Lara Prisma

Now I like Harumi and (every once in a while) lorumi, but I understand that she ship is toxic in MOST circumstances.

• I like it occasionally as a fictional relationship. FICTIONAL, I don’t like this a a real situation. Fictional relationships that are messed up are ok as long as you understand that they ARNT acceptable in real life situations

• I like lorumi when it’s a redeemed Harumi x Lloyd or evil Lloyd x Harumi. I do enjoy the canon Lloyd x Harumi as a plot-twist, same as I like the concept of lorumi swapped (Lloyd= the quiet one and Harumi= the green ninja)

• cannon lorumi as a real situation is not ok, but for a show it’s fine as long as it’s clear that it wouldn’t be good if done irl. Toxic ships are ok to like as long as you understand that it’s not something to re-create and remember to keep your own relationships healthy.

• how to understand if it’s a healthy relationship (fictional or otherwise)? Does one person overrule the other? Does one hurt the other? Do they hurt each other? Does one or both constantly lie? Do they constantly fight? Most if not all the time that singles something is wrong (there more but I can’t list them all) now, do they both consent to it? Do they apologize after arguments? Do they both try understand each other? This is usually a somewhat healthy relationship (there’s more but I can’t list them all.

• is it illegal? Is your shit illegal? When I say that I don’t mean murder or meth, I’m talking about child x adult, incest, or anything similar. Those things are genuinely gross, disgusting, repulsive. If you don’t see how this is bad then I advise go fucking look it up or get help.

• opinions. It ok to have your own opinion and it’s ok to not like others. What’s not ok is harassment. If you don’t like it then move on. Unless their opinion is something grotesque like “[REALLY BAD S3xu@l THING] is ok if she/he was wearing xyz” then you report the person and inform others that the person isn’t very trustworthy. I personally am willing to listen to other people’s perspectives and take constructive criticism, having a wide view is good

Feel free to give me your opinions and your own criticisms. Give me advice and give me what you like. I like to know what others think and really hope that at least some of us could get along and understand each other. Inform me of anything I should add or take out!!