he was drinking moonshine

sorry for calling a predatory misogynistic sexpest “he” will you ever forgive me

TAYLOR SWIFT and TRAVIS KELCE At New York Knicks at Cleveland Cavaliers

NOSFERATU (2024) dir. Robert Eggers

Instance #10297272 of woman transitioning so she has permission to exist as a human being

^^^^^

this is like finding a journal written by someone before the zombie apocalypse happened

I commiserate. The number of people, men & women, young & old, stranger & love one, through out my life that felt completely comfortable commenting on my boobs without warning is literally uncountable. Luckily, as an older woman, I now have the tools to tell them "you thought that was acceptable to say?" and make them uncomfortable. The best defense is to just call them out on that shit. "You should get a reduction" "I don't remember asking you your opinion on that" etc. If you really want to be sassy you can always respond something like "let me be decent and ask you first before I do which part of your body you'd like me to comment on" I mean like really practice getting to the point of the matter, not just explaining why they shouldn't or how it makes you feel. Like put all the energy on their behavior and calling it out.

it was a necessary thing for me to do, as i was at risk of developing some spinal pathologies, i don't regret it by any means, but when i see it treated as some sort of a new, fun way to spend your free afternoon, my blood boils for a second

edit of this TRA graphic

Rachel McAdams as Linda Liddle SEND HELP | 2026 dir. Sam Raimi

AND SO IS BEING SOMEBODY'S MOTHER‼️

it is about being a woman. hope that helps!

what trait are you perpetuating when you assume that women who do not want to be wives and mothers must be aroace or trans? is it gender essentialism?

by safi kok

TAYLOR SWIFT "I Knew It, I Knew You"

Do they not wonder why people are fucking exhausted of all of this

Please walk on eggshells for me so you will always blame yourself first, should something happen.

It feels amazing.

Something about the deer role playing blog breaking character only to repudiate terfs is sending me

peers bullying you for your sensitivity, parents blowing up at you for liking Girl Things, boys saying you aren't really a boy because you're a pussy are things that happen to boys because they were born and raised male. being the world's sweetest most gentle and sensitive effeminate little child who never hurt a fly or did a misogyny doesn't make the male socialisation not exist. the socialisation one receives isn't an "I consent!" thing it's the way people treat you differently based on your gender. transitioning later in life doesn't magically stop wider society from being homophobic, transphobic & misogynistic and enforcing rigid expectations based upon this on anyone in society.