teenagehjerne

take care of yourselves today i’m serious bitch

you can fuck her like a slut and still respect her

do you ever look at someone and think ‘man, what a work of art’

Might fuck around and accept the things I cannot change

There is no one I’d rather be than me. From my hair to my nails to the way that I talk to the clothes I wear to my opinions and views and values to my talents and interests, I really love myself. I can’t imagine not feeling this way about myself. I really don’t want be anyone else.

You survived the trauma, you will survive the recovery

meaningful and deep relationships require difficult conversations. often unpleasant conversations about how we can improve and how we can be better friends, siblings or partners to the people around us. special bonds aren’t entirely made of good moments, but the moments that were hard and yet you still made it through because you care about the other person.

You disrespect yourself when you beg someone for BARE MINIMUM things like love, attention, respect, affection, support, reciprocation, etc. Don’t do that shit again.

never underestimate the power of the way you talk to/about yourself. if you reblog every positive post with something negative and self deprecating, if you deflect every compliment by pointing out something you hate about yourself and if you keep everything good at armslength, that’ll eventually manifest itself in your entire life and affect your entire mindset in the long term. positive self talk in whichever form (sarcastic or not) is always better than actively putting yourself down. be more mindful of the manner in which you address yourself.

There's nothing softer and more gentle then loving someone with your whole heart never once holding back when it comes to them. That's true love, that would we all crave and dream of, the down, just to have someone who will love us wholeheartedly and accept our flaws and listen to us, someone who says

happiness comes in waves, it’ll find you again.

do u ever stop for a second and be like hey. i fucking deserve better than that. fuck that person and how they treated me.

when will my heart finally get to rest???? i’m tired of being in so much pain.

havde det virkelig sjovt i går men nu har jeg den der klassiske følelse af at det gik et eller andet galt

hmm I think I will simply devote this year to loving myself more

One important lesson I’ve learned is that building healthy relationships with everything in your life is necessary. With time, sleep, yourself, trauma, emotions, habits, family, relationships, etc. Once you find balance, everything else falls into place.