La posta del Clito

A lovely gothic style armor, Sallet attributed to Antonio Missaglia,

Helmet Weight: 6.2 lbs/2.8 kg

Beyond Types, there are Specific Tips of Condom Use in General

“1.    Check the package for expiration dates, holes, tears.

2.    Put the condom on and leave it on for the complete duration of the sexual activity.

3.    Still use lubricant that is not included on the condom. However, double check the lubricant label to make sure that it is condom receptive.

4.    Do not unroll the condom or blow it up like a balloon before using. Although, it could be fun – it will ruin the condom.

5.    Make sure to leave room at the tip for the ejaculate by pinching the end of the condom when putting it on the penis.

6.    After ejaculation, still remove the penis immediately and take it away from the vagina before taking the condom off. This will help ensure no unwanted sperm makes its way in the vagina.

7.    Condoms are one time use only!! Using it again can make your partner susceptible to infections” (Lehmiller, 2014)

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I’m a firm believer everyone should take at least one human sexuality class in their lifetime. I’m not talking about that awkward 5th grade class when a random woman came in talking about tampons and pads. Or that time in 9th grade when another random woman came into school with “Betty boob” and “Tommy testicle” and through awkward giggles instructed how to test for breast cancer. Or that health class in twelfth grade where we learned about condoms. Those are great and much needed; especially in the U.S. where sexual education is highly lacking and if taught at all, doesn’t even need to be accurate information. Most sex education in America revolves around “abstinence only” education, especially in more conservative states like the mid-west or down south. The first real sex ed class I took was in my second year of college. It was a human sexuality 100 (entry level) class. For one semester we learned both the physiology and psychology of sexual intercourse. We learned the basics such as STI education and resources for sexual assault. When I tell people I’m going to graduate school for sexuality studies, I get one of two responses. “(intrigued) wow, how’s that?” Or (freaked out) just “wow.” They either end the conversation or develop an interest thinking I study the kama sutra every night. This isn’t the case.

“Sex education helps people gain the information, skills and motivation to make healthy decisions about sex and sexuality. Sex education is high quality teaching and learning about a broad variety of topics related to sex and sexuality, exploring values and beliefs about those topics and gaining the skills that are needed to navigate relationships and manage one’s own sexual health. Sex education may take place in schools, in community settings, or online. Comprehensive sexuality education refers to K-12 programs that cover a broad range of topics related to: Human Development (including reproduction, puberty, sexual orientation, and gender identity) Relationships (including families, friendships, romantic relationships and dating) Personal Skills (including communication, negotiation, and decision-making) Sexual Behavior (including abstinence and sexuality throughout life) Sexual Health (including sexually transmitted diseases, contraception, and pregnancy) Society and Culture (including gender roles, diversity, and sexuality in the media).”

All in all, human sexuality is the way people experience and express themselves sexually. This involves biological, erotic, physical, emotional, social, or spiritual feelings and behaviors. Because it is a broad term, which has varied over time, it lacks a precise definition. Sex plays an important part in our social and personal lives. The scientific study of sex is important for reproductive health, our psychological well-being and society as a whole. Sex is something every group of people in the world has in common and plays a universal role in human life.

The band is at the base of the condom. It’s latex is made thicker here than the shaft and is, therefore, less elastic. The band keeps the condom secure so it does not come off mid-insertion and so penial fluids do not leak from the condom. To do this, the band has to keep a very tight grip on the base of the penis. This is the main complaint from people using condoms too small for them. The shaft’s plastic can stretch comfortably, but the band is not so lenient and uncomfortably or painfully squeezes the base of the penis.

Condoms in use experience a lot of friction. For a condom’s shaft or band to be stretched farther than it was intended weakens the latex. The band and shaft are then at risk of being broken from the friction. It fitting does not mean it is sustainable.

One of the many failures of sex ed in this country is the notion that there’s only two types of condom, “fits everyone except those elephant-trunk-cock freaks” and “for elephant-trunk-cock freaks or lying braggarts” (and yes, there’s implicit shame in the idea of people needing non-”regular”-sized condoms and the genesis for such is pretty likely rooted in some really nasty viewpoints about certain groups of people but I’m digressing).

But penises come in a LOT of dimensions, and not all of them fit right in a “normal” condom. You don’t need to have a monster down there for a condom to be legitimately painful and/or break mid-act. This can leave a lot of people legitimately unawares that it doesn’t have to be like this. (I was, early on.)

Condom too tight? That’s a real problem for the reasons pointed out above. But it’s a solvable one at most drug stores, which generally have a broader (ha ha) selection than your Walmarts or Targets. Or suck it up (ha ha) and go to an “adult boutique” (a proper one) where they’re likely to have even more options and let’s be real here the people working at these aren’t gonna give you Looks over condom selection. Or shop at said boutiques online if you REALLY need to avoid the in-person thing.

And if you think you’re gonna be doing things requiring condoms, HAVE YOUR OWN. Yes, even if you personally don’t have a penis. Buy a box of large-size as well just in case.

E tromba, no?

At Planned Parenthood, we understand that your period is a normal (if not always welcome) part of life — and that it can be harder to track your period and manage your birth control method in the midst of vacation schedules and travel. This summer, Spot On, Planned Parenthood’s free period tracker and birth control app, makes it easier for you to understand your unique cycle so that you can rule it, instead of it ruling you.

Here is a helpful guide to having the best summer ever, period or no period.

By Dr. Raegan McDonald-Mosley, Chief Medical Officer at Planned Parenthood Federation of America

Swimming? Use a tampon or menstrual cup if you’re going to be in the water while on your period.

During summer, you don’t have to avoid cooling off in the water just because you have your period. Tampons or menstrual cups should keep you leak-free.

Remember to change out of your bathing suit or wet clothes to avoid infection.

It’s actually normal for yeast to live and grow in your vagina – as well as your mouth and intestines. A yeast infection occurs when yeast, also called candida, grows too much – often when the normal conditions of the vagina have changed and the balance is thrown off. It can happen for a lot of reasons: certain antibiotics, changes in hormone levels, pregnancy, etc. Yeast likes to grow in damp places, so one way to prevent an infection is to keep your genital area as dry as possible: rinse and dry thoroughly after showers, use dry towels, and – you guessed it – avoid sitting around in a wet swimsuit.

In addition to avoiding sitting around in a wet pair of underwear or a wet bathing suit for very long, you should be cautious about spending too much time in fabric that doesn’t breathe well – like some exercise shorts – which can trap moisture and heat and put you at a higher risk of yeast or bacterial infections.

Symptoms of a yeast infection include abnormal vaginal discharge that is thick, white, and odorless, as well as itching or burning. There are many different treatments for a yeast infection including pills, creams, suppositories and vaginal and oral tablets, and many of these are available over the counter. Check with your provider or a Planned Parenthood health center before picking up over-the-counter medications so you can be sure that you’re following the right treatment plan.

It’s ok to go commando.

Giving your vulva a chance to breathe can be  a good thing – and there’s nothing inherently unhealthy about going without undies. Vaginal discharge is perfectly normal, but it can leave a stain on underwear or clothing. Most people wear underwear to feel comfortable and keep their clothes clean, but it’s totally up to you.

If you do wear underwear, make sure you change into a clean, dry pair every day. The most important thing is to wear what makes you comfortable while simultaneously keeping your vulva clean and dry.  You can do this by wearing cotton underwear or clothes, or a similar fabric that wicks away moisture from the skin.  If you’re not inclined to give up daytime underwear, you might want to lose your underwear at night and just wear a comfy pair of cotton pajamas.

Traveling can mess with the timing of your period.

Sometimes when we’re headed out on vacation, our periods can be late catching the flight. There are a lot of reasons your menstrual cycle may change, including your birth control method, illness, medication, over-exercising, poor nutrition, stress, sudden weight gain or loss – and traveling.

So it’s normal to see differences in your period if you’re traveling – but if you’ve had unprotected sex or think you might be pregnant, take a pregnancy test or visit your local Planned Parenthood health center.

If wedding season is cramping your style, know that you don’t have to get your period every month.

That’s right: If you are using hormonal birth control, like birth control pills, the implant, or the IUD, there’s no medical reason why you need to get your period every month. Combination birth control pills can be used to control when and how often you have your period.  Some pills are specially packaged for you to have only a few periods a year, and others can also be used continuously to prevent having periods.

Sometimes periods cause severe health problems (like anemia or painful cramps), and sometimes people just simply don’t want to bleed or have cramps every month. Sometimes you have a really important date with a bridesmaid dress and you don’t want to be thinking about your period. Either way, it’s totally fine to use hormonal birth control to regulate or eliminate your period. If you want to skip or stop having periods, talk with your doctor or nurse about how this is done.

Nix the sex on the beach.

Sex on the beach or in a pool might seem romantic in the movies but, sex and water – chlorinated, natural, or salt water – generally don’t mix well. Water washes away your natural lubricant, so you could experience more chafing and discomfort. If you’re using a condom, less lubrication means more risk that the condom could rip or tear. The odds are even worse in a hot tub, since heat increases the risk of tearing.

The natural water of lakes and rivers contains bacteria, which could find its way into your vagina during sexual activity, putting you at risk for infections. Chlorinated water can also contain bacteria, so pools aren’t necessarily safer. And the chemicals used in pools and hot tubs could disrupt your body’s natural balance and cause a yeast infection, as well as irritate your more sensitive regions. Bottom line: it’s best to stay out of the water if you’re planning to get intimate.

Wherever you get lucky this summer, remember to use condoms to prevent sexually transmitted infections.

Stay away from “feminine washes” or douching, year round.

You don’t need to use feminine washes or douches to be fresh and clean – and they can actually actually be harmful to your body. Scented products often have harsh chemicals that strip away the natural and healthy bacteria that are in the vagina. This can irritate vaginal skin, and leave the vagina prone to infection from other bacteria. The vagina is self cleaning, so you don’t need to add all of these cleaning products. Just use a mild soap and rinse thoroughly.

This Is Your Uterus On Your Period

These are life-sized replicas of the non-menstruating uterus (white) and the menstruating uterus. So now if you wonder why you’re feeling bloated, heavy, and like your uterus is weighed down like a canon ball, look at this photo. Our bodies are doing some crazy stuff. You have the right to take it slow. Your uterus just doubled in size.

Bella domanda… e mi fa piacere (non è così scontato)che tu sappia che il suo meccanismo di azione è ANTIOVULATORIO, quindi teoricamente non efficace se l’ovulo è già stato scodellato.

E invece è un po’ più complicato (a vantaggio di chi lo usa) di così.

Come le decine di ask che puntualmente pubblico dimostrano (e colgo così l’occasione per rispondere a quelli in sospeso) i sanguinamenti a metà ciclo, i dolori, i crampi, i ritardi, le mestruazioni che durano due settimane o che non arrivano per tre mesi ci raccontano di un meccanismo molto delicato, reso possibile solo dal perfetto equilibrio ormonale di estrogeni e progesterone, i livelli normali dei quali permettono la maturazione dell’ovulo, LA SUA DISCESA e, nel mentre, la preparazione del terreno di cultura, l’endometrio.L’ulipristal agisce proprio sui livelli di estrogeni e progesterone, saturandone i siti di azione e ritardando o bloccando proprio l’ovulazione, quindi teoricamente efficace nell’agire fino a pochi attimi prima del rilascio dell’ovulo.

Esiste quindi una finestra di 12-24 ore tra il momento in cui l’ovulo può essere ancora bloccato e il momento in cui l’ovulo ‘invecchia’ e non è più fecondabile, finestra nella quale si deve tenere conto della lentezza con gli spermatozoi risalgono l’utero e le tube.

Appurato che è molto più facile rimanere gravide se si tromba UNO O DUE GIORNO PRIMA dell’ovulazione (gli spermatozoi sopravvivono tre-quattro giorni) e non DURANTE, c’è da tenere in considerazione una caratteristica dell’ulipristal furbescamente taciuta perché non gli si appioppi tout court l’etichetta di ABORTIVO.

L’ulipristal inibisce anche tutti quei meccanismi biologici di preparazione dell’endometrio, il tessuto uterino che dovrà ospitare l’ovulo fecondato, e quindi, anche qualora fosse assunto poco dopo lo scodellamento dell’ovulo, se questo dovesse essere già fecondato, non troverebbe ad accoglierlo un terreno di crescita adatto e verrebbe quindi espulso. 

Di sicuro in maniera di molto inferiore come probabilità, ma l'efficacia superiore a qualsiasi altra molecola qualche volta è data dall’effetto ANTIANNIDATIVO sull’ovulo fecondato, quindi siate onesti nel difenderlo perché seguendo il (discutibile) ragionamento dei prolife, ma la morale è del gruppo, l’ulipristal è un farmaco ABORTIVO.