, parent, cousin, aunt, uncle, or passing acquaintance is present at the first laugh is deemed to have caused it. The laughter instigator then receives the honored privilege of preparing a special ceremony to welcome the child into society.
Once a baby has laughed, training in generosity begins immediately—a value held in high regard among the Navajo people. At the party, where the baby is considered the host, the parents or person responsible for the first laugh help hold the baby’s hand as he or she ceremonially gives the rock salt, food, and gifts to each guest. There are also bags of candy, money, and other presents that the child “gives” along with the food. [x]
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Is this true? lol
Yes it is true. I have had of a few relatives invite me to a A’wee Chi’deedloh "The Baby Laughed Ceremony" however I have not had the privilege to actually attended one personally. The Dine’ peoples believe that babies are of “two worlds” (Earth people & Holy people) when they are born. The first laugh signifies the babies desire to become a part of the Earth People so it is a great cause for celebration.
This is beautiful.
This is so pure and good I’m crying
Black cats are lucky. (via leahweissmuller)
MAN [IN THICK ACCENT]: Black cat bring good luck. Not bad luck. I have black cat - See, him face - And I am not dead today: Good luck!
“See him face”
I sure fucking do see him face
Him face
Reblog him face for good luck in 2021
Reblog him face for good luck in 2021 (2)
Reblog him face for good luck in 2022!
@is-the-cat-video-cute him face
Rating: Cute
also rating: Him Face
This is a wonderful black kitty who loves his owner and his chin scratches very much.
Very full of good luck.
so basically im cursed to remain fat forever? jesus christ i did not need to hear that today.
There is no permanent and safe way to intentionally lose weight. This is true.
And that means that if you want to truly live a fulfilling and meaningful life, you will need to let go of the fantasy of being thin. You will need to do the difficult self-work needed to unlearn your internalized fat phobia. You may also need to learn how to eat normally without restriction and shame. All of this is difficult. But a lifetime of self-hate, restriction, repeated cycles of weight gains and weight losses, and declining health from the damage caused by under-nourishing your body is far far worse.
And I know you are in pain right now, so I am being gentle with you, but I need you to think about what you said in your ask, and think about who you said it to. I am fat and my life is not a cursed existence. It is never okay to say such hateful things about fat people, including yourself. Don’t do it anymore.
What is the evidence supporting my conclusion that there is no permanent and safe way to intentionally lose weight?
Over fifty years of research conclusively demonstrates that virtually everyone who intentionally loses weight by manipulating their eating and exercise habits will regain the weight they lost within three to five years. And the vast majority will actually regain more weight than they lost. [sources]
In fact, the results of a 10-year study of over 275000 people revealed that the annual odds of a fat person attaining a so-called “normal” weight and maintaining that for five years is approximately 1 in 1000. [source]
And those very few people who do maintain a significant weight-loss for more than five years do so by engaging in unhealthy, disordered eating and exercise. Consuming just 1300 calories per day, recording everything you eat, and exercising for one hour per day is not healthy, and in another context, would be considered evidence of an eating disorder rather than behavior worth emulating. [source] [source]
“Well I lost weight so anyone can!”
Nope. One individual’s experiences do not negate 50 years of scientific research with thousands and thousands of people.
“Just change your *lifestyle* by doing blah blah blah and then anyone can lose weight!”
Nope. Any attempts to intentionally lose weight by manipulating food intake and exercise have the same result. Scientists have tried it all! The result it always the same. Weight regain.
(PS: As stated in my FAQ, weight loss tips and pro-dieting talk are not welcome on my posts. There are many other spaces where such talk it welcome. Post there instead.)
“Actually, 1300 calories per day is totally enough!”
No. A systematic review of research using the doubly-labeled water method to assess people’s energy needs revealed that healthy adults over age 25 need between 2500 and 3000 kilocalories per day on average. People under the age of 25 need about 500 calories more per day than their adult counterparts. People who are bigger than average (including fat people) also need more energy than average to thrive, as do people who are very physically active. [source] [source]
“Buuuut the nutrition guidelines say we only need 2000 kilocalories per day!”
Those guidelines are wrong. They were developed on the basis of faulty science that used self-reports to assess people’s energy intake. And it turns out people habitually underestimate their energy intake by about 25%, most likely to bring their intakes in line with the perceived norms. When energy needs are assessed objectively, the results I described above emerge. [source]
Another study that is open access demonstrates similar results. [source; results in Table 4 in the row labeled “TEE”; 1 KJ = 0.24 kcal]
Objective assessment using the doubly-labeled water method demonstrates that adult women with a BMI in the “normal” range require about 2400 kcal per day on average, whereas women with a BMI in the “overweight” range require about 2750 kcal per day on average. However, individual needs also vary by about 400 kcal in either direction depending on height, age, and activity level. So if you are a young, tall, fat, active women, this study suggests that you may require well over 3000 kcals per day to meet your energy needs.
For the Anon asking for sources to support my statement that healthy, weight stable, non-restrictive eaters regularly consume, and need, between 2500 and 3500 calories per day to support their health and well-being.
This is bullshit.
No offense, but I don’t buy that it’s bullshit.
I’ve seen plenty of people make the case that weight loss doesn’t work. And almost every time they’ve been met with outraged reactions from people who can’t believe they could possibly be so stupid as to think that weight loss doesn’t work.
But the weight-loss-doesn’t-work side usually cites decent evidence, and the other side usually has nothing. So I’m inclined to accept bigfatscience’s take on the matter.
That said, I’ve never taken a proper deep look at the issue.
My impression is (setting aside cases such as people with metabolic disorders), the reason the studies find that short-term weight loss is possible but long-term weight-loss is not, is that lots of people can stick to a strict diet short-term, but most of them are not capable of sticking to a strict strict diet long-term.
(By strict diet I mean “not eating junk food”; not “extreme calorie restriction”.)
That’s roughly my takeaway.
Diet and exercise obviously works just on a basic physics perspective. But whether or not you can actually get people to adhere to sufficiently restrictive behaviours (mild or otherwise) and sufficient excercise is another matter, and plenty of evidence shows that you really can not.
At a certain point, if 99.9% of people are failing, you gotta ask if what you’re asking of fat people is actually reasonable, not just whether it’s technically possible.
Fair warning I am pissed.
I dunno. I mean, I started eating less in the summer, and I’m still doing it (and still losing weight, though that seems to be tapering off some. I’ve lost maybe 15 pounds?)
So when people say “you can’t do it long term” what does that even MEAN? Because if I go back to eating the way I did I WILL get diabetes. There is no question of it. I have the test results. I was prediabetic and about to be prescribed blood pressure meds.
If I get the diabeetus I will have to do guess what? Eat less sugar. ANYWAY. So I might as well start now/last summer?
But when I read posts like this they say: eat more than 2000 calories a day even though you’re used to less then that now. Because since you DID weigh 142, you will ALWAYS weigh 142. And if you slip and go higher? Welcome to your new old life with constantly sore knees and the inability to walk on ground that isn’t level. You’re a slave to your body even if it’s hurting you.
I’m sorry, no. I am going t9 TRY to reduce my pain levels thank you.
And I am going to TRY to keep from needing insulin I didn’t make.
Hopefully by the time you’re laughing at my ass for trying and saying you told me so, insulin will be cheaper anyway?
I’m still pissed off at this person.
The fantasy of being thin?
Nah, man, the reality of needing fewer medications. And being able to walk to things.

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so basically im cursed to remain fat forever? jesus christ i did not need to hear that today.
There is no permanent and safe way to intentionally lose weight. This is true.
And that means that if you want to truly live a fulfilling and meaningful life, you will need to let go of the fantasy of being thin. You will need to do the difficult self-work needed to unlearn your internalized fat phobia. You may also need to learn how to eat normally without restriction and shame. All of this is difficult. But a lifetime of self-hate, restriction, repeated cycles of weight gains and weight losses, and declining health from the damage caused by under-nourishing your body is far far worse.
And I know you are in pain right now, so I am being gentle with you, but I need you to think about what you said in your ask, and think about who you said it to. I am fat and my life is not a cursed existence. It is never okay to say such hateful things about fat people, including yourself. Don’t do it anymore.
What is the evidence supporting my conclusion that there is no permanent and safe way to intentionally lose weight?
Over fifty years of research conclusively demonstrates that virtually everyone who intentionally loses weight by manipulating their eating and exercise habits will regain the weight they lost within three to five years. And the vast majority will actually regain more weight than they lost. [sources]
In fact, the results of a 10-year study of over 275000 people revealed that the annual odds of a fat person attaining a so-called “normal” weight and maintaining that for five years is approximately 1 in 1000. [source]
And those very few people who do maintain a significant weight-loss for more than five years do so by engaging in unhealthy, disordered eating and exercise. Consuming just 1300 calories per day, recording everything you eat, and exercising for one hour per day is not healthy, and in another context, would be considered evidence of an eating disorder rather than behavior worth emulating. [source] [source]
“Well I lost weight so anyone can!”
Nope. One individual’s experiences do not negate 50 years of scientific research with thousands and thousands of people.
“Just change your *lifestyle* by doing blah blah blah and then anyone can lose weight!”
Nope. Any attempts to intentionally lose weight by manipulating food intake and exercise have the same result. Scientists have tried it all! The result it always the same. Weight regain.
(PS: As stated in my FAQ, weight loss tips and pro-dieting talk are not welcome on my posts. There are many other spaces where such talk it welcome. Post there instead.)
“Actually, 1300 calories per day is totally enough!”
No. A systematic review of research using the doubly-labeled water method to assess people’s energy needs revealed that healthy adults over age 25 need between 2500 and 3000 kilocalories per day on average. People under the age of 25 need about 500 calories more per day than their adult counterparts. People who are bigger than average (including fat people) also need more energy than average to thrive, as do people who are very physically active. [source] [source]
“Buuuut the nutrition guidelines say we only need 2000 kilocalories per day!”
Those guidelines are wrong. They were developed on the basis of faulty science that used self-reports to assess people’s energy intake. And it turns out people habitually underestimate their energy intake by about 25%, most likely to bring their intakes in line with the perceived norms. When energy needs are assessed objectively, the results I described above emerge. [source]
Another study that is open access demonstrates similar results. [source; results in Table 4 in the row labeled “TEE”; 1 KJ = 0.24 kcal]
Objective assessment using the doubly-labeled water method demonstrates that adult women with a BMI in the “normal” range require about 2400 kcal per day on average, whereas women with a BMI in the “overweight” range require about 2750 kcal per day on average. However, individual needs also vary by about 400 kcal in either direction depending on height, age, and activity level. So if you are a young, tall, fat, active women, this study suggests that you may require well over 3000 kcals per day to meet your energy needs.
For the Anon asking for sources to support my statement that healthy, weight stable, non-restrictive eaters regularly consume, and need, between 2500 and 3500 calories per day to support their health and well-being.
This is bullshit.
No offense, but I don’t buy that it’s bullshit.
I’ve seen plenty of people make the case that weight loss doesn’t work. And almost every time they’ve been met with outraged reactions from people who can’t believe they could possibly be so stupid as to think that weight loss doesn’t work.
But the weight-loss-doesn’t-work side usually cites decent evidence, and the other side usually has nothing. So I’m inclined to accept bigfatscience’s take on the matter.
That said, I’ve never taken a proper deep look at the issue.
My impression is (setting aside cases such as people with metabolic disorders), the reason the studies find that short-term weight loss is possible but long-term weight-loss is not, is that lots of people can stick to a strict diet short-term, but most of them are not capable of sticking to a strict strict diet long-term.
(By strict diet I mean “not eating junk food”; not “extreme calorie restriction”.)
That’s roughly my takeaway.
Diet and exercise obviously works just on a basic physics perspective. But whether or not you can actually get people to adhere to sufficiently restrictive behaviours (mild or otherwise) and sufficient excercise is another matter, and plenty of evidence shows that you really can not.
At a certain point, if 99.9% of people are failing, you gotta ask if what you’re asking of fat people is actually reasonable, not just whether it’s technically possible.
Fair warning I am pissed.
I dunno. I mean, I started eating less in the summer, and I’m still doing it (and still losing weight, though that seems to be tapering off some. I’ve lost maybe 15 pounds?)
So when people say “you can’t do it long term” what does that even MEAN? Because if I go back to eating the way I did I WILL get diabetes. There is no question of it. I have the test results. I was prediabetic and about to be prescribed blood pressure meds.
If I get the diabeetus I will have to do guess what? Eat less sugar. ANYWAY. So I might as well start now/last summer?
But when I read posts like this they say: eat more than 2000 calories a day even though you’re used to less then that now. Because since you DID weigh 142, you will ALWAYS weigh 142. And if you slip and go higher? Welcome to your new old life with constantly sore knees and the inability to walk on ground that isn’t level. You’re a slave to your body even if it’s hurting you.
I’m sorry, no. I am going t9 TRY to reduce my pain levels thank you.
And I am going to TRY to keep from needing insulin I didn’t make.
Hopefully by the time you’re laughing at my ass for trying and saying you told me so, insulin will be cheaper anyway?
so basically im cursed to remain fat forever? jesus christ i did not need to hear that today.
There is no permanent and safe way to intentionally lose weight. This is true.
And that means that if you want to truly live a fulfilling and meaningful life, you will need to let go of the fantasy of being thin. You will need to do the difficult self-work needed to unlearn your internalized fat phobia. You may also need to learn how to eat normally without restriction and shame. All of this is difficult. But a lifetime of self-hate, restriction, repeated cycles of weight gains and weight losses, and declining health from the damage caused by under-nourishing your body is far far worse.
And I know you are in pain right now, so I am being gentle with you, but I need you to think about what you said in your ask, and think about who you said it to. I am fat and my life is not a cursed existence. It is never okay to say such hateful things about fat people, including yourself. Don’t do it anymore.
What is the evidence supporting my conclusion that there is no permanent and safe way to intentionally lose weight?
Over fifty years of research conclusively demonstrates that virtually everyone who intentionally loses weight by manipulating their eating and exercise habits will regain the weight they lost within three to five years. And the vast majority will actually regain more weight than they lost. [sources]
In fact, the results of a 10-year study of over 275000 people revealed that the annual odds of a fat person attaining a so-called “normal” weight and maintaining that for five years is approximately 1 in 1000. [source]
And those very few people who do maintain a significant weight-loss for more than five years do so by engaging in unhealthy, disordered eating and exercise. Consuming just 1300 calories per day, recording everything you eat, and exercising for one hour per day is not healthy, and in another context, would be considered evidence of an eating disorder rather than behavior worth emulating. [source] [source]
“Well I lost weight so anyone can!”
Nope. One individual’s experiences do not negate 50 years of scientific research with thousands and thousands of people.
“Just change your *lifestyle* by doing blah blah blah and then anyone can lose weight!”
Nope. Any attempts to intentionally lose weight by manipulating food intake and exercise have the same result. Scientists have tried it all! The result it always the same. Weight regain.
(PS: As stated in my FAQ, weight loss tips and pro-dieting talk are not welcome on my posts. There are many other spaces where such talk it welcome. Post there instead.)
“Actually, 1300 calories per day is totally enough!”
No. A systematic review of research using the doubly-labeled water method to assess people’s energy needs revealed that healthy adults over age 25 need between 2500 and 3000 kilocalories per day on average. People under the age of 25 need about 500 calories more per day than their adult counterparts. People who are bigger than average (including fat people) also need more energy than average to thrive, as do people who are very physically active. [source] [source]
“Buuuut the nutrition guidelines say we only need 2000 kilocalories per day!”
Those guidelines are wrong. They were developed on the basis of faulty science that used self-reports to assess people’s energy intake. And it turns out people habitually underestimate their energy intake by about 25%, most likely to bring their intakes in line with the perceived norms. When energy needs are assessed objectively, the results I described above emerge. [source]
Another study that is open access demonstrates similar results. [source; results in Table 4 in the row labeled “TEE”; 1 KJ = 0.24 kcal]
Objective assessment using the doubly-labeled water method demonstrates that adult women with a BMI in the “normal” range require about 2400 kcal per day on average, whereas women with a BMI in the “overweight” range require about 2750 kcal per day on average. However, individual needs also vary by about 400 kcal in either direction depending on height, age, and activity level. So if you are a young, tall, fat, active women, this study suggests that you may require well over 3000 kcals per day to meet your energy needs.
For the Anon asking for sources to support my statement that healthy, weight stable, non-restrictive eaters regularly consume, and need, between 2500 and 3500 calories per day to support their health and well-being.
This is bullshit.
No offense, but I don’t buy that it’s bullshit.
I’ve seen plenty of people make the case that weight loss doesn’t work. And almost every time they’ve been met with outraged reactions from people who can’t believe they could possibly be so stupid as to think that weight loss doesn’t work.
But the weight-loss-doesn’t-work side usually cites decent evidence, and the other side usually has nothing. So I’m inclined to accept bigfatscience’s take on the matter.
That said, I’ve never taken a proper deep look at the issue.
My impression is (setting aside cases such as people with metabolic disorders), the reason the studies find that short-term weight loss is possible but long-term weight-loss is not, is that lots of people can stick to a strict diet short-term, but most of them are not capable of sticking to a strict strict diet long-term.
(By strict diet I mean “not eating junk food”; not “extreme calorie restriction”.)
That’s roughly my takeaway.
Diet and exercise obviously works just on a basic physics perspective. But whether or not you can actually get people to adhere to sufficiently restrictive behaviours (mild or otherwise) and sufficient excercise is another matter, and plenty of evidence shows that you really can not.
At a certain point, if 99.9% of people are failing, you gotta ask if what you’re asking of fat people is actually reasonable, not just whether it’s technically possible.
Fair warning I am pissed.
I dunno. I mean, I started eating less in the summer, and I’m still doing it (and still losing weight, though that seems to be tapering off some. I’ve lost maybe 15 pounds?)
So when people say “you can’t do it long term” what does that even MEAN? Because if I go back to eating the way I did I WILL get diabetes. There is no question of it. I have the test results. I was prediabetic and about to be prescribed blood pressure meds.
If I get the diabeetus I will have to do guess what? Eat less sugar. ANYWAY. So I might as well start now/last summer?
But when I read posts like this they say: eat more than 2000 calories a day even though you’re used to less then that now. Because since you DID weigh 142, you will ALWAYS weigh 142. And if you slip and go higher? Welcome to your new old life with constantly sore knees and the inability to walk on ground that isn’t level. You’re a slave to your body even if it’s hurting you.
I’m sorry, no. I am going t9 TRY to reduce my pain levels thank you.
And I am going to TRY to keep from needing insulin I didn’t make.
Hopefully by the time you’re laughing at my ass for trying and saying you told me so, insulin will be cheaper anyway?
Yeah, to be clear, I had a fairly strict diet and vigorous exercise regimen before July, when I was a muscular 5′10″, 221 lb (probably around 17% body fat). Then it was determined that I am starting to develop high blood pressure, so my diet had to become even stricter. Cutting salt is… not easy in the US.* It made things sufficiently difficult that I’ve dropped to 206 lb (probably around 12% body fat). Which I expect to stay that way, because it’s not like I can go back to eating the salty things.
* Not as difficult as one might expect, though. I noticed that I was less hungry once I started reducing sodium, which makes me wonder if the absurd amounts of salt from processed food are what’s messing with modern people’s appetite control.
I wouldn’t be surprised. It’s not the same thing, but once I started reducing my intake of sweets I found myself wanting them less. I sometimes do crave them, but I ALSO usually find them rich now, which makes me feel like I need less.
I really do think that my eating habits were… I was depressed and upset and frightened and I was using sweet pastries to self soothe because “chocolate makes serotonin.” The more I did it, the more I craved and the less comforted I felt by any given treat.
Using a calorie tracker helped me to see just how much of my food intake that was, and how much I’d have to reduce healthier meals to accommodate for all those Nutella filled bread stuffs.
Maybe that was too harsh on myself? But I didn’t feel that way really, I felt like “oh wow no wonder I am having so much pain and discomfort.” I felt scared and worried at first, but I mean… I was doing things like replacing a croissant with a latte which is also a comfort food for me, just not my ultrafave.
And I feel… used to it, pretty much. I still eat croissants! I just eat one every seven days, not one every two days, now.
I feel like “you’ll never keep it off” rhetoric doesn’t even address that not everyone puts it on because they’re hungry. Sometimes people put it on because they’re using a harmful coping strategy, which means weight loss starts happening anyway when you start finding better ones.
So when I hear “you’ll never keep it off” my mind hears “you will always be a sad zombie shoving cookies in your face because you will never be able to think of s9msthing more satisfying to do”
And holy shit I’ve heard some anti recovery stuff but that takes the cake and wow, fuck you?
so basically im cursed to remain fat forever? jesus christ i did not need to hear that today.
There is no permanent and safe way to intentionally lose weight. This is true.
And that means that if you want to truly live a fulfilling and meaningful life, you will need to let go of the fantasy of being thin. You will need to do the difficult self-work needed to unlearn your internalized fat phobia. You may also need to learn how to eat normally without restriction and shame. All of this is difficult. But a lifetime of self-hate, restriction, repeated cycles of weight gains and weight losses, and declining health from the damage caused by under-nourishing your body is far far worse.
And I know you are in pain right now, so I am being gentle with you, but I need you to think about what you said in your ask, and think about who you said it to. I am fat and my life is not a cursed existence. It is never okay to say such hateful things about fat people, including yourself. Don’t do it anymore.
What is the evidence supporting my conclusion that there is no permanent and safe way to intentionally lose weight?
Over fifty years of research conclusively demonstrates that virtually everyone who intentionally loses weight by manipulating their eating and exercise habits will regain the weight they lost within three to five years. And the vast majority will actually regain more weight than they lost. [sources]
In fact, the results of a 10-year study of over 275000 people revealed that the annual odds of a fat person attaining a so-called “normal” weight and maintaining that for five years is approximately 1 in 1000. [source]
And those very few people who do maintain a significant weight-loss for more than five years do so by engaging in unhealthy, disordered eating and exercise. Consuming just 1300 calories per day, recording everything you eat, and exercising for one hour per day is not healthy, and in another context, would be considered evidence of an eating disorder rather than behavior worth emulating. [source] [source]
“Well I lost weight so anyone can!”
Nope. One individual’s experiences do not negate 50 years of scientific research with thousands and thousands of people.
“Just change your *lifestyle* by doing blah blah blah and then anyone can lose weight!”
Nope. Any attempts to intentionally lose weight by manipulating food intake and exercise have the same result. Scientists have tried it all! The result it always the same. Weight regain.
(PS: As stated in my FAQ, weight loss tips and pro-dieting talk are not welcome on my posts. There are many other spaces where such talk it welcome. Post there instead.)
“Actually, 1300 calories per day is totally enough!”
No. A systematic review of research using the doubly-labeled water method to assess people’s energy needs revealed that healthy adults over age 25 need between 2500 and 3000 kilocalories per day on average. People under the age of 25 need about 500 calories more per day than their adult counterparts. People who are bigger than average (including fat people) also need more energy than average to thrive, as do people who are very physically active. [source] [source]
“Buuuut the nutrition guidelines say we only need 2000 kilocalories per day!”
Those guidelines are wrong. They were developed on the basis of faulty science that used self-reports to assess people’s energy intake. And it turns out people habitually underestimate their energy intake by about 25%, most likely to bring their intakes in line with the perceived norms. When energy needs are assessed objectively, the results I described above emerge. [source]
Another study that is open access demonstrates similar results. [source; results in Table 4 in the row labeled “TEE”; 1 KJ = 0.24 kcal]
Objective assessment using the doubly-labeled water method demonstrates that adult women with a BMI in the “normal” range require about 2400 kcal per day on average, whereas women with a BMI in the “overweight” range require about 2750 kcal per day on average. However, individual needs also vary by about 400 kcal in either direction depending on height, age, and activity level. So if you are a young, tall, fat, active women, this study suggests that you may require well over 3000 kcals per day to meet your energy needs.
For the Anon asking for sources to support my statement that healthy, weight stable, non-restrictive eaters regularly consume, and need, between 2500 and 3500 calories per day to support their health and well-being.
This is absolutely and categorically wrong. A person who doesn’t move much can easily eat 1300 calories a day and be completely fine and healthy, however I recommend 1600 myself. It depends entirely on what you are filling up on. Protein in the form of lean meat - chicken and fish - is the best option. It will keep you full.
The safe way to lose weight and keep it off is through a calorie deficit and regular exercise. Humans are not supposed to be obese. Yes, I do agree that there is nothing actually medically wrong with being a bit overweight - if you read published surgical journals on this topic, you will see that mortality rates in overweight patients are no different to healthy weight patients. Once you get into the obese category your risk of death on the operating table goes up by around 30%.
This is harmful stuff, telling people they have no choice but to remain fat, and it is wrong. Your calorific needs will vary person to person. I lose weight if I eat 1500 a day. I gain weight if I go over approximately 2200 a day. A person who does more exercise than me will be able to maintain their current weight with a higher calorie intake.
There is no magic to this, it is basic calories in versus calories out. Having lost 100lb this way and kept it off I can assure you first-hand that this works. Its how we are designed. And not all calories are created equal. 600 calories of bread will not fill you up and keep you sustained, but 600 calories of protein and veg sure will.
What you are spreading is incorrect. People don’t have to stay at their current weight if they don’t want to. Weight loss is a choice that people can absolutely achieve if they educate themselves about it properly. Diets don’t work long term, but eating mindfully does. Plus, healthy food is fucking delicious.
Honestly op’s post made me cry and feel so hopeless. I kept seeing it everywhere with no rebuttal and it made me feel like I had nothing to live for. I don’t want to be skinny, I just don’t want to feel gross in my own body.
Oh God no, you can lose weight and keep it off if you want to and if you try well. You don't have to be hopeless. OP is spreading cherry-picked data from random studies. I recently lost around 16 kgs by just consuming less of whatever I used to consume earlier, and not avoiding any food groups. If you make healthier choices daily and make it a lifestyle, losing weight and keeping it off is very much possible. If you want more help, I would suggest you to visit r/loseit on reddit. It's what helped me lose weight. It's full of real people who wanna lose their weight and be healthy. And people who have maintained their weight loss for years, and they would be happy to give you their tips and tricks for the same.
so basically im cursed to remain fat forever? jesus christ i did not need to hear that today.
There is no permanent and safe way to intentionally lose weight. This is true.
And that means that if you want to truly live a fulfilling and meaningful life, you will need to let go of the fantasy of being thin. You will need to do the difficult self-work needed to unlearn your internalized fat phobia. You may also need to learn how to eat normally without restriction and shame. All of this is difficult. But a lifetime of self-hate, restriction, repeated cycles of weight gains and weight losses, and declining health from the damage caused by under-nourishing your body is far far worse.
And I know you are in pain right now, so I am being gentle with you, but I need you to think about what you said in your ask, and think about who you said it to. I am fat and my life is not a cursed existence. It is never okay to say such hateful things about fat people, including yourself. Don’t do it anymore.
What is the evidence supporting my conclusion that there is no permanent and safe way to intentionally lose weight?
Over fifty years of research conclusively demonstrates that virtually everyone who intentionally loses weight by manipulating their eating and exercise habits will regain the weight they lost within three to five years. And the vast majority will actually regain more weight than they lost. [sources]
In fact, the results of a 10-year study of over 275000 people revealed that the annual odds of a fat person attaining a so-called “normal” weight and maintaining that for five years is approximately 1 in 1000. [source]
And those very few people who do maintain a significant weight-loss for more than five years do so by engaging in unhealthy, disordered eating and exercise. Consuming just 1300 calories per day, recording everything you eat, and exercising for one hour per day is not healthy, and in another context, would be considered evidence of an eating disorder rather than behavior worth emulating. [source] [source]
“Well I lost weight so anyone can!”
Nope. One individual’s experiences do not negate 50 years of scientific research with thousands and thousands of people.
“Just change your *lifestyle* by doing blah blah blah and then anyone can lose weight!”
Nope. Any attempts to intentionally lose weight by manipulating food intake and exercise have the same result. Scientists have tried it all! The result it always the same. Weight regain.
(PS: As stated in my FAQ, weight loss tips and pro-dieting talk are not welcome on my posts. There are many other spaces where such talk it welcome. Post there instead.)
“Actually, 1300 calories per day is totally enough!”
No. A systematic review of research using the doubly-labeled water method to assess people’s energy needs revealed that healthy adults over age 25 need between 2500 and 3000 kilocalories per day on average. People under the age of 25 need about 500 calories more per day than their adult counterparts. People who are bigger than average (including fat people) also need more energy than average to thrive, as do people who are very physically active. [source] [source]
“Buuuut the nutrition guidelines say we only need 2000 kilocalories per day!”
Those guidelines are wrong. They were developed on the basis of faulty science that used self-reports to assess people’s energy intake. And it turns out people habitually underestimate their energy intake by about 25%, most likely to bring their intakes in line with the perceived norms. When energy needs are assessed objectively, the results I described above emerge. [source]
Another study that is open access demonstrates similar results. [source; results in Table 4 in the row labeled “TEE”; 1 KJ = 0.24 kcal]
Objective assessment using the doubly-labeled water method demonstrates that adult women with a BMI in the “normal” range require about 2400 kcal per day on average, whereas women with a BMI in the “overweight” range require about 2750 kcal per day on average. However, individual needs also vary by about 400 kcal in either direction depending on height, age, and activity level. So if you are a young, tall, fat, active women, this study suggests that you may require well over 3000 kcals per day to meet your energy needs.
For the Anon asking for sources to support my statement that healthy, weight stable, non-restrictive eaters regularly consume, and need, between 2500 and 3500 calories per day to support their health and well-being.
For fucks sake please don’t get your information from a random tumblr blog. You can’t keep off weight unless you make permanent lifestyle changes and it’s incredibly harmful to act as if people lacking the knowledge or resources to institute and maintain this is impossible to fix/correct. A 30 day diet is not permanent. Your habits have to fundamentally change and that is hard as fuck. A caloric deficit is needed to lose weight and there are tons of ways to eat healthy nutrient dense foods that doesn’t end with you fasting. If you want to lose weight, fine but imo you should focus on trying to be as healthy as you can. That doesn’t mean cutting out whole food groups or never enjoying fast food. There are obviously extenuating circumstances like food deserts, lack of time poverty, disability but there is no one size fits all for this. If you can/afford to, see a nutritionist.
What kind of bullshit is this blog? Unrestricted eating isn’t safe for everyone especially those with binge eating disorder. Scientist haven’t tried everything and it’s intellectually dishonest to claim so. There nothing wrong with being happy with your weight, but a couple of poorly read through studies is not helping anyone. I know there’s irony in my being a random blog, but if you take away nothing else, see an actual licensed, trained professional. The medical system has issues but they’re still more qualified than randos on the internet.
Finally, to the blog itself, if you don’t want critique, don’t make a public post. You’re spreading misinformation and dissuading people from making their choices. There are permanent and safe ways to lose weight and keep it off.
Addendum: there are lots of good resources online, tho you will have to wade through a lot of rude people. Try to find people who are overweight or plus size who give weight loss advice or people who aren’t like body builder built. Abbey Sharp seems pretty nice and she leans more to intuitive eating. Obese to beast is really friendly and he lost hundreds of pounds and is still considered bmi wise to be overweight. You don’t need to be stick thin to be healthier or treated with respect. Also if someone cites that stupid book on the bmi being racist I will smack you. Black people are not naturally obese or overweight and I will fight you. That’s racist in all honesty ( signed a black girl with an African family) if you have an eating disorder you should probably see a therapist of some kind. That is incredibly difficult and I wish you all the luck in the world.

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list of things i'm handling well currently
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“I have so much of you in my heart.”
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can’t talk right now, I’m doin hot squirrel shit 🐿
listen I’m a mess and kinda dumb but I’ll love you with all my heart
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It’s always kind of funny when the Powerpuff Girls, in fanart, are drawn with fingers and noses and toes and stuff and it’s like…they legit don’t have those in canon. It’s not just a style choice, they actually don’t have fingers and noses.
I mean, apparently Buttercup just sticks her hand to things to pick them up (S03E29 Criss Cross Crisis)
And in Oops, I Did it Again (s06E04B) the girls, when made without Chemical X, come out “normal” and do have fingers, feet, noses, and normal faces.
So like…when everyone in the show calls them “bug-eyed freaks,” “pumpkin heads,” etc, they legit mean the girls have big round heads, giant eyeballs, and stump limbs.
I think it’s safe to say that the Powerpuff Girls are objectively horrifying. I want to see fanart of that.
SWEET JESUS
alright i realise im a little late to the party here but going back to how the girls are able to grip things despite not having fingers
at first i thought maybe they could have tiny hooks at the end of the stumps that would snag onto surfaces, similar to cats tongues ( and yeah alright spiderman ) but the issue is that they probably wouldnt be effective for smoother surfaces
they could also have wrinkled pads like geckos feet that could cling to smoother things no problem, but then the problem is maintaining enough suction to actually lift and carry an object
i fear the solution may be something even Worse
this better not take any more wild turns