Why Not

Relationships won’t stay the same. Its not going to be like the first time, it will never be stagnant. He might not be as sweet as those first few weeks, he might not text you as often, he might seem like he’s no longer ‘crazy’ about you, he might not sound that excited anymore when talking to you. And when you could finally feel the difference, you’re trying to get used to it, although its hard. I know that there are huge changes and its clearly obvious. And sooner or later all those negative thoughts will fill your mind and you might think that he doesn’t love you anymore or he’s just bored. Its hard to deal with. You start comparing him then and now, you start reading old messages and compare it to his last messages. You want to ask about it. You really do. But ‘Expect changes,’ they said.

I think the saddest thing in this world, is to watch someone you love turn into everything you hate.

today my anthro professor said something kindof really beautiful: